Originally posted by: Kinginthenorth9
On this I agree with u ke if he feels gk holds him back from expressing his opinions the way he wants to or forces an alliance with abhinoor on him due to group baazi ya doesn’t relate to him due to age gap and is lost after gk sleeps early about what to do or who to talk to then toh given the bond they’ve have had in the past toh he should have shared his concerns with gk na khud se telling opposite party of amaal and baaz
But mujhe reddit waalo ke selective stand nai pasand kyun ke jab last week live feed pe mridhul was telling malti how after marriage husband is the man of the house and can do whatever unrestricted but if wife wants to work she needs to ask his permission toh it was excused ke bhola hai, bacha hai aur village area se aaya hai jaha pe aisi hi soch hoti hai but now he will get awareness and move on from such thinking but now that he backbite against gk and abhinoor toh now the same folks are no longer making excuses for him and calling out his regressive thinking jab ke start se hi call out karna tha ke regressive mindset hai no village ka hai excuses
How are the two things comparable ???
(Just keep in mind , I havent watched any of the two incidents. Just giving my opinion from what I hv read.)
While the first incident in bcz of an existing mindset , which is the result of conditioning that comes from being raised in a certain environment. Its difficult to change , and only happens when one steps out of that environment and gets to know different of people. This takes time.
The second incident which is his backbiting of GK is not related to his upbringing or environment imo. Every single person does backbiting , it has got nothing to do with being regressive. He is being constantly given the feedback that GK is dominating him and thats why his personality is not shining. So obviously he will feel like he needs to move away from GK's shadow and he cannot express his frustration to GK. Toh kisiko toh bolega.
The two incidents stem from two different sources . So I dont get how are the two things similar or why people need to call out both incidents or none at all.
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