hmmm whats wid all the negativity?

Hi guys

Is it just me or do I feel that I have come down to some alienish land?...😕 I still havent seen the episode so cant reallly comment on the same..will come up wid my posts a lil later..i have onli read da updates..and ya turned a blind eye to the negative posts of the day 🤣...heard abt it from nans...misty and a couple of other friends of mine and I am quiet chocked at the rxn ..Prem is Prem...i wud hav been rather surprised had he given his nod to Heer..regarding the marriage bit?..There was absoluteli no way he cud hav agreed to walk down the altar wid her esp. at this pt in time..btw he didnot literali "reject" her from wht i gather..i will still watch the episode to confirm the same. though..For Prem this is just not the "right time"...if u guys get wht i am tryn to stay...btw da last look on Prem's face...(from the snaps) when he is comin down and starin it Heer..just made me go😭...omg dis is the first time he realizes and he knows tht he has hurt her...😭..am i rite?..lol i am yet to cee it bt thts wht i cn make out..

btw my gut feeling says tht Prem will give in...he will...i dont fink da depth of heer's love will leave him wid any odr option😆

ohh and as for mb 🤣 🤣...gosh dont get me started 🤣

U r right. 😊 I am finkin the same. 😆 😊

Right now..I am so mad at Prem that I better not make any comments on him...I do understand his POV a bit(male ego thingy) but it's also annoying me..so I am going to sleep on it and discuss it tomorrow with a cool mind....

Ya Siddy...
Not just today...
I dunno y this negativity wave taking over.. *khafa* me no like it one bit..
It makes me uncomfortable... Scares me so I even keep away *sad muh*
I misshh my old spunky, positive and warm forum..
I thought it was just me.. but then u and RuRu

*Sigh* Kaash meri NuNu yehan hoti hai...
But there are still ppl like u, RuRu, Nandoo, Atop bacha, Payal, Estee... who are making me hold on to my faith in sanity...

And like RuRu said.. ishh like ppl and me are watching different things.. amazing😆

And I loved Additi's acting today..
And Heer and Prem were so Premeer-ilicious... I dunno baqi crap I swtiched off...
Maybe for a tiny second I was disappointed at the supposed 'refusal'(which I wudnt call that)
But then I was over it and glad that he reacted Prem-ly...

Originally posted by: Power20

Right now..I am so mad at Prem that I better not make any comments on him...I do understand his POV a bit(male ego thingy) but it's also annoying me..so I am going to sleep on it and discuss it tomorrow with a cool mind....

whyyy? I dont get it..I realli dont? Prem b4 today was hopeful..He went out for a job and didnot have a field day....he came bak dejected..logicalli speaking any man would want to settle and be financialli stable b4 walking the altar...the reasons he put forth b4 heer ...b4 "his" heer were absoluteli valid frm his POV...he didnot cee himself in a position sustainable enuf to marry the gurll..!!

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS POST, Sid....

We Needed It!

Indeed there has been so much negativity for the past week or so, and its all targeted on Prem. I just don't get it. Everyone seems to be misunderstanding Prem.

Its not male ego that made him say no...its human nature. All of us want security in our lives before we share our lives with someone else. Why should it be any different with Prem. Its not just that he doesn't have the money to provide for her, but he can't even give her the sasuraal she deserves...he can't even give her the respect she deserves.

Thanks for the post. Personally, I'm tired of saying it again and again...I feel like no one understands...

I stand my ground though...Prem was NOT wrong in his decision today. And the biggest point is that Heer understood him, his love, his majboori...and she will continue to stand by him, and wait for him. He didn't need to convey it to her...they know one another too well to actually need verbal confirmation.

Anyway, thanks again, and I hope that everyone comes out of this depression soon b/c quite frankly, its making the forum a drag...

**My comments are in no way intended to hurt anyone's feelings. Not trying to start controversy...this is just my opinion.**

Love,
~P

Originally posted by: sidrah fariq

whyyy? I dont get it..I realli dont? Prem b4 today was hopeful..He went out for a job and didnot have a field day....he came bak dejected..logicalli speaking any man would want to settle and be financialli stable b4 walking the altar...the reasons he put forth b4 heer ...b4 "his" heer were absoluteli valid frm his POV...he didnot cee himself in a position sustainable enuf to marry the gurll..!!

👏

Standing ovation to you for this my dear!

