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ashson

@ashson

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Posted: 17 years ago

hi guys!

well i have a problem :(

i really like this guy (i think about him 24/7!) and im 99.9% he likes me too..the way he talks to me, looks at me, the way he feels shy around me (he acts differently around me compared to other girls), he always stares at me etc etc (so many hints that say that he likes me!)

but that was before.....i just saw him today again(after a couple weeks) and he completely ignored me! well i didnt say hi or anything...but when we made eye contact he looked away...i mean, i could tell he was looking at me when i wasnt (i saw from the corner of my eye), and then he smiled at me a few times but it wasnt like before. maybe it was because there were other people there today? idk...but i really want him to ask me out...i knowwwww he likes meeeee!

oh and he's gemini and im a taurus

i know we arent compatible but i really feel things cud work out!

HELPPPPPPPP<3

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@chhilt

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Posted: 17 years ago

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@aeshadpatel

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Posted: 17 years ago

well this is a game of love. i would say he gave u hints by saying your name and talking about you. so now he wants some responce from you. so u should taking good things about him while he is near by you or any chance u can get. he egnoured you because every guy wants to know that if anu girl is intrested in him or not. so first step is to stare or (nigahome bate karna) then second step is talk sweet about the girl. third step lay back, if the girl likes that guy then she will pass some good comments about that guy if not then fourth step egnore the girl for some days to let that girl know that he is ignoring you. which i think u did. now its your step to fill in. talk with that guy, dont ask why he is ignoring you. and dont be stobern(which all girls do). so talk with him, or may be letter u can pass on or a nice post card. u can pass out a nice friendship card if u want to. u know (close friendship card). go to archies if u can, ok . and then after 2 or 3 months let him make a proposal to you. girl u dont rush for that ok. and let me know if this works. well i am a guy and i know how this works. thanks in advance.

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@xsweetbabygyalx

Explorer

Posted: 17 years ago

I'm a girl and I'd been through this kind of situation. He's testing you to determine if you like him too or not. I agree with aeshadpatel on the four steps guys take to get the girl. I think guys nowadays just test the girl as they might had tried really hard and didn't get the girl. Some guys nowadays like and prefer their girl well the girl they really really like to make the first move first. I'm in that situation nowadays.

Steps you should take:

(1) talk to him

why? because it'll let him know that you are interested in him.

(2) tell him about your favorite things, such as stuff you love to collect, your favorite food and soft drinks (if you have any)

why? because he'll buy you something you like on random and surprise you as he'll remember it.

(3) exchange numbers.

why? because he'll have your number saved and he might not call you right away but you should call him daily or twice or thrice a week or more which will make him feel that you are really interested in him.

(4) buy him a gift

why? it'll create a little stronger bond.

(5) let him know you really like him

how? either in SmS or on a little notecard or a single red rose. In person, you can also say "you are my very special close friend" or whatever you're comfortable with.

best of luck and let me know if these steps worked than I'll help you with more steps.

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ashson

@ashson

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Posted: 17 years ago

^wow thanksss! im seeing him this sunday....i will def. talk to him and see what i can do! ;D

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Chhaliya

@Chhaliya

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Posted: 17 years ago

Since you really seem to like him, I suggest like what others said, that you talk to him. I think you should try and be friends with him. Good friends, if you guys can be friends, then there will always be something between you. and they say that "love is friendship on fire". Once you become friends, he'll understand you, you'll understand him. And since he already seems to like you, and you like him, the relationship with naturally develop into love. But I don't completely agree that you should make the first move. There could be so many reasons why he ignored you, maybe he wasn't having a good day, or like you said because there were people around (but if he really loves/likes you, it shouldnt matter whos around.. make sure this guy is worth it) and you really should say hi... just because he doesnt say hi, doesnt mean you shouldnt either. so definitely start by saying hi.. and don't rush things.. do everything you need to comfortabely and at ease.. although i know that can be hard when you like someone.. Good luck!

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