Seher Hone ko Hai: Episode Discussion thread 1 - Page 35

Once again seher is saved by mahid only. Otherwise she would have been struck in human trafficking.

As parth said ,now real story will start . Mahid getting to know about seher age. Seher will understand that all men are not like her father .

Mahid helping seher in becoming doctor. That will be the ultimate track of this show.

I just don't want to see any physical/romantic scenes between them until seher accepts mahid and seher reached 18 years age.

Originally posted by: JustRandomGirl

Am I the only one who isnt liking the way the story is moving after MaHer’s marriage? The thing is Seher’s age itself makes the marriage happening feel so wrong. I am very surprised that in SM many ppl r happy with the angry/revenge mode Mahid, like WHY?! MaHer chemistry definately is even better in intense scenes but why is he being borderline abusive to her, like forcefully taking her by carrying her?! I still hope he is just there to save her and bring her to his house temporarily till his Dada Huzur recovers. I am not liking this revenge track idea at all.

We already have enough red flags in ITV, why add another?!

This is the exact reason why I didn't like makers showing Mahid falling in love SO FAST! Its always a red flag when the makers rush through the feelings. Mahid was shown as a guy who maintained distance from women, why would he all of a sudden go gaga over Seher? Just because Dada Huzoor fixed his marriage? Just because Dr Farid told "yeh ladki aapki zindagi badal legi"? Honestly that should've been gradual.

I knew the moment they showed Seher running away, something like this would happen. Remember Mahid freezing when he saw Seher getting scared that he would beat her. Eventhough he didn't do anything wrong, he was so disturbed that Seher could even think of something like that. Now he is manhandling her, lifting her up against her consent. I understand he is upset, anyone would be..but that wouldn't change the core nature of a person. He was shown as a man who maintained physical boundaries with women. And that was to show the contrast between him and Parvez. That was to make Seher gradually understand that not every man is like her father. But all of that has gone for a toss now.

I dont enjoy manhandling either. I think hatred/angst can be shown even without that. Mahid became a typical Gul hero now. What makes it even more disturbing is the fact that Seher is only 16.

They should've gone the OG way. None of the ML/FL had romantic feelings for each other. Their bond developed after marriage.

Originally posted by: Darkxmatter

Generally Age is not the only metric to accept / reject marriage.

Society prespective, reaching puberty, mental maturity and knowledge to take care of your responsibility in the relationship. Those are all things should be considered for this.

For example in old times . In places where the environment was mostly hot. Women reached puberty in less age the women today (hormons stuff sesrch if you want). So early marriage was accepted in that time.

Secondly from Society prespective. Woman main responsibilities was taking care of her home and raising her children. So mothers generally taught girls from young age to cook .. etc. And with big shared family houses it was easier for them to split the child raising responsibility with her mom, sisters, aunts, mother in law ... etc.

From mental maturity, and relationship knowledge prespective. Girls learn by watching older women in the family. And sometimes by taking care for younger siblings.

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All of what I mentioned above is still applicable today in some countries, villages or rural areas.

But it is mostly not applicable for most of modern girls who grew in cities, in humed air conditioned, cold env, where focusing in school activities and only think about there careers when they grow up. And there mothers did not teach them basic knowledge like cooking until they reached 11 or more.

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For mehid revenge. I think it is temporary anger from the situation. After he know what hidden from him. He will understand. And even become helper for her to reach her dreams.

But from profit prespective they need to make the leads struggle to make the serial take more time so they gain more money. But TRP will decide how they change events pace.

As for starting marital life... MIL or other seniors had all right reserved. They used to decide when girls will be allowed and not allowed. Just because married, man had no permission to meet or talk with wife. You can also watch Balika Vadhu.

Husband ka asli kaam keya tha for baby wives... you will see in Bandita...nanny cum papa.

And both Bandita and BV didn't lie. That was and is the common situation. Although today's ppl think may be at age of 10 king Akber married 3 year old Rukeya and they must have done etc... kuchh nehi hua. One was at the field learning to be Man another home... learning to be Woman.

Why love is always means man has to get bullet on his chest...and after that not giving permission to that girl to see her mother...Mar gaya yah zinda hai? Is this love? You don't care about the person she loves, sp Mahid doesn't have mother. I thought makers will give that much brain+ heart to this boy. Sp when Fareed told operation successful.

Is this their intention to show a cruel guy who doesn't have any morality?