Originally posted by: sidrah fariq

whyyy? I dont get it..I realli dont? Prem b4 today was hopeful..He went out for a job and didnot have a field day....he came bak dejected..logicalli speaking any man would want to settle and be financialli stable b4 walking the altar...the reasons he put forth b4 heer ...b4 "his" heer were absoluteli valid frm his POV...he didnot cee himself in a position sustainable enuf to marry the gurll..!!

Well looks like me not going to wait till tomo😃

Ok..Prem is this amazingly talented Business man..he has a foreign degree(any Indian company would dig for) experience AND a BOY Award. People like him have to beat off the companies with a stick..they actually clamor with job offers.

Interview with RR was his first one..(me not counting the meeting thingy he kept getting ready for and then him playing in the rain) Anyway, he can get a JOB easily..it should be easy as a pie for him to get a job and he will get a job..so I don't get his dejection and negativity about the future.

And from what little I observed from the epi...he was quite happy in the beginning and searching for Heer(which I found adorable) to thank her(?), talk to her(?) but he overheard Meher and Heer's employer instead. And that made him feel like Heer's wearing the pants in their family, which is a big blow to the ego for Prem apparently..the guy is quite traditional and so conservative.

And he is also feeling sorry for himself and just somewhere in him I think he's repenting/regretting leaving his family..and there's guilt too towards Ashlesha and his dad. He feels like he let down his dad and he has never done that before..Prem the perfect son that he was...and somewhere I think he is associating Heer with the loss of "Perfect son" title. So he's insecure right now..heartbroken due to his dad's insults and his ego was bruised by Heer's job and borrowed money.

So I think there's a HUGE chunk of self pity ruling our perfect Prem right now.

Ok..what I really disliked about Prem was his male ego...he would prefer heer and Meher to be depended on him but he cannot accept Heer's supporting their household till he gets a job and so he rejected her...I mean, can he imagine the guts it must have taken Heer to confess and propose to him? And he was so..I dunno..I just felt so let down with his dialogues and his behaviour today....

Originally posted by: -Faith-

Ya Siddy...
Not just today...
I dunno y this negativity wave taking over.. *khafa* me no like it one bit..
It makes me uncomfortable... Scares me so I even keep away *sad muh*
I misshh my old spunky, positive and warm forum..
I thought it was just me.. but then u and RuRu

*Sigh* Kaash meri NuNu yehan hoti hai...
But there are still ppl like u, RuRu, Nandoo, Atop bacha, Payal, Estee... who are making me hold on to my faith in sanity...

And like RuRu said.. ishh like ppl and me are watching different things.. amazing😆

And I loved Additi's acting today..
And Heer and Prem were so Premeer-ilicious... I dunno baqi crap I swtiched off...
Maybe for a tiny second I was disappointed at the supposed 'refusal'(which I wudnt call that)
But then I was over it and glad that he reacted Prem-ly...

Okay I just saw the episode..and i dont fink the forum will get enuf of me now 🤣..for i absoluteli loved the episode...dere was no crap..wht crap u tokn abt 🤣/..i had a good lafff..i got emotional and den i gave a standin ovation to prem and heer 🤣...wah wht an episode...

Originally posted by: IndianPari

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS POST, Sid....

We Needed It!

Indeed there has been so much negativity for the past week or so, and its all targeted on Prem. I just don't get it. Everyone seems to be misunderstanding Prem.

Its not male ego that made him say no...its human nature. All of us want security in our lives before we share our lives with someone else. Why should it be any different with Prem. Its not just that he doesn't have the money to provide for her, but he can't even give her the sasuraal she deserves...he can't even give her the respect she deserves.

Thanks for the post. Personally, I'm tired of saying it again and again...I feel like no one understands...

I stand my ground though...Prem was NOT wrong in his decision today. And the biggest point is that Heer understood him, his love, his majboori...and she will continue to stand by him, and wait for him. He didn't need to convey it to her...they know one another too well to actually need verbal confirmation.

Anyway, thanks again, and I hope that everyone comes out of this depression soon b/c quite frankly, its making the forum a drag...

**My comments are in no way intended to hurt anyone's feelings. Not trying to start controversy...this is just my opinion.**

Love,
~P

Of course not...I never said Prem was wrong in his decision..he just cannot see Heer supporting him..it's a blow to his ego granted but refusing her proposal was just so harsh..he could have said "Wait till I get a job" or something kind but it was "main ye nahi kar sakta" I dunno who was more shocked..Me or Heer..I mean the girl just proposed to him and he flatly refused!

~Triv