Sita's banishment during her verge of motherhood

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hey guys, i was thinking on Sita's banishment and spl. when she was pregnant, i actually feel sorry for her that why Ramji has done this thing to her and spl. when she was on delicate and special part of her life and thats is motherhood. Moreover this is not only sitaji's but for Ramji also a very important phase.
but then suddenly i realize that if Sitaji was got banished her post pregnancy, or may be she was not pregnant that time, then what will happen....might be Sitaji and Ramji will never able to meet in Further future,(which actually becomes more unhappy ending),as Luv Kush was responsible for their meeting, and mainly becoz of her pregnancy and in such a delicate period of her life Sage Valmikiji has given her refuge in his hermitage. Otherwise, she might killed herself..

And later on she shows a great way to woman that how a woman alone can upbring her children and give them good education in such a harsh situation of her life.
For woman she is a example, mainly because of this part of Ramayan, and by going inside the esarth she has given the great lesson she will not accept the injustice done to her again and again...
Now, the only thing i can say if this episode was not happened then the true value of woman will not be understand by the people, and woman will remain overpowered by man. this scene is actually a strongest among the all and great in sense of characterization of woman identity...
Thats why it always said that Ramayan is a story of Ram and Sta not only Ram. if ramji has shown the man to how to be Gr8 being with in ur limits, then Sitaji has shown us how to be strong and maintain ur respect being in any situation without harming ur identity ..
Now the chapter which seems to me hard to accept is actually becomes very imp... to me
I can only say Prabhu ki lila amparampaar hai......

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Posted: 17 years ago
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thanks for this post !!!😊 all i can say is tht SITAJI represents real women power , RAM & SITA are true soulmates 😛😛& really cannot think in my worst dreams tht RAMJI asked SITAJI to leave ayodhya !!😭😭 this one question always makes me sooooooooo confused & sad 😭
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: sita11

thanks for this post !!!😊 all i can say is tht SITAJI represents real women power , RAM & SITA are true soulmates 😛😛& really cannot think in my worst dreams tht RAMJI asked SITAJI to leave ayodhya !!😭😭 this one question always makes me sooooooooo confused & sad 😭


exactly that what i feel sometime why this beloved pair got apart in the end, but there we have to realize that it was all for us... if God has not done this, we might not able to understand the true value of woman and her powers, moreover these thing actually give strength to us how to come out of our grief.............
what i feel, in every line of Ramayan there is a hidden meaning, but it all on us how to realize it....

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: sam1903


exactly that what i feel sometime why this beloved pair got apart in the end, but there we have to realize that it was all for us... if God has not done this, we might not able to understand the true value of woman and her powers, moreover these thing actually give strength to us how to come out of our grief.............
what i feel, in every line of Ramayan there is a hidden meaning, but it all on us how to realize it....

Exactly sam Ramayns each n every line teach a lotttt... What I know is Ramji was unaware of SItajis pregnancy as those were not the time to discuss all this openly. Ramji ordered Laxmanji & sumant to escort her till forest after crossing river and then come back... sitaji was unaware of this all ... but laxmanji & was crying all the time , she finally at the end came to know whats all going on but dint complaint of all as was Ramjis decision. She accepted it.
Then after laxmanjis departure, she was ending her life entering into river exactly this was expected by Lord Ram but then Valmikiji stopped her from doing so and then the rest.
Thats what I say all this happened to teach us how to behave in critical situations of life... following rules (maryada)....
Sitaji n Ramji both lived alone and lived for kids...
really Ram-sita character is just uncomparable..... Vishnuji wld have easily killed Ravan , there was no need of suffering all these pains but they suffered for us....... to teach us...
I am a big worshipper of Ram-Sita but now after this Ramayan and esp discussing all here in Forum, now I cant say how much I love Ram-sita...
All credit goes to this Ramayan for showing fvts in such a beautiful way...
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Posted: 17 years ago
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so RAMJI was unaware of SITAJI'S pregnancy 😲😲 if RAMJI wud hv known tht ,then he wud hv never let SITAJI to leave ayodhya 😭
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Posted: 17 years ago
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thanks rupa for all the info !!!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: sita11

thanks for this post !!!😊 all i can say is tht SITAJI represents real women power , RAM & SITA are true soulmates 😛😛& really cannot think in my worst dreams tht RAMJI asked SITAJI to leave ayodhya !!😭😭 this one question always makes me sooooooooo confused & sad 😭

i completely agree wid u di😭
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: rupalip

Exactly sam Ramayns each n every line teach a lotttt... What I know is Ramji was unaware of SItajis pregnancy as those were not the time to discuss all this openly. Ramji ordered Laxmanji & sumant to escort her till forest after crossing river and then come back... sitaji was unaware of this all ... but laxmanji & was crying all the time , she finally at the end came to know whats all going on but dint complaint of all as was Ramjis decision. She accepted it.
Then after laxmanjis departure, she was ending her life entering into river exactly this was expected by Lord Ram but then Valmikiji stopped her from doing so and then the rest.
Thats what I say all this happened to teach us how to behave in critical situations of life... following rules (maryada)....
Sitaji n Ramji both lived alone and lived for kids...
really Ram-sita character is just uncomparable..... Vishnuji wld have easily killed Ravan , there was no need of suffering all these pains but they suffered for us....... to teach us...
I am a big worshipper of Ram-Sita but now after this Ramayan and esp discussing all here in Forum, now I cant say how much I love Ram-sita...
All credit goes to this Ramayan for showing fvts in such a beautiful way...


