Originally posted by: priya185
Ram came infront of Pam but he didn’t charge and was not aggressive. Pam overreacted. In bigg boss and alliance contestants have done worse.
Tbh I feel like nobody (other contestants, hosts, audience) should decide what makes a person feel uncomfortable or unsafe.It holds true for both male and female...Ram did get up in her face and invaded her personal space and she felt attacked and unsafe and rightfully so. Maybe that is something triggering for her. If that makes sense.If it was a task then I can absolutely understand..but it was not ...
I also had a certain experience in my life when I was 15-16...that has made me very sensitive about personal space... People might find it overreaction but I know my reason and my boundary.So every person can have different boundary...
I do appreciate that Ram took accountability and apologised though... That's how it should be..It doesn't matter if it was his intention or not, Pam felt that and that should be enough...
And no, this isn't about playing the "woman card." The same principle applies to everyone. Basic decency means respecting another person's space, controlling your emotions, and arguing without physically intimidating someone. You can disagree, raise your voice, or defend your point without making the other person feel threatened specially in case of power imbalance when you are a giant man like Ram Kapoor who can make any woman feel scared...
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