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Posted: 23 hours ago

Originally posted by: adeela

frankly speaking i don't like gautam's attitude towards karan-nandini , he is just jealous of karan.

Mujhe to ye nhi pata chala raha hai ki what was the meaning of showing past flashbacks that time when gautam and karan were rivals.but then they sorted out.uske baad to s1 mein bhi leap aya tha tab koi zikra nhi kiya tha so what is the mean now ? 😂

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Posted: 23 hours ago

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

The word is absolutely bang on - Distortians, as that’s exactly what they are. Just because they don’t understand something or find it offensive or wrong for their own reasons they will say absolutely anything and justify their absurd ideas right from symbols they don’t like to the idea that women are born and can’t be made by chopping off manly parts no matter how much one wants to pretend.

I believe all our ancestors had a valid reason for anything and everything they came up with including the jewellery the women wore. They ranged from economic, practical to health reasons which they will conveniently ignore to justify their own beliefs.

They claim that men don’t wear these things so it’s forced patriarchy but it’s a load of BS.

From an evolutionary standpoint, men and women have developed differently physically, psychologically, socially and emotionally. The way we dress, what we eat, the languages we speak, read and write may change but some things never will.

Take a modern day lifestyle for example. Even now, in an era where we are not hunter gatherers as is believed today we were once by modern scientists and scholars the world over, can you deny it that even now women associate status symbols very strongly with what they can wear and carry be it branded clothes, bags, shoes, perfumes, makeup and articles of a personal nature including jewellery even if it’s a lone solitaire that they chose to sport to the kind of places they can flaunt their wealth in social settings. Women even now need to carry their status in terms of the way they look, dress and feel.

Men maybe absolutely loaded but you can find them wearing the most basic T-shirts and jeans with very practical shoes and a wallet that looks no different than the ones that they carried before or the ones carried by their fathers before them. They don’t tend to fixate on the styling never changing much or the colours being limited, somber and boring with no innovation since the invention of the modern day wallet barring one or two tweaks every couple of decades.

But show me a wealthy man who wouldn’t want to buy property, invest in assets, in gadgets and services that they find merit in. He may not care about his looks but if he’s buying cars, bikes or even horses, he would pamper them like his babies and give them the best. You can’t tell a well off man he shouldn’t invest in properties, automobiles and gadgets but wear better clothes, get some jewellery for himself and he will likely think you’re nuts, high or joking.

It’s 2026 and this is the case even now.

Go back a couple of centuries, maybe more than a millennia ago, think of a different era with a different lifestyle where men tended to either be kings, farmers, warriors, priests or doing chores of other kinds like potters, cobblers, artisans etc. while women tended to be inclined to be the homemakers.

Men would have to do the physical chores that could range from ploughing fields to literally going to wars; women would be at home to cook, clean, raise children. Now… tell me would it be practical to expect men to don jewellery in these times or women?

Men equated their status with immovable property and assets since the beginning of time and women were entrusted with the movable form of the same. The wealth a man accumulated would pass down from father to son - immovable wealth going to the sons who stayed in the same lineage. The wealth that can move would be distributed among the daughters who married into other families and the daughters who married into our own families and became bahus. Daughters left their lineages to establish ties elsewhere and created their families with their husbands. Sons were expected to stay and continue their lineage with their wives and have as many heirs as possible to ensure that the family lives on.

We equate women with Maa Lakshmi and she’s literally called Chanchala - literally the name means she who’s ever moving. Hence the wealth that women carried would be the sort that they could literally carry on themselves and move around.

It’s also why when times are good men buy jewellery for their wives and daughters, because they know that if tough times fall these can act as a sort of insurance for the family regardless of whether the men were themselves around for the same or not.

These idiots would malign everything but fail to understand that there are reasons for everything.

Let me give you one last example - do you know why Mehendi is applied to women before marriage across the Indian subcontinent? We follow the tradition even now but have forgotten its origins.


Mehendi is made from crushing the leaves of the Heena plant and in ancient times you had to do it with a mortar and pestle. Add the other things and you have your Mehendi ready.

Ever noticed how it’s always cool on the skin when applied? How it tends to darken overtime and smells absolutely divine? The darkening agents are also literally either cloves that are wrapped up in a bundle and heated until they can do their magic or the aromatic eucalyptus oil which tends to be soothing and relaxing or lime and sugar which are two ingredients that we use for making a fresh lime soda in summers?

The Mehendi has been scientifically proven to have ingredients that help calm our nerves by the herbs in them, the darkening agents help the same.

What does an anxious bride need more than anything? To calm her nerves - hence the Mehendi. Apply it to hands and legs, where most of our nerves are concentrated and use intricate, beautiful patterns to make the most of it and give it an aesthetic appearance while ensuring that the bride can sit in one spot for a long time without being distracted or jittery or anxious.


So… yeah, I wish people would stop listening to these absolute morons whose opinions are just garbage.

Bold - but I don’t understand why women would use that to flaunt because such things have no value. I mean they look great to have and fun to wear and all, but it’s not like they have any value except for jewelry made with gold/silver/other precious metals. I now understand why women want gold jewelry as gold is expensive and can be used for emergency, but I don’t understand the rest. That seems to be women impressing other women. Men have it right. It’s the land and other assets where the wealth can appreciate and not lose value. May be women keep jewelry because they never had a choice since until recently women didn’t have right to own property or anything under their name. So one way was for them to keep jewelry as that’s one way for them to accumulate some sort of wealth, but men were allowed to own things so that’s why lands, properties, businesses. I see it in around me where the women want jewelry because other than they don’t want to directly ask for having share in other things of husbands/in-laws. So they think owning jewelry would at least be some sort of wealth for them and what the husband and in-laws wouldn’t mind giving too. Makes sense
Edited by The_Best - 23 hours ago
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Posted: 23 hours ago

Ekta is again watching Naagin’s episodes in her house before they air 😒😒

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Posted: 23 hours ago

Originally posted by: graphicd96

Mujhe to ye nhi pata chala raha hai ki what was the meaning of showing past flashbacks that time when gautam and karan were rivals.but then they sorted out.uske baad to s1 mein bhi leap aya tha tab koi zikra nhi kiya tha so what is the mean now ? 😂

exactly what is the logic behind showing those flashback of karan when he was grey ? Especially when mandira brainwashed him , once her reality came out karan did so much for the entire virani family and

It seems like Gautam ko bas attention aur importance chayie , jabke karan aisa nahin hai .

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Posted: 23 hours ago

Originally posted by: The_Best

Ekta is again watching Naagin’s episodes in her house before they air 😒😒

Where? Share link

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Posted: 23 hours ago

Originally posted by: graphicd96

That was old.new promo dikhao star plus walo

New promo has been posted https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVyZmcREYy1/
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Posted: 23 hours ago

Where is ekta watching naagin series episode? Send me link

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Posted: 23 hours ago

Ye bhi dekha hua hi hai 😂

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