Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2: EDT #11 - Page 20

India ko pakistan se match baar baar Jeetna hota hai aur Pakistan ko bas ek bar

Ouch

That was brutal

The waiter giving some munchies to Noina and when she says that I didn’t order anything he says 15000 diya tha aapne humara kitchen band ho raha hai.

She’s on the verge of tears.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Ouch

That was brutal

The waiter giving some munchies to Noina and when she says that I didn’t order anything he says 15000 diya tha aapne humara kitchen band ho raha hai.

She’s on the verge of tears.

Matlab waiter ne bacha khucha khaana Noyona jo khila diya

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

They can’t, they won’t and they shouldn’t.

I know it may seem like a cool thing to propagate now but such decisions have long term consequences when implemented.

Look at Europe right now, why do you think it’s going through such a hard time with immigration? It’s about to get worse there and I mean really, really worse. It’s all owing to the native population declining to a dangerously low level there. Aging population with no replacement from the natives who chose to go childless or have fewer kids or whose fertility rates were destroyed thanks to an exposure of drugs, booze and other substance abuse in addition to their citizens given the option of having social benefits which made them lethargic to the point where they had to import people from different countries from Middle East and Africa for basic jobs like baristas, cleaners, repairmen, maintenance workers etc.

Then these people had to also allow anyone entry into their country who claimed to be at risk in their own country as asylum seekers as well and while there were genuine cases, there were also those who exploited the system and they snuck in these places.

The result is today immigrants outnumber the natives in most locations across Europe and they’re at ransom in their own countries in a cruel twist of fate and irony of the past couple of centuries where these people were colonisers who invaded the world.


Look at China, Japan in our neighbourhood and extended neighbourhood. Look at South Korea. Population collapse is a national level emergency there that the governments are now trying to solve. China brought this crisis upon themselves with their brutal one child policy. Japan and South Korea apparently had massive social issues prompting their women to stop giving births entirely. These countries are now collapsing under the pressure of not having enough children.

If we were to go down this road, with already a limited window of 3 decades at max which gives us an edge with our young population, this would be a disaster of epic proportions and potentially catastrophic and disastrous enough to make the 1000 years of invasions, colonisation and other atrocities we faced seem like a golden period in comparison. We would be the ultimate fools to survive all those things only to be wiped out because we stupidly followed the Western world.

Not like we already don’t have evil billionaires out there in the world manufacturing pandemics and worse to mass kill a majority of our population, we would make their jobs easier.

Europe and north america have many problems

1) Their kids do not want to study much unlike asian kids as they are mostly rich(india would have same problem if 50% were rich as much as Americans). Asian kids want to study because they see parents struggle and poverty. See nadela, indira nooyi, narayan murthy all came from middle class family not so rich

2) Kids going away from religion churches empty. Richer you are lesser you require God

3) Too liberal - they and their liberal ideas have destroyed europe and canadan next is USA. USA did very clever work refused to allow iddle east refugees from war in to USA unlike canada and europe. When saudi/uae/qatar not alowing syria, iran, palesrine into their country as refugge why europe canada allowed? all extermist bigoted patrichail fundamentalist invaded europe canada mostly

4) Do not want kids- women there do not want kids as they have to do both jobs career and kid together so why want a kid which is extra work after 8 hours job

I do not think govt should decide how much kids couple want? If some woman do not want kid nothing govt can do

Instead give some benefits like paid leave for 2 years if kid born to mothers.

Originally posted by: SlatePencil

Matlab waiter ne bacha khucha khaana Noyona jo khila diya

Yeah and he basically said that at least have some leftoversbefore we shut down for the extravagant money you paid

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Honestly that’s an open secret between everyone. Very rarely are there genuine cases where the two people fall in love with each other regardless of vast age difference.

The women trade in their youth for a comfortable lifestyle throughout their life and the men trade in their desire to have something real, meaningful and honest for vanity and sensory delights. Both gain out of the relationship what they lack individually - one gains financial security and the other gets to experience youth and vitality. They are both very aware of the dynamics of who brings what to the table.

There will always be men around who would father kids to their dying breath if they could. And they are what one might call men with one foot dangling in the grave.

The difference is that men who have money will have an advantage of getting a partner and kids regardless of age. Women may find a sugar baby too; they may voluntarily be childless but they will be mocked and ridiculed while no one bats an eyelid when a man does that. Sure both get tongues wagging initially but later they get used to the idea of a man with a younger woman, the other way around will always be an oddity.

