TuHir FF: Never Your Wife Again!! Ch: 12 on page 23: Chai.. aur Kaada - Page 24

How you described the word theek struck me.Mihir is extra worried about tulsi and asking rithik about tulsi was emotional. I liked Tulsi telling Pari that parents are never busy when it comes to their children.Mihir praising tulsi in the interview was nice.

He hasn't seen Noina for the last 6 years means?

Originally posted by: bpatil3

Mithali was given the best of two options😂😂. It's still a great negotiation - Mithali will anyways be benefitted both ways. Tulsi did the right choice to confront her directly, without blaming or arguing just announced her decision. Quiet firm and authoritatively.

Ok cool. I thoght she will have a word with Mihir about her confronting Mithali, anyways let's see, how it progresses.

Mihir has largely lived his life in guilt, watching things around him, probably looking at the ceiling, his restlessness has not allowed him peace of mind, hence most of his nights were spent in sleeplessness.

Mitali bina faayde ke koi baat samjhegi kya😂😂

Tulsi can be very firm and even threaten when it comes to her family - despite the minuscule changes she saw in Mitali - she going shopping and not buying anything and keeping quiet when Timsy was happy with her, Mitali did share the inside stuff with Noina so. Ab toh she could only give Mitali an ultimatum- nothing else remains!!

Mihir had 6 years to deal with Mitali - he didn’t even think of anything so why would tulsi consult Mihir on this.. but yeah she’ll tell him soonish!

Mihir has a lot of accumulated guilt - he knows he needs to apologize for a lot of things but is waiting for her to tell him she’s okay to hear him out. Yes over 6 years - he’s not sleeping well - due to guilt.

hope a longer review is coming from you.

Originally posted by: ElitePerfumer

Mitali bina faayde ke koi baat samjhegi kya😂😂

Tulsi can be very firm and even threaten when it comes to her family - despite the minuscule changes she saw in Mitali - she going shopping and not buying anything and keeping quiet when Timsy was happy with her, Mitali did share the inside stuff with Noina so. Ab toh she could only give Mitali an ultimatum- nothing else remains!!

Mihir had 6 years to deal with Mitali - he didn’t even think of anything so why would tulsi consult Mihir on this.. but yeah she’ll tell him soonish!

Mihir has a lot of accumulated guilt - he knows he needs to apologize for a lot of things but is waiting for her to tell him she’s okay to hear him out. Yes over 6 years - he’s not sleeping well - due to guilt.

hope a longer review is coming from you.

Jaha fayda nhi waha Mithali nhi, it's in her DNA. Yup, she is cunning too, now that Tulsi has an eye on her, infact Rithik, Angad, Pari n Shobha, probably Mihir too had understood. Mihir is unaware of Mithali's trap to marry Angad, her gambling and cunningness(.for that matter her involvement in drugging him as well)Noina n Shuchitra had always taken sides of Mithali and proved Rithik wrong, at one point of time Mihir believed it too.

Anyways, jab ghee seedhi ungli se na nikle to tedhi karni hi padegi, afterall, it's no more Tulsi n Mihir battle, but it's the battle of Virani's.

Mihir has to know the truth of Mithali and obviously he will be appreciating Tulsi taking things under her control.

Mihir, has always seen things and believed what was shown to him. Only, Tulsi can make him realize the right.

Ok let's see how this goes.

Yeah yeah, my review is incomplete... Coming soon... 😂

Originally posted by: jasminerahul

How you described the word theek struck me.Mihir is extra worried about tulsi and asking rithik about tulsi was emotional. I liked Tulsi telling Pari that parents are never busy when it comes to their children.Mihir praising tulsi in the interview was nice.

Yes theek used in 2 diff contexts by Mihir and Pari- so glad you liked these parts!

He hasn't seen Noina for the last 6 years means?

what? Where did I write that? Please copy paste the exact lines

Thank you 😊!! My replies in red

Originally posted by: bpatil3

Jaha fayda nhi waha Mithali nhi, it's in her DNA. Yup, she is cunning too, now that Tulsi has an eye on her, infact Rithik, Angad, Pari n Shobha, probably Mihir too had understood. Mihir is unaware of Mithali's trap to marry Angad, her gambling and cunningness(.for that matter her involvement in drugging him as well)Noina n Shuchitra had always taken sides of Mithali and proved Rithik wrong, at one point of time Mihir believed it too.

Correct! And Noina has always presented Mitali as bechari before Mihir- bechari Mitali ke saath angad ne Galat kiya ab Ritik bhi … blah blah

Anyways, jab ghee seedhi ungli se na nikle to tedhi karni hi padegi, afterall, it's no more Tulsi n Mihir battle, but it's the battle of Virani's.

True

Mihir has to know the truth of Mithali and obviously he will be appreciating Tulsi taking things under her control.

Yes Mihir still doesn’t know about the reality of Mitali

Mihir, has always seen things and believed what was shown to him. Only, Tulsi can make him realize the right.

Exactly

Ok let's see how this goes.

Yeah yeah, my review is incomplete... Coming soon... 😂

yeah take your time and come up with a beautiful review - I wait for your review after every chapter

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This kadha mostly signifies first attempt to heal something not just the phyiscal health related but also mental. Heart n Health both needed the healing, it's time start with the preliminaries. So why can't Kadha be it.😜

Mihir was so excited, sometimes insan ko zyada khushiyan bhi neend uda deti hai. Mihir is trying to tell his heart to take it slow and be practical to accept it is just a Chaiii of 45mins😂😂, it's still a good amount of time to spend with your spouse in a day( idhar working ppl ko 15mins nhi milta, udhar indono ko itna time mil rha hai, to daily bhagwan ko prashad chadhana padega Mihir ko). In a way Mihir has intruded Tulsi's "me" time. I can say occupied, can't say conquered until things resolved between them.

