Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki: Episode Discussion Thread - 38 - Page 90

THIS is the problem.

Thank you for articulating what I have been thinking.

I am not bothered about DK’s pain. Why are they focusing on it so much? It’s downright uninteresting because actually it is Mannat who lost the most, not him. His pain can’t be equated with Mannat’s.

I don’t want to predict or analyse because these writers are weird. But if at all we question Mannat’s choices then for Manvik the lesson would be both trusted other people rather than each other.

I really want Manvik scenes without DK .. and with the promo it looks like DK nahi to now Yashika will be there in every interaction.

And why is Dua also made to suffer like this? How will Mannat ever be fine with Vik knowing about Dua?

I’m honestly lost. 😞

Originally posted by: Moor278

Bold ... sorry what????

This is 21st century... there shouldnt even be a question like this..

And Salujas are very modern family .. not at all conservative...

I would like to point out again.... Aish is drinking buddies with Ronnie. Gagan hugs Shruti and Neetu. Malla wears a strapless dresses even while married....

Why should all the propriety be directed only at FL!!!!

Please stop even if DK looks dubious now.... this kind of talk is what leads to shaming a female 😒

Mannat did not have any wrong intentions... she doesnt even now...

Did I say anything about her dress or regarding her dress? Why do you jump to conclusions ? Did I ever mention ,M has any wrong intentions ? Depending on the context , I said that they should have been transparent and cautious as they already know Vik ' s thoughts ..Go through my post once again with cool mind..

Bold sorry ..what ?? What this kind of talk ?

This has been a topic of ongoing discussion among many forum members for quite some time. . Do you wish to control them?

How was the female shamed by this? Did I ever mention anything about the shape, size, or appearance of the female?

Google 's help :

Body shaming means expressing mockery or criticism about the shape, size, or appearance of a person's body.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

THIS is the problem.

Thank you for articulating what I have been thinking.

I am not bothered about DK’s pain. Why are they focusing on it so much? It’s downright uninteresting because actually it is Mannat who lost the most, not him. His pain can’t be equated with Mannat’s.

No-one is interested in DK’s ‘pain’ - which is what exactly? Seeing his mother’s true face, who then manipulated his long lost baby brother he barely had any real attachment to, away from him. He has gained far more in Dua than lost, so I don’t see what his tears are about? Loosing Dua? But as I have said before a child can love a chachu as immensely as her own father, so there can be space for both if writers wanted.
As much as I absolutely love Adnan and Vikrant’s character who is riddled with faults, but if Vik was shown to be beyond redemption and we were genuinely meant to root for DK, then I could understand spending so much SS on DK’s inner thoughts and elevating his character, but its wasting our time at present. When we had ViMal, Malla’s face was panned in annoyingly in ManVik scenes, some silly foiled plotting and pointless dialogues, but we didn’t get this in depth episodes’ worth we getting with DK/M and DK/Dua.

I didn’t want to get worked up, which the character itself isn’t doing to me, it’s the unnecessary repetitive time and focus given, when, as I said if he dropped dead , wouldn’t matter but help in the show.

Originally posted by: Jyotsna09

Did I say anything about her dress or regarding her dress? Why do you jump to conclusions ? Did I ever mention ,M has any wrong intentions ? Depending on the context , I said that they should have been transparent and cautious as they already know Vik ' s thoughts ..Go through my post once again with cool mind..

Bold sorry ..what ?? What this kind of talk ?

This has been a topic of ongoing discussion among many forum members for quite some time. . Do you wish to control them?

How was the female shamed by this? Did I ever mention anything about the shape, size, or appearance of the female?

Google 's help :

Body shaming means expressing mockery or criticism about the shape, size, or appearance of a person's body.

Red.... So are we going to justify this even though Vik thoughts were wrong????

When this happened there was no sign of DK developing feelings... no one thought so...

I deliberately mentioned the dress of other characters because that is the environment Vikrant has grown up with and seen this throughout his life... if he is fine with them why should all of his judgement be reserved for Mannat????

