Originally posted by: pyar-ishk
Abhira had issues as adult watching her mother get murder and later abandonment. I don't want to compare their issues or minimize Maira issues, my problem is with the adults around the child. Madhav said they should've dealt with it when Maira was 7 but they didn't from what they showing and the issues is now bigger. Being expelled from 1 school is bad enough,10 should be a crime. So Ar going around and just blaming Abhira and not taking accountability is my problem. Now no school will take Maira what will he do now blackmail or bribe but how is that helping Maira with her inner issues or guarantee issues that got Miara expelled won't happen again. I think Maira should be home school until they really deal with the problem
Over pamper children can have manners, it's not like Maira is going around acting entitle or spoil brat. My issue is over compensation, is unnecessary it. It wasn't fine when he took Maira, and had eating anything she want like ice cream for breakfast or close up tv watch but it was understandable cause it was just him, before G2 came in the picture. Now he has a big family with him, to help if he'll listen.
We can only go by what is shown so far, medical may not be the only solution, and I saw the eye exercise but not communicating and dealing isn't resolving it. Ar said if Maira had issues she could talk to him, is he serious. I mean how, he's mad at Ab and don't want to hear her name. Maira was a child and was angry, but anger fade but if the adults not letting go or dealing how can the child. And we know Maira is very protective of Ar feelings.
@bold - Maira is having abandonment issues due to Abhira leaving and staying away all these years (we don't know the leap premise yet so going by what is shown pre and post leap). He told explicitly today that none from Poddar family were of any help when Maira needs during her triggers or when she has breaksdown. None other than Armaan went behind Maira when she had a breakdown during Mehers engagement. During her breakdown, she clearly told him that she isn't able to control herself when ever she hears Abhira's name. Armaan told her to feel the emotions, give herself some time.
https://x.com/TaaronKiRoshni/status/2018858816876781988
https://x.com/TaaronKiRoshni/status/2019968756785770751
@Italics - Armaan isn't talking about Abhira or taking her name because it's impacting Maira as she herself said that. When Madhav taunted him the other day or Tanya took Abhira's name infront of him , he didn't say anything nor told them not take her name infront of him, he asked them not to do it infront of Maira as she is getting impacted. Today also he asked Madhav, why couldn't he speak to Armaan when Maira wasn't around instead he had to do it infront of her when he very well knew how it impacts her?
https://x.com/gloriousgurl07/status/2020449569327219008
Again, Armaan was wrong today in the way he was defending his parenting and also trying to desperately find new school for Maira since Madhav taunted his parenting. He could have handled it better.

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