Bigg Boss 19 - Daily Discussion Topic - 23rd Nov 2025 - WKV - Page 79

Originally posted by: Ritzie

Yes, Malti was also quite out of line here.

She has always been out of line, when she accused Tanya of kissing Amal’s pic for instance. Any decent person even if they saw this wouldn’t embarrass someone like this but then she sits complaining how the world is against her. Boohoo cry me a river is all I can say

Originally posted by: ScienceBitchYo

It is one thing to seek sympathy for yourself. It is another thing to get sympathy by painting your wife as a bad person.

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

She has always been out of line, when she accused Tanya of kissing Amal’s pic for instance. Any decent person even if they saw this wouldn’t embarrass someone like this but then she sits complaining how the world is against her. Boohoo cry me a river is all I can say

Originally posted by: ScienceBitchYo

It is one thing to seek sympathy for yourself. It is another thing to get sympathy by painting your wife as a bad person.

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

Arrey but who exactly is thinking he’s “trapped”?

Anyone who actually watched the episode and especially the live feed can see clearly why Gaurav is married to Akanksha. The man lights up around her. He blushes, he softens, he adores her openly. She stimulates him emotionally, mentally, physically and he proudly admits it.

There is not one moment in their dynamic that gives “trapped husband” energy. That’s simply a narrative created by people who already dislike him or who want drama.

And about the astrologer thing Yes, he knows her stance for 9 years.

But he is also a human being who has emotions and curiosities, and he didn’t ask the astrologer to override her decision. He asked because he was having a moment of vulnerability and introspection which happens in that environment.

A question asked in vulnerability does not mean disrespect.It means he was thinking aloud not seeking permission to pressure her.

Most importantly:His actions speak louder than that one moment.For nine years he has chosen Akanksha,chosen her clarity,and chosen to stand with her without force or resentment.

Before Akanksha herself revealed it in interview he had even said that HE is too busy to have kids...

If anything, that interaction only showed that they are a real couple with real disagreements yet they still walk together lovingly, hand in hand.

People who genuinely watched them know there is nothing forced or “victim” about him.There is mutual love, maturity, and respect ..even in differences.

Arey but why was he asking this question to a random stranger when he knows his wife s answer? What is genuine or respectful about it?

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

I feel it is okay to discuss in a way that he really wants to have a baby but he doesn't wants his wife to feel the pressure of his feeling, so he is asking a astrologer that if his wife openion would change on this or not....just to know ki kya uski kismat pe papa banna hai ya nahi but yeh baat national telivision par karne waali nahi hai....personally kar sakta tha kisi astrologer se.

No it's not ok to discuss these topics with random stranger when you know your wife stance. This conversation has successfully lead to people assuming the Gk is some sort of victim trapped in a marriage. He actually put her own spot.

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

You are underestimating BB’s reach. Akansha mentioned this in an interview, then Mridul asked and GK answered. Even there, Mridul should know his boundaries that it is improper to ask a couple about kids. Only in India is it seen as appropriate. I have seen 40-50 year old women married without kids and no one has dared asked this question about kids.

Now, when the topic is brought up on BB, by the person in question he refreshes it in the audience’s mind, both those of fans who knew him before and those who didn’t. This is a massive error on his part. Makers, incels are to blame, but someone questioning his thought process behind this is not inappropriate in the least. Why would you ever ask an astrologer about baby planning on BB?

It’s not about GK acting like a victim, it’s about him crossing a line of a personal issue on national tv yourself. When Malti questioned Akansha you mention he took her away. Akansha was visibly surprised at this and GK should have simply said the astrologer etc. Instead he subtext mein posed this to her again and she needed to shut this line of thinking down which she did and he looked dejected despite his cover ups which audience lapped up. The audience that lapped this up are his own fans and neutrals why will other people care about painting him as a victim.

That he invited speculation on his marriage is not an incorrect statement. He did. Ek interview pe eyeballs nahin aati, lekin BB episodes pe zaroor aati hai, ye reach aur platform ki baat hai. If we are saying this is about Akansha, let’s hold all parties accountable, though not equally so. To err is human and he has made a mistake.

I understand your concerns about BB’s reach - no doubt, it’s huge. But reach doesn’t automatically translate into hostility unless people want to twist something.

GK didn’t go to BB and volunteer this topic for footage or sympathy.

The conversation happened because:

1. It was already public knowledge from their past interview ...nothing new was “revealed.”

2. Mridul asked him directly and yes, Mridul absolutely should’ve known better, because asking a couple about kids is deeply personal.but then GK chose to answer as it was not a taboo topic for them..and he considered Mridul his own genuinely

3. The astrologer who was brought specifically to poke emotional topics pushed it again. This wasn’t GK seeking validation; this was a contestant responding in an environment engineered for vulnerability.

About “why ask an astrologer”:He wasn’t asking for permission to override Akanksha’s choice.He clearly said he respects her decision and is aligned with her pace.

What he asked was more internal/emotional curiosity ..an extremely common human moment, especially under stress and isolation.

He wasn’t reopening the issue with his wife; he was responding to something thrust upon him, and Akanksha handled it beautifully. She was firm, articulate, and completely in control of her stance which is a mark of a healthy marriage, not a shaky one.

And honestly, did he invite speculation?

Or did people who already enjoy moral policing latch onto it?

Because the same BB audience saw

the way he looked at her with pride,

the way he whisked her away when the question got intrusive,

the way he never once hinted she was wrong or unreasonable,

and the way he reaffirmed that he stands with her.

If someone chooses to twist that into “he’s trapped” or “she’s to blame,” that says more about them than about GK.

Yes, mistakes happen ..he’s human, and the environment is intense.

But a moment of vulnerability isn’t the same as disrespecting his wife or carelessly exposing her to incels. Their equation survived far bigger scrutiny pre-BB, and this didn’t shake it either.

The only “line” crossed here is by people who think a private couple owes explanations for a deeply personal choice. GK didn’t weaponize their difference - he simply reacted in a human way in a place designed to provoke human reactions.

And Akanksha shutting it down confidently wasn’t damage control it was a mature married woman reiterating the same clarity she’s always had.

If anything, this entire episode showed how strong and aligned they actually are.

Originally posted by: ScienceBitchYo

It is one thing to seek sympathy for yourself. It is another thing to get sympathy by painting your wife as a bad person.

Originally posted by: RockingSunny

As I said it was unnecessary but definitely not him trying to portray himself as a victim. If he had to be a victim why was he so glowing when his wife entered?? Yup discussing this could have been avoided but I think it's also their wish their personal matter coz I didn't see akanksha discussing about this with gaurav. She scolded gaurav for many things so if she felt gaurav did this to her then she would have taken a stand

She actually did take a stand and told him off for asking this question to astrologer . She told him "Mujhse pucho main jawab deti hoon. ". Clearly she didn't like it either

Just because he was happy to meet his wife does not gives him right to be inconsiderate to her.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Arey but why was he asking this question to a random stranger when he knows his wife s answer? What is genuine or respectful about it?