Abhira k rules khud k liye dusro k lie alag hai. Anyways she's a babysitter for Arman now uska khud ka decision nhi hai kuch v. No character flow no stand for any anything
Desi media always portray being bahu for third class family and stay in that family suffer daily is mahan. And bring a baby in this mix that's double mahan jannat ka safar. And serials only advertise these kinda behaviour more