♪ ♥ O Humnava Tum Dena Saath Mera ❘❘ Episode DISCUSSION Thread #1 ♥♪- Page 96

That's the problem,it is love marriage and don't know how to show their normal married life. Would have married when was still one sided,easy to avoid what are trying to avoid now.

Company was ok right after prev collection,good,shouldn't try to find out who and why wanted to ruin the business?? Or will just run like this until next problem?

As much as need to show other characters too cause can't give full ss to leads Sharma house events are quite boring. Rashmi was left alone there to handle her mom&mil.

Rakshit's pov is understandable and commendable but not his behaviour/actions..

They are trying to make a point by adding comedy but it's coming across as insensitive...

Apparently Appu has taken counselling for this very issue which must have been very sensitive phase for her.. and to be treated with rejection from the same husband for whom she braved counselling might leave a great negative impact..

Just because makers are adding comedy should not dilute the sensitive nature of the base issue..

And 1-2 more episodes just like last couple of them will exactly start feeling like disrespectful and rejection for Appu..

Moreover, Rakshit has always been shown as a green forest who understand Appu the best and gives back to everyone with very open mind even in sensitive subjects like condom usage etc., so him not communicating with Appu on this intimacy issue is also not in sync with his character graph..!!

This is exactly what I wanted to emphasize. The physical aspect of a relationship is important but trivializing it and dramatizing this sensitive issue is taking away from the impact of the show . When a person has gone through a horrible experience in the past it is very difficult to trust yourself with another person. The fear and insecurity that Aparajita's past trauma has instilled in her is real but she has been brave enough to seek help to overcome that. Rakshit is going to end up aggravating those insecurities in Aparajita if he continues to avoid her and keep her at a distance. She was always told that she is not good enough, she is a zero, she has no value in anyone,s life and is a burden to all. Rakshit needs to talk things out with her rather than make excuses as his behavior will be eventually misunderstood by Aparajita. He did not say a word to her after finding out that she had been visiting a counselor to overcome her intimacy issues. When she tried to reassure him he disregarded her reassurance and started guilt tripping himself and acting weird. She is already wondering what happened to Rakshit and why he is avoiding her.

Originally posted by: averma1

No offense but the actress playing Aaradhya's role is not that great an actress, she has the same 5 expressions for everything. Drama Queen needs to come down a few notches. She is belittling the very home and people she grew up with. She herself has no useful skills to speak of and she has the audacity to treat Rashmi like a servant. The character of Aaru just triggers me.
The precap: other than the police visiting BH what the heck was Sudha talking about Shuddhikaran of Aparajita. Sudha is an educated woman what the heck is she talking about. I guess the makers are trying to bust another nonsense social belief that some people have , how they blindly follow what some priest suggests without thinking about the logic behind their actions.

The way she was sitting on that sofa and get treated by that maid of hers.4din ki chandni hai phir kali raat hain for her.

.Lets see whether rashmi can resume her job or not given permission?

Yups even i was shocked shuddhikaran which era are we staying in?

Originally posted by: Annu.

The way she was sitting on that sofa and get treated by that maid of hers.4din ki chandni hai phir kali raat hain for her.

.Lets see whether rashmi can resume her job or not given permission?

Yups even i was shocked shuddhikaran which era are we staying in?

Rashmi needs to stop second guessing her Morher in law , after all she has known Malti all her life. Malti is not unreasonable just insecure. We have seen her stand up against Rashmi's mother as well as Aaru to defend Rashmi. She takes initiative in the house work so I don't think she will have an issue with Rashmi resuming work. She supports Aparajita with her work so why won't she support Rashmi, Rashmi just needs to approach her reasonably and talk to her about her wanting to continue working.

Originally posted by: averma1

Rashmi needs to stop second guessing her Morher in law , after all she has known Malti all her life. Malti is not unreasonable just insecure. We have seen her stand up against Rashmi's mother as well as Aaru to defend Rashmi. She takes initiative in the house work so I don't think she will have an issue with Rashmi resuming work. She supports Aparajita with her work so why won't she support Rashmi, Rashmi just needs to approach her reasonably and talk to her about her wanting to continue working.

She never supported aprajita in her work even when she wanted to open the shop after winning competition she was go back with ur husband nd do whatever u want ? She didn't even wanted her to participate in that competition.

She wanted appu to be around rakshit so she was pushing her to go to office.

Lets see Saas bhi kabhi bahu thi .Rashmi ka saasural ke next ep se pata chalega

TBH I find Malti’s behavior very controlling and meddlesome but she does have her children’s wellbeing in mind when she does something . However well meaning her behaviour is pretty toxic . However my take was at the time she was influenced by Lalit and his mother and the pressure of Society so she was opposing Appu, she was saying do what ever you want to do but in your sasuraal. At the time of the competition finale she was as happy as the rest of the family. Even now when Aaru was belittling Appu Malti sarcastically told Aaru that Appu must be very busy as she has to do her office work, cook and take care of household, she is her own Girl Friday unlike Aaru. Maybe my take is wrong but she does appreciate Appu's talent. That is why I say that if Rashmi approached her and spoke to her she would not have a problem. Appu despite her past is a very practical and capable person and that she learnt from Malti. Aaru was the youngest so was pampered beyond what was practical so became selfish and behaves like it is her birthright to be pampered and waited upon hand and foot. Waiting to see how she is going to sustain this high living once her truth comes out.