I found Parth's acting as Mahid actually very restrained and natural given the circumstances. His thing was aap kahin nahi jaogi, doesn't trust her any more, doesn't trust that she won't run away again. I don't think he was being cruel. And I am sure he knows it was Kausar who made or helped her run away, he saw both of them right? And he still doesn't know the truth, the real reasons behind her flight.

Right now he is completely shaken up and mad at her, for what she did to him, his family and above all to his dada huzoor by running away the way she did surreptitiously. His thing is why didn't you discuss with me. His thing is even before the qazi, I asked you for your consent.

I think once he gets to know the real reason and that she is under-age and has aspirations, etc., he will change.

Mahid is deep down a very nice man. He is tormented as hell but deep down a nice man.

I know I am rambling but somehow I really like him as a protagonist. He is flawed but just at the same time. We have to think of his upbringing as well. can't wish it away. But we can see that he is empathetic and open to new eprspectives as well, especially with Dr Fareed and the pizza scene, etc.

I'll end here, otherwise I will keep rambling..

And he did come to save her right and had prayed for her well-being as well. That his mohabbat should be mehfooz.

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I found Parth's acting as Mahid actually very restrained and natural given the circumstances. His thing was aap kahin nahi jaogi, doesn't trust her any more, doesn't trust that she won't run away again. I don't think he was being cruel. And I am sure he knows it was Kausar who made or helped her run away, he saw both of them right? And he still doesn't know the truth, the real reasons behind her flight.

Right now he is completely shaken up and mad at her, for what she did to him, his family and above all to his dada huzoor by running away the way she did surreptitiously. His thing is why didn't you discuss with me. His thing is even before the qazi, I asked you for your consent.

I think once he gets to know the real reason and that she is under-age and has aspirations, etc., he will change.

Mahid is deep down a very nice man. He is tormented as hell but deep down a nice man.

I know I am rambling but somehow I really like him as a protagonist. He is flawed but just at the same time. We have to think of his upbringing as well. can't wish it away. But we can see that he is empathetic and open to new eprspectives as well, especially with Dr Fareed and the pizza scene, etc.

I'll end here, otherwise I will keep rambling..

Originally posted by: Ivacaftor

This is the exact reason why I didn't like makers showing Mahid falling in love SO FAST! Its always a red flag when the makers rush through the feelings. Mahid was shown as a guy who maintained distance from women, why would he all of a sudden go gaga over Seher? Just because Dada Huzoor fixed his marriage? Just because Dr Farid told "yeh ladki aapki zindagi badal legi"? Honestly that should've been gradual.

I knew the moment they showed Seher running away, something like this would happen. Remember Mahid freezing when he saw Seher getting scared that he would beat her. Eventhough he didn't do anything wrong, he was so disturbed that Seher could even think of something like that. Now he is manhandling her, lifting her up against her consent. I understand he is upset, anyone would be..but that wouldn't change the core nature of a person. He was shown as a man who maintained physical boundaries with women. And that was to show the contrast between him and Parvez. That was to make Seher gradually understand that not every man is like her father. But all of that has gone for a toss now.

I dont enjoy manhandling either. I think hatred/angst can be shown even without that. Mahid became a typical Gul hero now. What makes it even more disturbing is the fact that Seher is only 16.

They should've gone the OG way. None of the ML/FL had romantic feelings for each other. Their bond developed after marriage.

First point. He did not touch her before because she was foreign to him. And his status as next Mufti. And he is not abusive.

Second point I wrote entire essay about this . Check the page before this 🤣

Originally posted by: MaNaN_Humesha

Once again seher is saved by mahid only. Otherwise she would have been struck in human trafficking.

As parth said ,now real story will start . Mahid getting to know about seher age. Seher will understand that all men are not like her father .

Mahid helping seher in becoming doctor. That will be the ultimate track of this show.

I just don't want to see any physical/romantic scenes between them until seher accepts mahid and seher reached 18 years age.

All of 3 first paragraphs 👏👏👏👏.

Last one they are husband and wife. They can do whatever they want 🤣.

But mehid clearly said in today episode 'he does not have "haq" over her. But he will hold her accountable for accepting the marriage'.

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Which mean he will not be intimate with her. But in front of the public She is his wife.

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Why love is always means man has to get bullet on his chest...and after that not giving permission to that girl to see her mother...Mar gaya yah zinda hai? Is this love? You don't care about the person she loves, sp Mahid doesn't have mother. I thought makers will give that much brain+ heart to this boy. Sp when Fareed told operation successful.

Is this their intention to show a cruel guy who doesn't have any morality?

He is just too much angry right .