Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi- EDT#15-Note Pg 94 - Page 98

Originally posted by: adeela

if we were harasser and others were loyal fans yet hiten make no distinction in how he treat us 😂😂

Behind the scenes activity 😂😂 you said we speek directly so how it becomes behind thr scenes now ?

We are not acting as everyones spokes- person it's mentioned everywhere that hite-gauri were paired together due to public demand . Public demand means majority of fans not every single fan so if your opinion is different , you are not included in that.

Regarding everything i mentioned about gauri's interviews anyone is free to verify those details instagram , facebook and x , those interviews are publicly posted on those platforms.

If outside of this form we harassed you and ur friends so you should have complained there , wnat is the point of speaking here ?

Well obviously it's behind the scenes for Hiten and Gauri as they don't know the levels of depravity fanatics have stooped to.

Not so hidden for us fellow fans/members who have been privy to this targeting.

You do not get to dictate where and what I disclose, as if social media has moderators who actively look into these things.. gotta love the naivete.

And Hiten responds and likes everyone's messages equally, even if it's something not flattering, that's his all encompassing nature, something which you guys take advantage of. But he treats everyone the same, fan or neutral, alike, so if you want to think of yourself as something special, I'll let you stew in that delusion.

The rest, won't bother getting into, a good discussion takes nuance which you're a novice to.

It’s a shame that some are content to remain in the shallow end, rather than diving into the deeper complexities that this topic demands.

Originally posted by: adeela

I didn't say any single word against Ekpaheli i simply disagreed , which is a right every member has agree to disagree with one another, especially Ekpaheli specifically stated that not everyone would agree , mainly because she is aware that most hiten-gauri fans have different perspective....since we have both been in this forum since season 1. Arguments always invovle both sides they don't just move forward because of one person .

Suddenly a member started targeting me and suhana and surprisingly most members were supportng her and liking her comments , it seems like there's a double standard here , if we get targeted the rules are different , but if it happens to anyone else , everyone takes a stand for her.

No one seems to realize that hiten-gauri have been in this show since last year and even re-entered after the leap. If this person is such a huge fan , why did he/she suddenly just show up now ? He/she hasn't written any single sentence about karan-nandini or their track ? Only pointing suhana and adeela did this , they did that.

Why hiten & gauri haven't blocked us if the claim of abuse and harassment were true ? Instead hiten constantly likes our comments , reposting our stories , gauri herself is viewing our stories often. Simply requesting or demanding to see them together shuoldn't be lable harassment . Especially gauri helself admitted in interviews that their jodi fans are unique and loyal supporters of 20 years. Gauri even mentioned during the movie shoot with Hiten that most of her work happens with hiten because that is what majority of the audience love to see , she explained that producers and directors bring them offers together for this reeason , and they feel most comfortable working with each other.

Srk has openly aknowleged in interviews that whenver he goes fans demands to see him with kajol he has never called this harassment.

I have been member of this forum since 2005 if i was abusive i would have been banned a long time ago . Even if i had personally attacked anyone on social media they could have been easily reported against me.

I have never forced anyone to like the hiten-gauri pair or the karan-nandini pair . I have never mocked other itv couples.

Whenever i disagree with comments about hiten-gauri or karan-nandini i always provide valid points and reasons. You can't have a real discusdion in the world without points to back it up.

You can get all the likes of Hiten and Gauri and they can follow you. The point is every fandom is not a cult where the actors say something that the fans have to religiously follow. They’re allowed to criticise and have their own opinions.

You have yours, and you’re welcome to them. But others are also allowed to have their opinions that may differ from yours and it doesn’t matter if you get a follow or a like or a bouquet from HG personally, it doesn’t mean you’re allowed to dictate what opinions others may have. Being a fan is a choice as is staying one. Something that begins and can end with a choice is also something where people are bound to have their own preferences and views.

No one attacked you but if you wanna believe that the kind of language used by your friend is acceptable simply because you two share an opinion that doesn’t have to be popular with everyone else, then you’re justifying the kind of language that was used.

Originally posted by: SuhaanalovesGHT

Reported...Lol 🤣 These messages cracked me up...Got to know the true colors, but anyway, you all tried harder to bend us down, but ended up taking eachothers support and attacking bullying us...Stooped too low as we had thought..we will keep showing our sympathies for you, whether you accept it or not- you can keep sinking and going deeper in your delusional life- Hallucinating is dangerous, witnessed here for the first time...Realized that attackers like you indulge in organized bullies lol

What true colours, neither of you were ever a friend, I'm just one in many you've attacked.

