if you are at tara's place, what would you do?

i think tara is doing right things. if you are at tara's place, i would do same thing that tara did. ( tara ne kabhi kisi our ke bache per kabhi payar nahi lutaya jab tara khud bache ke liye tadapti thi.) so i think tara is more mature than saloni.

There's a saying its not what you do but how you do it.

true truee.. ^ ^ i agree with judyp about how tarah's ways/actions were wrong.

Originally posted by: judyp

There's a saying its not what you do but how you do it.

I am not disputing that its her child. But be kind in taking control of the situation. Do not be merciless... Gradually take control of the child.

Tara is the only person that really understands what Saloni is going through. Tara should stop talking and walk the talk.

To be honest Saloni will come out stronger from this because she will lose her dependency on the child. But Tara was given an opportunity to be kind and again rather than gently explaining to Saloni she snatched it away.....

I agree with you. Very well said. Nobody is disputing the fact that Tara would feel possessive about her child since she was kept away from the child for a long time and she had to go through many difficulties before she could hold the child in her arms. But I would say, that these experiences make one sensitive to others pain. The fact that Saloni lost her child in trying to save Tara's child is reason enough for Tara to be sensitive to Saloni's pain and help her heal. Tara knows the unhappiness one feels when one loses their child. So one would expect something more from Tara than what she is currently portraying.

Understandable what Saloni is going through but I think Tara did not do anything wrong. Tara finally got her son after such long misery and she has been overprotective of him since. Had she had him from day one, I think the situation and insecurity would not have been there much. But regardless, any mom will be overprotective of her child.

I thought it was sweet that Tara even asked Saloni's permission if she could take Aditiya. Saloni should not have said no. If Saloni wants to stay dependent on anothers child then that is not Tara's fault. Saloni can't use Aditya to replace her loss of her own child. It's selfish of her to want to take over the role of Adityas mom. She is his chachi and not his choti mom. He has a mother of his own and her name is Tara.

As Judy P pointed out, Saloni will come out stronger from these experiences. Also, Xlove - you make a real good point. Saloni should go get Nikita. Afterall, Kaveri has left Samar and instead of him having to turn to Kaveri or Ginni, he could just hand over his baby to Saloni.

this question is hard because then tara lost her son she went crazy pretending a doll is her son. So saloni jsut lost her child imagine the pressure and depression she is going through and saloni has helped her alot by finding her son saving him and losing her own life