Lock Upp 2 Episode Discussion Thread #1 - Page 35

Originally posted by: piya2025

Word!

Harshad needs help & beyond that, like you've said he needs to regulate his emoticon as well control his certain behavior. To be honest, even if he's a good person but with his behavior, it'd be tough for any girl to commit to him. His constant hovering, over protectiveness or should I say downright weird action, might be more threatened for his partner than anyone else. Worse is when he realizes it, it's too late & the kind of meltdown he has, its not good for him. Sadly.

Yeah, if the behaviour we saw on the show reflects a recurring pattern, I think many emotionally secure, confident, and independent women would find it overwhelming. Constant hovering, overprotectiveness, difficulty respecting boundaries, and emotional impulsiveness can become exhausting in any relationship.

That's why I genuinely feel he needs to work on emotional regulation. Otherwise, there's always a risk of ending up in unhealthy relationship dynamics...whether with someone who enables those patterns or someone who takes advantage of them.Like we saw with Shivangi who conveniently became damsel and pick me and exploited his issues to her benefits...Shivangi often benefited from his protectiveness and emotional impulsiveness. It seemed like she knew how to trigger those instincts, and he repeatedly got drawn into situations that ultimately hurt his own game.

That's why I think working on boundaries and emotional awareness would be beneficial for him, regardless of who his partner is in the future.

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

Yeah, if the behaviour we saw on the show reflects a recurring pattern, I think many emotionally secure, confident, and independent women would find it overwhelming. Constant hovering, overprotectiveness, difficulty respecting boundaries, and emotional impulsiveness can become exhausting in any relationship.

That's why I genuinely feel he needs to work on emotional regulation. Otherwise, there's always a risk of ending up in unhealthy relationship dynamics...whether with someone who enables those patterns or someone who takes advantage of them.Like we saw with Shivangi who conveniently became damsel and pick me and exploited his issues to her benefits...Shivangi often benefited from his protectiveness and emotional impulsiveness. It seemed like she knew how to trigger those instincts, and he repeatedly got drawn into situations that ultimately hurt his own game.

That's why I think working on boundaries and emotional awareness would be beneficial for him, regardless of who his partner is in the future.

Originally posted by: piya2025

It also has to do with skin. Shreya has smooth, even skin texture which helps. Besides like money & followers can't buy class (full shed to Anabelle) it takes good taste to look good. You don't always need expensive make-up. All you need to know what suits you best.

Absolutely. And I think it also has a lot to do with how secure you are as a person.

When someone is comfortable in their own skin, it reflects in the way they carry themselves. Makeup and styling enhance that confidence but they don't create it.

For me, that's one of the biggest differences. Shreya comes across as someone who knows what works for her and owns it. Shivangi, on the other hand, often came across as quite insecure during the show, and that insecurity reflected in her behaviour and overall presence.

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

Absolutely. And I think it also has a lot to do with how secure you are as a person.

When someone is comfortable in their own skin, it reflects in the way they carry themselves. Makeup and styling enhance that confidence but they don't create it.

For me, that's one of the biggest differences. Shreya comes across as someone who knows what works for her and owns it. Shivangi, on the other hand, often came across as quite insecure during the show, and that insecurity reflected in her behaviour and overall presence.

I hope she goes to BB. She will get more reality checks because there she will meet many people who won't be as forgiving as Netflix audience but we have SK who supported Shindey & Shenaz types, so she'll have channel's backing. :)

Originally posted by: piya2025

Wanted to say the exact same thing but you said it. I hope someone really make him aware that his behavior wasn't normal & they don't swap it under the rug. But what he was saying to Shreya about him being too available, he was right but to me, it came across more like he was self depicting himself rather than acknowledging the fact that he needs to change. I do hope someone who isn't involve with him, helps him to understand these things without any sugarcoating.

Exactly. That's how I felt too. It sounded more like self-awareness than actual self-reflection.Recognizing that you're "too available" or that people take advantage of you is only the first step. The more important part is asking why that keeps happening and what patterns in your own behaviour need to change.

Because only thing common in all of your past relationships were "YOU" ...

I genuinely hope someone outside his immediate circle gives him honest feedback instead of simply reassuring him that he did nothing wrong. Sometimes the most caring thing you can do for someone is tell them the truth with empathy, but without sugarcoating it...And when you become a senior star then you are surrounded by "Yes men" only...

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

Exactly. That's how I felt too. It sounded more like self-awareness than actual self-reflection.Recognizing that you're "too available" or that people take advantage of you is only the first step. The more important part is asking why that keeps happening and what patterns in your own behaviour need to change.

Because only thing common in all of your past relationships were "YOU" ...

I genuinely hope someone outside his immediate circle gives him honest feedback instead of simply reassuring him that he did nothing wrong. Sometimes the most caring thing you can do for someone is tell them the truth with empathy, but without sugarcoating it...And when you become a senior star then you are surrounded by "Yes men" only...

Originally posted by: piya2025

Difference between I'm who I'm and a PR curated personality.

I hope she goes to BB. She will get more reality checks because there she will meet many people who won't be as forgiving as Netflix audience but we have SK who supported Shindey & Shenaz types, so she'll have channel's backing. :)

She is probably out of Lock up house now...and must have seen the overwhelming "love" she is getting left right centre for the arrogant, entitled,mean and emotionally manipulative game...The Holier than thou attitude and the way she assumed herself as the best winner...it would all come crashing down..

Uski PR curated "titli" image ki dhajiya udd chuki hai..

I doubt if she would go for BB now...but let's see...

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

She is probably out of Lock up house now...and must have seen the overwhelming "love" she is getting left right centre for the arrogant, entitled,mean and emotionally manipulative game...The Holier than thou attitude and the way she assumed herself as the best winner...it would all come crashing down..

Uski PR curated "titli" image ki dhajiya udd chuki hai..

I doubt if she would go for BB now...but let's see...

Originally posted by: piya2025

I hope by some miracle Shreya jeeti ho. Anabelle ki fake hasi pe Thoda to stop lage.

Hope so...🤞🤞🤞

Mujhe uska ghamand toot te hue dekhna hai

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

Hope so...🤞🤞🤞

Mujhe uska ghamand toot te hue dekhna hai

I heard Shreya won. Two days back I was ok if either of them Win..Honestly, now at this point, I feel shreya deserved to win based on her overall contribution and game plan... Although She may have been negative at times, but towards the last leg, she was far better than Shivangi. Shivangi’s real nature became quite visible towards the end, especially when she manipulated Harshad and made his guilt trip knowing his weakness. If the jury decided the winner, then Shreya was definitely the more deserving choice