I am writing this in response to a reply to a Yuv-Trish post. Now the complaint was that Yuv-Trish fans (one of whom is yours truly) keep saying the same thing over and over again about wanting the couple back together, as if NOONE has ever repeated the same about Taaj (This really of course is a mockery--Taj is about the simple, eternal nature of love; Taaj is about lies, sadness, and sacrifice, all voluntarily made). And to top it all off, these Taaj replies way outnumber our minority and at times, have some of the most horrific gaps in logic and judgment I've seen on this simple matter. (It is very simple. People just complicate everything, damning themselves.) I'm sure some of you will say the same about my little diatribe here! đ
Look, here's where I come from, and it's likely others like me feel the same:
--Because, still fresh in my mind, are the many, many scenes of Yuv and Trish together. And despite what some replies have said, it wasn't a childish or superficial development between the two. It had its odd moments, but if anyone sincerely believes that Tanya and Raj have a "DEEPER", and my personal favorite, "MORE COMMITTED" relationship based on "MATURITY" AND "TRUST", huh? Are you for real? Are we watching the same show??? I'm serious. I have not put my rose tinted glasses on and hence to me, Tanya and Yuvraj are "convenience, friendship, and stupidity" personified. What a stupid relationship. What stupid reasons for entering it. Her izzat, give me a stinking break!
-- Oh, by the way, you Tanya fans, you have absolutely every right to hero-worship her. However, I have to say I have never seen as empty-headed a character as her. Every time I see her, her mouth is open in shock or she's weeping with her head down. IS SHE MUTE??? Watching the lack of chemistry between the two is painful, and I know you are saying there is chemistry there, you can see the little buds of love blossom, oh so much potential for love. Well, this is why I said earlier, "are we watching the same show?" I'm thinking people are unconsciously seeing love when the only conscious love there is is between Yuv and Trishna.
-- Pity thing-- This was a PITY MARRIAGE, this was a MARRIAGE to save reputations and families. And many Yuv-Tanya fans believe they should make the best of it and water those love buds--albeit unconscious--and watch love blossom with time and understand and......vivaahs have been consummated and are not to be broken. I'm going out on a limb and say that I must be terribly immoral because I do not feel this way about these marriages. Hold on to your hats now! I'm actually praying the vows break...the sooner, the better.
-- For those who criticize Trish, can you tell me what your problem is exactly? Is it because she consummated with Deep? How she then felt she had lost her love? Why did she marry Deep in the first place? You know what, look back and see who is the true victim in this, the person who has had to make choices that normally she would not have made, how her life was snatched from her. For those who think, oh this just must be Tanya, I'd say get real. She got raped, which in itself is horrific. She makes really bad decisions. Yuv married her to "save her", oh how Robin-Hood of him, the fool! Now look at Trishna. She falls deeply in love with Raj, and he her. She was willing to go against her family to marry him. Please do not think about the childishness, etc. I hate to break it to you but love and relationships are childish, are mature, are contradictory, are passionate, are desperate, are annoying, and are a "high" like nothing else. They are not about marrying your love's sister because you want her family to be happy. What the f*ck is that? It's so surreal, so stupid. To end this little point, her love married Tanya. I have a little special for Tanya-lovers: Tanya did not say NO to Yuv and stood there...right...with her mouth open. And many of you criticize Trish for not saying NO to Deep...so like, please tell me the difference). Oh, and Trishna was forced into the decision by her mom, by Yuv marrying Tanya, etc. Just like Tanya being forced to remain silent because of her family.
You know, I wish people would just be fair to Trishna and Yuv. Matter of fact, I recommend looking at early Yuv/Trishna moments up to the point of his marriage to poor little Tanya. Really get what's happening. Then look at the wedding ceremony and all the signs, after the wedding/tears at night, and tell me that what Trishna and Raj have is not stronger than what he has with Tanya. There is no comparison!
And, if you haven't guessed, I like you am a big romantic. I have seen and learned that love when it is love is a formidable thing. And I just don't see that with Tanya. And hope all you want, it would be like a guy marrying his cousin--it's that yucky type of relationship. Trishna is bright, while Tanya is dull. And no, it is not because of what she's been through alone.
Write back. I did not mean to offend anyone, really. I have pretty rough opinions. But I love this show, like you love the show. I, however, am anxiously awaiting Yuv and Trishna to be thrown together alone.