But i heard in one of the Bhaghwath Katha coming on some religious channel that he knew abt it as per my knowledge, when Ramji came to know abt. it he sweetly asked her what she want as a gift, thenshe said that during their Vanvaas time they have got so much from all the sages their knownledge, gifts (eg. anusuyaji's gift ) and their love and care. So we should pay our tribute to them by giving them all the gifts and respect..... After hearing this he accepted Sita's wish and promised her to do the same....
and after that he went to do his some Raj karya....
then he came to know about all this rumors... and decide to banish Sita.. He asked Lakshman ji to take Sitaji in forest..... and as u said Lakshmanji was crying all the time and he was in big delima too as he has to follow his brother's order and secondly he has to leave her Bhabhi in the forest and that too on such a period of her life.
At that time Ramji locked himself in the same room where he used to do meeting with his minister. In the morning when lakshmanji asked Sitaji to proceed for the forest, then she enquired that will Raghunandan not come with them..then Lakshmanji relied that he his busy with some raj karya and having imp. Discussion with minister. At this pt. sitaji were thinking that Ramji asked Lakshmanji to take her for the same thing which he has promised last night'

After taking all the gifts which she want to present the Rishi Munis she gone to meet Ramji for his charan Vadna before living' but door attendant stopped her saying that Ramji would not meet her as he is in serious and confidential discussion with his minister'.

But on the other side Ramji was crying hard, as he is now Vachan badh and can not meet Sitaji for last time and was guilty too, as he has to take such decision. Here Sitaji, sit there and said she will wait for Raghunath and will go after doing Charanvadna'.(a very emotional sequence..), but after some time when he did not respond back and seeing Lakshmanji is waiting for her, then she said that Raghunath plz. Forgive me as I'm going without meeting you, but will back soon and rest is what u elaborates'.


One More interesting thing i came to know that Kansh was the same dhobhi who blamed on Sitaji.. As Ramji need to remain in his maryaada, he took revenge in Krishna Avtaara....(Janam Janm ka Bandhan)

Edited by sam1903 - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: sam1903


But i heard in one of the Bhaghwath Katha coming on some religious channel that he knew abt it as per my knowledge, when Ramji came to know abt. it he sweetly asked her what she want as a gift, thenshe said that during their Vanvaas time they have got so much from all the sages their knownledge, gifts (eg. anusuyaji's gift ) and their love and care. So we should pay our tribute to them by giving them all the gifts and respect..... After hearing this he accepted Sita's wish and promised her to do the same....
and after that he went to do his some Raj karya....
then he came to know about all this rumors... and decide to banish Sita.. He asked Lakshman ji to take Sitaji in forest..... and as u said Lakshmanji was crying all the time and he was in big delima too as he has to follow his brother's order and secondly he has to leave her Bhabhi in the forest and that too on such a period of her life.
At that time Ramji locked himself in the same room where he used to do meeting with his minister. In the morning when lakshmanji asked Sitaji to proceed for the forest, then she enquired that will Raghunandan not come with them..then Lakshmanji relied that he his busy with some raj karya and having imp. Discussion with minister. At this pt. sitaji were thinking that Ramji asked Lakshmanji to take her for the same thing which he has promised last night'

After taking all the gifts which she want to present the Rishi Munis she gone to meet Ramji for his charan Vadna before living' but door attendant stopped her saying that Ramji would not meet her as he is in serious and confidential discussion with his minister'.

But on the other side Ramji was crying hard, as he is now Vachan badh and can not meet Sitaji for last time and was guilty too, as he has to take such decision. Here Sitaji, sit there and said she will wait for Raghunath and will go after doing Charanvadna'.(a very emotional sequence..), but after some time when he did not respond back and seeing Lakshmanji is waiting for her, then she said that Raghunath plz. Forgive me as I'm going without meeting you, but will back soon and rest is what u elaborates'.


One More interesting thing i came to know that Kansh was the same dhobhi who blamed on Sitaji.. As Ramji need to remain in his maryaada, he took revenge in Krishna Avtaara....(Janam Janm ka Bandhan)

thank u lots for these informations
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Posted: 17 years ago
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thnx to sam n rupa for the info!

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