I did not mean body... shame in general for 'side' hugging a guy.... and that too when both DK and Mannat had clarified that there was nothing untoward.

When you add cautious as a word .. it directly implies that the concerned party should exercise caution... in this case Mannat and DK... the onus is on them ... not on the one accusing them

I get the discussion and I am very glad that some of you have been proven right... I was grossly mistaken.... that doesnt mean I cant call out such language when it demeans a woman.

DK is wrong now... we still dont know when his feelings started.... so to look at everything from that lens now is whats not required.

This hug was called out by some instigators when it aired and there was huge support on the forum for Mannat and DK ... and I remember you too had defended it then.

Originally posted by: Moor278

Red.... So are we going to justify this even though Vik thoughts were wrong????

When this happened there was no sign of DK developing feelings... no one thought so...

I deliberately mentioned the dress of other characters because that is the environment Vikrant has grown up with and seen this throughout his life... if he is fine with them why should all of his judgement be reserved for Mannat????

I did not mean body... shame in general for 'side' hugging a guy.... and that too when both DK and Mannat had clarified that there was nothing untoward.

When you add cautious as a word .. it directly implies that the concerned party should exercise caution... in this case Mannat and DK...

I get the discussion and I am very glad that some of you have been proven right... I was grossly mistaken.... that doesnt mean I cant call out such language when it demeans a woman.

DK is wrong now... we still dont know when his feelings started.... so to look at everything from that lens now is whats not required.

This hug was called out by some instigators when it aired and there was huge support on the forum for Mannat and DK ... and I remember you too had defended it then.

In which dictionary it is written that ' caution' word is a derogatory term which demeans a woman ??

Caution refers to the care, prudence, and attention taken to avoid danger, risks, or mistakes..

Sorry what??? Such language??? Which language???

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Originally posted by: scarlett22

I don’t want to predict or analyse because these writers are weird. But if at all we question Mannat’s choices then for Manvik the lesson would be both trusted other people rather than each other.

I really want Manvik scenes without DK .. and with the promo it looks like DK nahi to now Yashika will be there in every interaction.

And why is Dua also made to suffer like this? How will Mannat ever be fine with Vik knowing about Dua?

I’m honestly lost. 😞

TBH I am really sad with new promo. Why the hell they are portraying Vikrant as bad person in front of Dua?😭🤬.

New MU's are piling up regarding Vikrant. What he did in Mumbai or while traveling for Dua is all brushed under the carpet?

Like seriously? Then how these two will ever form a bond?

I don't see that happening in near future the way they are glorifying DK and demeaning Vikrant in every possible way😭🤬

He claimed that Mannat was the love of his life was he ever able to protect her from ARS?

He did step in with Bobby Salujas and chawl instance.

If he can love Mallas child and molly coddle him the way he does he neednt go overboard but atleast he can treat her with the consideration you shown to any child instead he labels her as ziddi and bad mannered.fathwrhood cant be learn by trial and error. Dua is a bright discerning child un duunlike Yuvi and needs to be handled intelligently .let vikrant sort matters in SM first before he claims rights over Dua. He has 4 witches and a brat and the danger zone AkA as Mezbani which he needs to set in order.

Originally posted by: Jyotsna09

In which dictionary it is written that ' caution' word is a derogatory term which demeans a woman ??

Caution refers to the care, prudence, and attention taken to avoid danger, risks, or mistakes..

Sorry what??? Such language??? Which language???

Dont try to twist the words...

The word 'caution' was used by you in context of Mannats behaviour... aka the hug shared between her and DK and was used to mean SHE should have exercised caution for Vikrants sake... so that HE doesnt misinterpret it...

Again... the onus to behave a 'certain way' so that Vik DOESNT misinterpret them was laid on her... NOT HIM. Even though at that point of time in the story nobody from the audience could definitively say if DK was going to develop feelings for Mannat later on.

This is the language I called out....

Dont blame the character retrospectively is what I wanted to stress for you.

Peace out 🙏