Trish-Yuv haters: Have you gone mad?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Ok, let's say off the bat that everyone is entitled to their opinions and to express them once, twice, or 10 times if they so choose.
I am writing this in response to a reply to a Yuv-Trish post. Now the complaint was that Yuv-Trish fans (one of whom is yours truly) keep saying the same thing over and over again about wanting the couple back together, as if NOONE has ever repeated the same about Taaj (This really of course is a mockery--Taj is about the simple, eternal nature of love; Taaj is about lies, sadness, and sacrifice, all voluntarily made). And to top it all off, these Taaj replies way outnumber our minority and at times, have some of the most horrific gaps in logic and judgment I've seen on this simple matter. (It is very simple. People just complicate everything, damning themselves.) I'm sure some of you will say the same about my little diatribe here! 😆

Look, here's where I come from, and it's likely others like me feel the same:
--Because, still fresh in my mind, are the many, many scenes of Yuv and Trish together. And despite what some replies have said, it wasn't a childish or superficial development between the two. It had its odd moments, but if anyone sincerely believes that Tanya and Raj have a "DEEPER", and my personal favorite, "MORE COMMITTED" relationship based on "MATURITY" AND "TRUST", huh? Are you for real? Are we watching the same show??? I'm serious. I have not put my rose tinted glasses on and hence to me, Tanya and Yuvraj are "convenience, friendship, and stupidity" personified. What a stupid relationship. What stupid reasons for entering it. Her izzat, give me a stinking break!
-- Oh, by the way, you Tanya fans, you have absolutely every right to hero-worship her. However, I have to say I have never seen as empty-headed a character as her. Every time I see her, her mouth is open in shock or she's weeping with her head down. IS SHE MUTE??? Watching the lack of chemistry between the two is painful, and I know you are saying there is chemistry there, you can see the little buds of love blossom, oh so much potential for love. Well, this is why I said earlier, "are we watching the same show?" I'm thinking people are unconsciously seeing love when the only conscious love there is is between Yuv and Trishna.
-- Pity thing-- This was a PITY MARRIAGE, this was a MARRIAGE to save reputations and families. And many Yuv-Tanya fans believe they should make the best of it and water those love buds--albeit unconscious--and watch love blossom with time and understand and......vivaahs have been consummated and are not to be broken. I'm going out on a limb and say that I must be terribly immoral because I do not feel this way about these marriages. Hold on to your hats now! I'm actually praying the vows break...the sooner, the better.
-- For those who criticize Trish, can you tell me what your problem is exactly? Is it because she consummated with Deep? How she then felt she had lost her love? Why did she marry Deep in the first place? You know what, look back and see who is the true victim in this, the person who has had to make choices that normally she would not have made, how her life was snatched from her. For those who think, oh this just must be Tanya, I'd say get real. She got raped, which in itself is horrific. She makes really bad decisions. Yuv married her to "save her", oh how Robin-Hood of him, the fool! Now look at Trishna. She falls deeply in love with Raj, and he her. She was willing to go against her family to marry him. Please do not think about the childishness, etc. I hate to break it to you but love and relationships are childish, are mature, are contradictory, are passionate, are desperate, are annoying, and are a "high" like nothing else. They are not about marrying your love's sister because you want her family to be happy. What the f*ck is that? It's so surreal, so stupid. To end this little point, her love married Tanya. I have a little special for Tanya-lovers: Tanya did not say NO to Yuv and stood there...right...with her mouth open. And many of you criticize Trish for not saying NO to Deep...so like, please tell me the difference). Oh, and Trishna was forced into the decision by her mom, by Yuv marrying Tanya, etc. Just like Tanya being forced to remain silent because of her family.

You know, I wish people would just be fair to Trishna and Yuv. Matter of fact, I recommend looking at early Yuv/Trishna moments up to the point of his marriage to poor little Tanya. Really get what's happening. Then look at the wedding ceremony and all the signs, after the wedding/tears at night, and tell me that what Trishna and Raj have is not stronger than what he has with Tanya. There is no comparison!

And, if you haven't guessed, I like you am a big romantic. I have seen and learned that love when it is love is a formidable thing. And I just don't see that with Tanya. And hope all you want, it would be like a guy marrying his cousin--it's that yucky type of relationship. Trishna is bright, while Tanya is dull. And no, it is not because of what she's been through alone.

Write back. I did not mean to offend anyone, really. I have pretty rough opinions. But I love this show, like you love the show. I, however, am anxiously awaiting Yuv and Trishna to be thrown together alone.

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Chahat17 thumbnail
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Posted: 17 years ago
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This show is a fictious soap so don't get so emotional and start an offensive post, as it could lead to hate war in discussions. You can feel however you want about every character, as each person is entitled to their opinion. You must keep in mind, these fictious characters are written by writers and the creatives head decide a certain track. There is no one better than the other...try to accept the story as it and enjoy the show. When a new track develops then things will change.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I love the way you write!😊 Don't worry we are watching same show. 😆 Just from different point of view. The majority of this forum see the beauty in Tanya and Yuvi's relationship.

Beside I think you have got it all wrong

1. No one hates Trish and Yuvraj. Everyone who likes Tanya likes trish too. We just like Taaj better

2. Taaj's marriage is not based on lie. That's saint trish's relationship. Taaj is based on sacrifice and compromise.

3. We don't think they are in love we think they have a stronger base for having a stronger love.

Last but not least for the 100th times This is a show.😃 It's great you are a Trish/yuvi supporter but try not to get so worked up about it.😳 Obviously Tanya fans will find this offensive. I love Tanya and I don't like it when someone is mean about her.

