Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi- EDT#15-Note Pg 94 - Page 91

Originally posted by: Androidlover101

Hi all, I try my best to stay away despite wanting to discuss things. As predicted, even though Hiten Gauri are finally coming onscreen after all these years, certain people couldn't learn to keep the peace.

I sincerely want to apologise on behalf all Hiten Gauri fans for all barrage of negativity their way, just for stating their opinion. Just know, you're in good company, the same people, including Suhana, adeela abused me and fellow Hiten Gauri fans for having different opinions. Suhana did it because she's known to abuse fellow fans for no reason and then crawl back.

Given the amount of people they have already driven out since all these years, I very much doubt they are genuine fans. No fan would want negativity for their favourite actors and yet here they are doing the same bullying in a group. And sadly they continue to represent other Hiten Gauri fans through their actions, and Hiten and Gauri themselves. Please know they in no way represent us, granted most sane fans left this site many moons ago and moved on in life.

These particular fans have garnered such bad PR for the couple and claim to be their spokesperson.

Well I tell you, they think of the actors as nothing less than a play thing for their whims and desires. They abuse Gauri too when she is seen with other actors. As if she is only a worthy being if paired across Hiten. Anyway a huge apology from my side for their continued behaviour, no buts, no justification for fighting with members and even fellow fans.

No need to apologise. Being a fan doesn’t automatically mean one signs up to be part of a herd where individuality ceases to exist and personal opinions don’t matter only what the group wants does.

You shouldn’t have had to go through the experience but thank you for speaking up.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

No need to apologise. Being a fan doesn’t automatically mean one signs up to be part of a herd where individuality ceases to exist and personal opinions don’t matter only what the group wants does.

You shouldn’t have had to go through the experience but thank you for speaking up.

Thank you for saying that, but these people have taken people's patience with them for granted. I feel like it was long overdue.

Sadly they have been doing this for many years and alienating people, from neutrals to fans.

Here there wasn't even any attack and they started.

They harass the actors in question too with their constant demands to act together only and are the 1st to pipe up on their social media if they work with other people.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

You didn’t target me and while we disagreed you were civil. Unfortunately the same cannot be said for someone else.

Shipping people and being fans doesn’t mean people have to agree but it also doesn’t give an automatic right and license to go around talking down to people and claiming they’re ‘barking’ when you don’t like what they said.

My friend Star is speaking up on my behalf not because we disagreed but because there was uncivil language used which I hope you will agree is unacceptable. Just because we disagree with each other doesn’t mean I can talk rudely to you or say such things. That’s the point.

Your friend said that we targeted you by ganging up on you which is wrong. We simply disagreed . Even you admitted it in ur statement that not everyone would agree with you , because deep down you knew that majority of hiten-gauri fans hold a different opinion than yours.

If someone behaved rudely with you ,it's unfair to target everyone for it. Just as you felt bad we also felt bad about the certain members .

Did we force anyone to like the karan-nandini pair or the hiten-gauri pair ? No.

So disgusting. Glad such people’s true colours have come to light.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

She can do mature romance well. It was handled exceptionally in YHM too. It’s when the forced drama and incessant stretching happens that things go for a toss.

YHM even after the first leap Ishra romance was great...I even loved Manav Archana in PR after that first leap...back then shows were good and now I am just watching kyunki...Started for nostalgia factor but I am enjoying the show though

I thought aaj kal ke couple fans ghamasaan yudh ladte hain.. even older couple fans fight wow

@ekPahelii - I don't know much about Hiten/Gauri since I haven't seen much shows but in my opinion, your opinion was very balanced and respectful.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Honestly forgot it given how we don’t even know who the husband is. As it is, it’s wild to me that they’re showing Abhishek and she are together given S1 canon.

Originally posted by: The_Best

I remember post leap she wasn’t in the SN and it was told she was with her husband those 6 years. She was calling Mihir to check up on him and then she came back to SN like 1-2 weeks after the leap. People in SN welcomed me her back. As for S1, I don’t remember Shoba there. I must have been watching the show during the years or times when she wasn’t regular in the show anymore

In S1 , she divorced abhishek and became a politician following footsteps of her MIL...Here in S2 she has becoe part time match maker

Originally posted by: Androidlover101

Thank you for saying that, but these people have taken people's patience with them for granted. I feel like it was long overdue.

Sadly they have been doing this for many years and alienating people, from neutrals to fans.

Here there wasn't even any attack and they started.

They harass the actors in question too with their constant demands to act together only and are the 1st to pipe up on their social media if they work with other people.

Honestly didn’t know this but I know that fans can cost a fandom a lot. There are actors and actresses who lose out on fans because of the kind of people who follow them.

Patience is a virtue but exercising it in the right amount and only at the right time is what makes it a virtue. Anything in excess or not enough, at the wrong time be it either quicker than warranted or later than expected is going to be harmful.

When harassment enters the question it’s not love but it’s a farce masquerading as love, ironically very Ansh coded.