I think it’s not a south asian thing only. It’s kinda universal in except for few parts in the west. As for the emotional incest, when the wife is all about motherhood only, it’s usually because the husband is abusive in some way. So the woman start to have all the expectations from the sons now. Another reason is also when the mother or both parents rely financially on the sons. They try to hold on to their sons. Most of the time then also makes the son’s wife life hell too because they feel the wife will take away the son from them since they rely on the son either emotionally and/or financiallyOriginally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat
you know whats the issue of south asia as a whole where grown ass kids are getting impacted by parents issue? emotional incest
in west, kids and parents arent that attached. they expect each other to support their own lives. there was a time kids would leave at 18 year old. still some strict parents throw their kids outside the moment 18th birthday comes. we ca argue if its best or not
desi household- the moment wives become mothers, they stay mothers. no intimacy between parents. mothers get attached to their sons and daghters. you want to go to another country or another state for job or study? there is be crying like its someones funeral. it goes onto marriage. its a common issue sasuma torturing the bahus. cause mothers dont have their lives, it was all about kids and they cant shake off that issue once these kids become adult enough to be husbands wives parents.
for kyuki it wont be fair especially the elder kids, bt shit happened. ritik was a bit slow, too sensitive. he made mistakes cause mother wasnt there to guide- question is if tulsi could have actually stopped his wedding. for pari everyone is to be blamed including pari, but tulsi also have the guilt. karan left to usa bt his family has a big impact on him. maybe he went into his shield so much it was difficult to speak to even nandini, both suffocating in their issues. gautam have the same issue , he couldnt stay away from parents issues even when hes pissed
you can just bet on it that everyone in this forum, atlst the indians and NRIs still connected to their desi roots, wont fck up their lives if there is any issues between their parents. its just not possible. parents are so into our daily lives you cant cut them off. if you do thats the guilt. vice versa parents cant let go too
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