And do you not watch other soaps?😕 I wish people would stop acting this is the 1st time couples are getting separated from their love. That what makes shows!

* Jai bani are one of the best couples on tv their marriage was based on hate. Bani loved Pushkar, Jai loved Pia yet they are one of the best couple on tv. And they have a love that beats their 1st love. Even though one couldn't find a fault in bani's love for Pushkar.

* Milind Prachi- Milind loved Ayesha all his life. Prachi was devoted to Neev. YET they are so passionately in love they can't think anything else but each other. Their love truly brings tears to my eyes!

* Karan Nandini (couple that wins best jodi award every year) - Karan was in love with Damini. Compared to the love he has for Nandini, Damini is nothing.

Sorry for the examples but I am a romantic at heart but I didn't like Trish and Yuv's jodi. There was not a single thing that's special about their jodi. I wouldn't have watched the show if they were together.

And what is wrong with Tanya being the shy and quieter one? I don't understand why it's ok to be loud, obnoxious and playful but it's wrong to be quiet.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Sincerely sorry for any offense taken. Keep in mind, I prefaced everything I wrote with an understanding that all IF fans can have their own opinions and express them.

I perfectly understand this is a show and NO, I am not taking it seriously. I am merely critiquing and responding to other posts in a like manner.
As to questions regarding my TV watching habits, yes, I DO watch other shows on Zee and for some time. Actually, I like watching them when I can, and read the updates otherwise. I've even participated in at 4 other forums, so I understand the game. Yes, as per your question, I get that people get separated and get together on these shows all the time before they are inevitably killed off.

However, I will express my views. Again, they were not to offend. And if you look back on some responses, you'll see mine is in a similar vain but I root for the other team.

Thank you for your responses. Enjoyed reading them.


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Posted: 17 years ago
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gp00 i agree with you on all levels
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Posted: 17 years ago
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i think that you are allowed to post your own opinions but not in a way in which you would degrade Taaj fans, i think that is really insensitive and can start up the awful sorts of conversations, so no one really minds you posting your opinions just as long as you don't do it in a post with a title asking if Taaj fans have gone mad,
just a suggestion
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Point well taken. Just so you know, I did that so that the post actually gets read by the people I wanted it to be read by: Yuv-Tanya fans. Trust, when there is anything on this forum about Trish and Yuvraj, it does not get much attention or discussion.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I agree with you totally gp00. I wish Yuvraj and Trishna get together.
Their Jodi rocked from the time Yuvraj met Trishna at the airport.
Trishna-Yuvi U're the best
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Great post gp00 , I completely agree with you.

Only thing I'd say is I DON'T want Trishna back with Yuvraj. She deserves much better than a man who doesn't love her enough to trust her and cheats on her in the worst manner possible. I hope Trishna and Rajdeep are the great love story of this series .. they are both independant, have their opinions, have their faults and their strengths, all in all if well written would be much more worthwhile than Tanya and Raj's stupid relationship, which has no chemistry, no fire and two protagonists who are always guilty .. ugh.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I absolutely agree with Fatima. First off, let me start that I am not offended by your post and hope you don't get offended either😊
Anywho, you have no right to call us Trish-Yuv haters. We are not haters of any couple because this is not reality, it is a fiction-based soap opera. On top of all that, Trishna and Yuvraj did share a cute love story, but now they are married to other people. In soap operas it may work that even after marriage you might end up with someone else, but let's look at it this way: in reality, if a woman still loved her ex-boyfriend after marriage, she'd be called so many names. Yuvraj took a big step by marrying Tanya, and he was not the fool to do so. He saved Trishna's family pride. Especially the way the Kohlis are portrayed in the show, pride is a big deal. If it got out that Tanya was raped maybe she would not find another rishta. She didn't have a boyfriend who loves her and all, etc, etc. If Yuvraj hadn't married her, she would've married Kanhaiya out of feeling sorry for herself. That would've ruined her life, as well as Trishna's, because they are sisters. Would Trishna want Tanya to get raped and marry the stalker who is, nonetheless, a psycho? No sister can want that. On the other hand, Trishna's life is not ruined. Her husband loves her; its not as if she got some loser for a hubby. He is sweet, caring and kind towards her, and eventually she might fall in love with him. If we look at earlier moment of Yuvraj and Trishna, all I can say is, SO WHAT? Everyone has a past relationship. If you ever watched Kaisa Ye Pyar Hai, we can say Angad had many ex-girlfriends before Kripa. So does that mean we look at their cute scenes and forget everything else? The show's title is VIVAAH, which means that marriage is a special bond. Its not to be broken for something that has no meaning anymore-which is Trishna and Yuvraj's relationship. The biggest fool is Trishna-if she really loved Yuv, why'd she consume her marriage with Deep? Out of pressure or what? She could've asked for more time. If NOW she cries for Yuv, then she's a hypocrite, no offense. I love Pariva (Trish) more than any other actress in the show, even Shalini (Tanya), but let's face it-Yuv and Tanya's relationship is meant to grow now. Yes, I admit tha Tanya stood silent, which was kinda stupid of her. But so did Trish. There is a big difference between this-one didn't say anything to MARRIAGE, and one didn't say anything to SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE. I think Trishna's is worse here! You can get rid of marriage but you can't get rid of bed, honey! Just because Trishna is bright and Tanya is dull doesn't mean Yuvraj should marry Trishna. Vows are not to be broken. They're a spritual bond as well as physical. Even if it was pity marriage, it still was marriage. The story goes that Taaj are obviously going to be. If they break their marriage for Trish, then its so stupid-the show's title will have no meaning, as well as that Trishna slept with Yuv's best friend. It'll all be hypocritical!

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