I like a girl in India, does she like me?

Hi all,

(Veryyy sorry if this is the wrong posting section....Pls move to right section)...

Need some guidence or tips - quick recap of my story -

Went to India met my Uncle who was really good friends with this other ppl (the girls father/mother) so we would visit them regularly. I went with my uncle then we would sit and chat with her parents, but then I met her...It was like wow "who are you"! (but i didnt act like lovey/filmy when I first saw her)... So for like 4-5 days I would be with her mostly around the place because didnt want to chat with the elders...Within this time we bonded and I think she likes me, and I like her too much (i think more than she does)...When I was leaving she told me " i think you will forget me", I told her "never"...So she gave me her phone# (I did not ask for it, as I thought it would be bad for me to do, but she wanted me to take it) and she told me to call her when I was leaving and when I landed in the US...I did both... Also her parents really liked me alot, they still do, I spoke to them the other day, father speaks good english her mother not too much, but I still speak to her in Hindi ....

Now couple months later we barely chat on the phone but I sms back to her now and then, email weekly...But I think the bond is fading a little... She wanted to see my family/house so I just sent a video CD of myself and our home where I live...I Think this will build a better connection as well...

I think she likes me, there were so many signs everytime we would hang out, when I was leaving she was sooo sad.... I told them I would come back in october and she was really happy, so was her parents as well...I like her parents as well very kind ppl.. Her parents dont mind me speaking/emailing/sms'ing her at all...

I think she is either playing hard to get, or she does not want to fall in love or show her true emotions....I think it might be that we live so far apart....I am not sure...I just think about her everyday...Her photo is on my phone, she placed it as my background while I was in India with her...I just love her so much because she is so simple/religious and caring.... I just cant even look or think about any other girl except her...

Sorry for the long story (its actually alooot longer for the full details)...

But I wanted to know, how could I make the relationship stronger with my friend in India? I think we have similar interests, food, basketball, motorbikes, school work, Bollywood films/music and religion and being down to earth etc...

Thx for reading my story..😊..

Any ideas to keep the relationship going untill I go back in October?

Awesome story! I really liked it. I think the best way to keep the relationship going is to keep in touch like you are doing, but maybe on the phone a little more, because that gives the "personal touch." Continue the emails, sms, but remember to phone her every once in a while, cuz if she really likes you, then she would be dying to hear your voice (i'm assuming you would also be wanting to hear her's). And in October, don't forget to tell her your true feelings. No matter what the outcome, at least you will know the truth. All the best!

hmmm....well maybe she's just not showing her true feelings...but her small gestures will surely help you to judge,i wont say she likes you bcoz i m not sure but communication n touch is the essence of any relation....try to reach out for her,give her small n sweet gestures that you really like her n how important she is to you....give her space but not isolation!!

Gr8 story!
Adding to that, try to meet in video chatting weekly once. As for as ur distance is concern, video chatting gives more feeling like talking in-person.
Get her some gifts also.
Have a happydays…

mmm greatttt story yar...listen sms n mail her regularly n if possible contract through webcam..it would help u both n in oct propose her..n tell her abt ur feelings...best of luck brother 😃

wow lovely story
i wish it was more detailed
keep mailing her daily n call her whenever u get time
n tell her ur feeling as in how much u miss her n u would luv 2 be wid her
show her sum signs of ur luv sooooo dat it wont cum as a surprise to her when u propose her
n then propose her in oct

all da best

regards
Tina

Awww...Thanks guys, love the warm replies 😭 .

Here are some minor details;

- Her father would always tell me, "___ misses you, she was asking for you"...(But doesnt really tell me this too much).
- When I was leavin she told me she didnt want me to leave...
- She says we must stay in contact when I leave..
- She wanted to take alot of pictures with me (had my camera when I went)..
- Always wanted to hang out with me, we both enjoyed each other greatly...
- We hung out pretty late the last day i was there and she was sad towards the night before...

my friends would make fun of me if they saw me post this...But I dont care, I really like her alot....

I will take your advice guys...Keep in ctc and sms, etc..I think the gift idea is cool too...I wish I can do a webcam, but they dont really have the best technology... If any thing happens, will def post back 😉

Thanks guyz, really appreciate the kind words..... 😊

PS: I really plan on telling her how i feel when I go back in October...I dont want to live without letting her know..... Maybe a day or two before I leave..I will try to do it in the most un-nervous manner.........😳 on the roof top under the chandani-rat.....lol no im not to filmy..😃

well do tell her in a veryyy romantic way 😉 ...do watch lotz of hindi movie 😆 😛

sounds like da movie vivaah:D lol! n e ways..its a sweet story:D so advice on ur situation...talk to her more on da phone...get to knw her more n get to knw wat she has on her mind...she'll only tell u once u guys r close...n who knws she probably has feelings for u but isnt saying anything till u propose to her...another thing is..propose to her when u reallyyyy feel it is da right time! by da way...i dont wanna put u down or put negative thoughts in ur hear or anything like dat..but i heard many cases as to boys or gurls get married just to come to a foreign country..jus make sure she doesnt betray u..i mean they get married n den come here n run away. i really do not hope for dat to happen...i hope u didnt feel bad abt wat i jus said...n e ways good luck!

Thx dipz22...You are right i have heard of these cases, but I think she is too humble...You are also very right, I will have to get allot closer...Time difference makes this bahot mushkil..But I will try to talk more on the phone...

Thx vishram, my thoughts are the same as well...I called her yesterday spoke to her father then her.. She gave me her new cell# (didnt as for it)..So I will call her this weekend... She says to call anytime..I think time has brought us a little apart, maybe, but when I go back I am defintely going to tell her how I feel.. ❤️ ....

Thanks for the kind words all...Anyone know a good film director, I think I can turn my story into a hit! 😆 jk..

Thanks all,