45mins me sirf kuch hi baatein hui hai. Infact, kuch bhi nhi. When you loose that right and intimacy to talk with your own people, often stuck at the juncture of how to open up. with lot of hesitation, reluctance and fear of how the other person receives your words. It's really complicated, one has to be careful of every word comes out of your mouth and at the same time maintain your demeanor.

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This song reminded me of Mihir's feeling:

There's nowhere to run, I have no place to go

Surrender my heart, body, and soul

How can it be you're asking me to feel

The things you never show

You are missing in my heart

Tell me, why can't I be there where you are?

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i was expecting koi charcha hogi chai pe,😜 chalo theek hai Tulsi safayi de rhi hai ki she gotten used to have Kadha every day, and Mihir got to know she is making up things so that he believed her. They actually finding words to start a normal looking conversation.

Back of the mind , mihir is contemplating wherher Tulsi knew about his yesterday's health condition? Then question arised how.

Mihir to Tulsi ko niharne me busy tha, not romantically but wo hota hai jab aapke bahot dinoan ki armaan aapke saath ho, wo celebrity n fan movement jaisa. awkwardness and you cannot even stare directly for longer( Tulsi smart hai, Mihir ko kuch diya hi nhi dekhne k liye😂😜, sirf table, tray, cup and the closed door) bechara kya karega chupke chupke, nazar na chahte hue bhi Tulsi ki taraf badh jayegi).

Once he entered the hallway, he has noticed the things, morning rituals of Tulsi silently, admiring. it gave him the utmost satisfaction, happiness and that oneness with the home. When you are happy from the heart, every other piece around you looks beautiful full of life, Mihir experienced it today after 6years.

He was given access to Balcony only😜, he was happy to be around her alone, but that uneasiness is holding him back. Both of them in their own world, one with trees, chirping birds, flowers, pots, grass and other with table, cup, tray, closed door and her. Both can see each other in between but with discomfort and embarrasment of getting caught, so they are making conscious efforts to not gaze each other directly.

"Kal aana" this is to show Mihir that he is still important and someone cares for you nothing more to it, probably she is feeling good around him too, her lonely mornings will be no more staring at the landscapes but to share few silences.

This part is beautiful, to start with, Silence speaks more than words can speak,It is often used to show respect and ensure others feel heard without a word.

Tulsi looking at watch (alarm rakhlo 😜) Mihir got it's time to leave, his last sentence, i will take the cups everyday, lot's of impact to show we are equal and can share our responsibilities and duties.

Tulsi, I felt thodi sakht hogyi hai towards Pari, no worries it's for Pari's good to shape up her future. I loved the family offering help to Pari and the excitement in Timsy baby hearing her Bua will pick them instead of driver.

I loved that Garu holding mumma's dupatta and searching her, good that the kiddo is well behaved and Vrinda is taking care of her.

Everyday they had the same ritual even for past 23 days, probably, he taking slow steps at and longing at her closed door, then she silently hearing his footsteps. The same ritual has taken a step ahead, now they covered this distance with "Suno, chai k liye aajavo roz 6baje " to "Mujhe intezaar rahega" tak, ye safar bahot lamba hai. It doesn't show desperation, it just shows mutual admiration, need for each other, a sense of purpose and discover lost belongingness.

I loved these silent talks, nazare churana, awakwrdness, hesitation, longing, yearning finding solace at each other's company.

Kudos writer.

Beech me Daksha chachi n Mihir's conversation, is also taking shape. It's good

That Nahi at the same time, i think they all got surprised, but not much they know how protective their parents are for them.

Shobha ko kuch kuch hint mila hai, she will not show it. She would be happy to see her parents trying to have a glance at each other, rather than being grumpy, cold towards each other and behaving as if the other doesn't exists.

Thank you.

As usual super excited for the next chapter..❤️

I just happened to see this video. Mihir was treating exactly like this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ljdurev4VzA

So Tulsi's quiteness and hesitation is justified here in this FF, Tulsi tried everything possible to mend their relationship but Mihir caught with either his guilt or ego and never tried to open up.

Originally posted by: bpatil3

I just happened to see this video. Mihir was treating exactly like this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ljdurev4VzA

So Tulsi's quiteness and hesitation is justified here in this FF, Tulsi tried everything possible to mend their relationship but Mihir caught with either his guilt or ego and never tried to open up.

exactly! And it wasn’t just once.. she kept trying but Mihir had totally shut her out! Kept either shouting like an angry moron or kept crying alone from guilt! The worst way doing baa’s havan in office! Even worse was he kept saying once i fulfill my responsibilities i will go away from here and live my own life away from everyone - this at that age after taking and using her best years!

Tulsi is not even doing tit for tat here - she’s exhausted her capacity to take hurt - that time she almost committed suicide- she has rebuilt herself and that’s standing in her heart being barricaded against any feelings or further hurt. If she trusts again and gets hurt , in however a small way, once more, she won’t survive

btw will respond soon to your review.

Originally posted by: ElitePerfumer

Tulsi is not even doing tit for tat here - she’s exhausted her capacity to take hurt - that time she almost committed suicide- she has rebuilt herself and that’s standing in her heart being barricaded against any feelings or further hurt. If she trusts again and gets hurt , in however a small way, once more, she won’t survive

btw will respond soon to your review.

I do not think Mihir will ever know her suicide attempt. Probably, any woman who is of her age would do the same after this betrayal.

I agree, she is not in revenge mode, she is just protecting herself from another heartbreak. So she is cautious about every step of her.

I do believe that one should apologise instead if mourning in agony all alone. Whether, you are forgiven or not, it is for your peace, you should ask for forgiveness.i'm expecting that from Mihir.