This is true i know in a big It company a 48 year old manager married a 26 year old manager leaving his wife and kids

Why would a 26 year old in top IT company with good post marrya much married older 48 year old guy

Cannot they find 30 year old men in IT company to marry

By the time lady is 50 hubby will be 72 73

Why not marry younger her age group

Just for money those in higher position earn

Here its not even money shes just 26 and can earn later well

its not like shes from slum her parents maid in others house etc like they show movies

There is no need of that 48 year olds money for her being educated and working

She can always go marry a 30 year old guy

That's freezing egg thing is unheard in common indian houses

We run of arranged marriage. Two strangers come together have sex on first day. There is no sex education, no lesson about contraceptive etc. making babies is very old school. Many people don't consider ivf as kids as own. Look at shahi show anupama. They showed adoption as wrong and already our society want someone to carry bloodline. Adoption is no no

Freezing egg also means people are having kids late. Village birth late is higher, people getting married in early 20s. In cities pregnancy is happening late but modern medicine helping the women. I think egg thing don't even come to picture

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

That's freezing egg thing is unheard in common indian houses

We run of arranged marriage. Two strangers come together have sex on first day. There is no sex education, no lesson about contraceptive etc. making babies is very old school. Many people don't consider ivf as kids as own. Look at shahi show anupama. They showed adoption as wrong and already our society want someone to carry bloodline. Adoption is no no

Freezing egg also means people are having kids late. Village birth late is higher, people getting married in early 20s. In cities pregnancy is happening late but modern medicine helping the women. I think egg thing don't even come to picture

I am just thinking

in another 30 years india demographic will go you said

Till 2055 this demographic is there

Now will not other country population too decline just like india sowhy fear population growth or not

India have over population 70% youth have no real jobs they are just doing lying they are employed unlike usa where employment you are working truly

Employment means proper work should be there with salary, pf, gratuiy etcNEET Rates: Nearly 25-33% of Indian youth are not in education, employment, or training.NEET Rates:

Nearly 25-33% of Indian youth are not in education, employment, or training.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Europe and north america have many problems

1) Their kids do not want to study much unlike asian kids as they are mostly rich(india would have same problem if 50% were rich as much as Americans). Asian kids want to study because they see parents struggle and poverty. See nadela, indira nooyi, narayan murthy all came from middle class family not so rich

2) Kids going away from religion churches empty. Richer you are lesser you require God

3) Too liberal - they and their liberal ideas have destroyed europe and canadan next is USA. USA did very clever work refused to allow iddle east refugees from war in to USA unlike canada and europe. When saudi/uae/qatar not alowing syria, iran, palesrine into their country as refugge why europe canada allowed? all extermist bigoted patrichail fundamentalist invaded europe canada mostly

4) Do not want kids- women there do not want kids as they have to do both jobs career and kid together so why want a kid which is extra work after 8 hours job

I do not think govt should decide how much kids couple want? If some woman do not want kid nothing govt can do

Instead give some benefits like paid leave for 2 years if kid born to mothers.

Yes, you have stated some very precise problems that are likely to cause Europe as a whole to collapse within a couple of decades as we knew it to be because not enough natives are having babies. They’re already outnumbered by immigrants of all races in major cities and districts across various countries, immigrants who are also outbreeding them. The decline in their own productive population has also impacted to their decline in the hierarchy of world politics.

The ongoing Russia Ukraine conflict has accelerated their decline by causing financial instability and crisis. Europe as a whole will be a very different place than what we have known it to be growing up a decade down the road and not in a good way.

We are on the verge of starting a new era after centuries of repression, loot and oppression; and the world sees us today as not just the fastest growing economy in the world but also the largest economic powerhouse of the world all courtesy of our numbers. We are simultaneously the world’s largest marketplace and manufacturing hub. We have the world’s largest number of doctors, engineers among other professionals and are still a developing economy by and large with an untapped potential. If we shoot ourselves in the foot by stupidly following the same mistakes that other nations have done before we would be the largest nation of dunderheads on this planet too who didn’t learn from live examples from our present times itself! And we maybe accused of being a lot of things by a lot of people but dunderheads is certainly not one of the things.

In fact, I wouldn’t be surprised if in the future, say a decade or two down the line our country expands to include some of our neighbours like Nepal, Bhutan and Myanmar. We will obviously take back our POK. If anything we are going to be growing in numbers. The government will not want to take that away from us as it’s their leverage obviously in geopolitics.

How they will help incentivise more kids per couple remains to be seen. I am sure they’re thinking of this and are way ahead of us.