Frankly I disown such fellow fans who tarnish our reputation as well as that of the actors.

You can support your own "kaum", it's just you and that other member who join as a tag team everywhere, buy 1, get 1 free types.

Frankly neutrals/fans of other actors have proven to be of better sound mind, better company.

If only you'd do Hiten and Gauri the favour of removing yourself as a fan, the world would be a better place.

You both have actively hurt their reputation and impacted them negatively and claim to love them. Just like Ansh as was said previously.

If you had the least bit of liking for them, you wouldn't drag them in the mud like this.

Originally posted by: Androidlover101

I can only express my sympathies and lament at the sad state of affairs.

This fan group in it's heyday through the Yahoo groups Kutumblovers had such a diverse bunch of fans who could express their thoughts freely.

And I'm sure they would be the first to call this behaviour out.

But right now, witnessing the behaviour of these 2, it's looking like an organised religion.

And really no hard feelings mods if you want to ban me, please, at least let this sanctity and integrity of this forum remain and discussions to continue flowing without members fearing retaliation at the slightest thing.

I have realised this is an echo chamber where the participants feed off of each other.

Good to know though that similar fans exist like me whose opinions are similar to my own.

Frankly don’t apologise though. Sometimes an ugly can of worms has to be kicked open so that the mess can be out in the open. A handful of people can’t claim to represent everyone in a fandom. I certainly know that they don’t represent me and I am more than happy to see there are others like me.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

I have realised this is an echo chamber where the participants feed off of each other.

Good to know though that similar fans exist like me whose opinions are similar to my own.

Frankly don’t apologise though. Sometimes an ugly can of worms has to be kicked open so that the mess can be out in the open. A handful of people can’t claim to represent everyone in a fandom. I certainly know that they don’t represent me and I am more than happy to see there are others like me.

Speaking from my own experience, me and many others have been silenced for too long.

Like-minded friends who happen to be fans were driven out and we had our own peaceful community, even if it was via private messaging, because we knew it wasn't worth banging your head against a brick wall.

Yet these 2 feel no shame shoving their opinion down people's throat and acting as though they are the official spokesperson of the actors.

Sometimes the only thing people have in common with others is that they happen to like the same actors and absolutely nothing else in common. Which describes best this situation.

You have to question though, why did they pick this place. Why couldn't they stick to their own fanclub with just the 2 of them?

Just like religious conversion, they have to try to "discuss" and pose their point of view as the only valid one, and claim to speak for the majority.

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

why the anniversary cake then

they are implying tanya and that karan is lying

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

maybe

even amayra from kulfi kumar show and kulfi kid didnt do acting. and its better. i woild like to think their parents used the money for kids future and education

kids working constantly feels like parents leeching off

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

You can get all the likes of Hiten and Gauri and they can follow you. The point is every fandom is not a cult where the actors say something that the fans have to religiously follow. They’re allowed to criticise and have their own opinions.

You have yours, and you’re welcome to them. But others are also allowed to have their opinions that may differ from yours and it doesn’t matter if you get a follow or a like or a bouquet from HG personally, it doesn’t mean you’re allowed to dictate what opinions others may have. Being a fan is a choice as is staying one. Something that begins and can end with a choice is also something where people are bound to have their own preferences and views.

No one attacked you but if you wanna believe that the kind of language used by your friend is acceptable simply because you two share an opinion that doesn’t have to be popular with everyone else, then you’re justifying the kind of language that was used.

First read carefully and then speak . That person claimed we abuse and harass hiten-gauri on her account .I mentioned this because if this were the reality , why haven't hiten-gauri blocked us ? Why are our stories and comments being reposted and liked by them ?

When have i dictated anyone else opinion ? When did i stop any fan from expressing their opinion on the hiten-gauri duo ?

I only said on behalf of the fans what hiten-gauri themselves stated in their interviews . And as far as their pair being repeated due to public demand is concerned , anyone go and check the previous shows forums , reddit, insta , x, youtube .

She called me abusive and a harasser , and according to you this isn't an attack ?