Explain me Tanya ka POV someone 🤔

I always relate more with Tanya cuz she gives good to Hawasi Jodi AbhiMoron..

But... I don't see any rationale here:

1. Isn't she Bansal? And Poddars ke ghar ka pooja usse kya right se karna tha? She isn't bahu of the house but beti in a way.. Bahu are Chuhi and DoormatBhira... I think Bansals should move out from this toxicvilla and stay away from these criminals.
2. Why is she not mad at Kiara but throwing attitude only towards Doormatbhira... As far as I know Anshuman died cuz of that druggie and not doormatbhira... That lusty jogan is only responsible for ruining Anshu ka life... But why is Tanya not mad at Kiara? Bestie bestie khelte hai.. Meri samaj nai aa raha hai..

I always felt Tanya might be better than Muski cuz she was phuski.. And now seeing some BTS of bhai dooj seems like Tanya will also start calling Armoron bro...

Same why bansal's live their itni insult ke baad bhi actually vidya way of doing is very well but somewhat she is right diwali puja done by beta and bahu of the house and unfortunately baccha chor and that doormat abheera is only beta and bahu of the house so it's their right ya krish aur tanya too have right but not more than poddar so it's better after this day to day insult better move from the house

Is pupasa (who turn saint )and krish have no other property other than this house they are best lawyer of the city and their firm is doing good why they live in this kachra house better move to own house where tanya gets better treatment and haq and then they invite poddar and jalyoy them isme maza zyada aayega

Originally posted by: NeeruNature

Same why bansal's live their itni insult ke baad bhi actually vidya way of doing is very well but somewhat she is right diwali puja done by beta and bahu of the house and unfortunately baccha chor and that doormat abheera is only beta and bahu of the house so it's their right ya krish aur tanya too have right but not more than poddar so it's better after this day to day insult better move from the house

Is pupasa (who turn saint )and krish have no other property other than this house they are best lawyer of the city and their firm is doing good why they live in this kachra house better move to own house where tanya gets better treatment and haq and then they invite poddar and jalyoy them isme maza zyada aayega

Wahi na, I was also confused.. I am in no universe Abhira supporter after her recent actions, but puja should have been done by bahu of PH, i.e, unfortunately Abhira.... and at the same time, saari tayari bhi abhira se hi karvana tha... Tanya should just wash off her hands from this crazy Poddars!

Only unfair part was making her prepare for Puja and snatching the thali...

Kiara shouldn't be forgiven. That doesn't mean she's gonna forget how Abhira used, misused and emotionally abused Anshuman.

Also should she not be a millionaire? As she was the only family of her brother who was very very Rich? Where did all that money go?

It's patriarchy to assume that ..kajal has always been a part of the fam.since it was her husband who helped keep the firm in place always.

All children have equal rights that's madhav kajal and manoj

So when tani was promised the pooja they should have just let her do it. Backtracking in a commitment is wrong

Tani comment is true ..her dislike for ab ar is due to their hypocrisy...in some way ab did lead anshu on pretended to show off to ar and then did natak nautanki and he broke and vowed to find pookie and then so many times emo and cheating ( that near kids in car, that kiss on forehead after competition) imaging ar and all the deeds even after engagement to Anshu...

When there was a clash btw ar and anshu ab did not even support anshu

It was due to ab that he was heartbroken and ab kavu v mata did use his money to swim up now they have forgotten about their saree business..some other decent peep could have gotten that seed money

Pookie pookie pookie where was the kid when both went off leaving the kid ..one parent should or could have been der ..did they complete..nah ..came back reconciled

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

It's patriarchy to assume that ..kajal has always been a part of the fam.since it was her husband who helped keep the firm in place always.

All children have equal rights that's madhav kajal and manoj

So when tani was promised the pooja they should have just let her do it. Backtracking in a commitment is wrong

Tani comment is true ..her dislike for ab ar is due to their hypocrisy...in some way ab did lead anshu on pretended to show off to ar and then did natak nautanki and he broke and vowed to find pookie and then so many times emo and cheating ( that near kids in car, that kiss on forehead after competition) imaging ar and all the deeds even after engagement to Anshu...

When there was a clash btw ar and anshu ab did not even support anshu

It was due to ab that he was heartbroken and ab kavu v mata did use his money to swim up now they have forgotten about their saree business..some other decent peep could have gotten that seed money

Pookie pookie pookie where was the kid when both went off leaving the kid ..one parent should or could have been der ..did they complete..nah ..came back reconciled

It's not really about sharing property... It's more or less about doing puja and all.. I.e. Diwali ka puja, in general, is done by Bahu and hence Tanya isn't Poddar bahu as per title.

Patriarchal or not but this is unfortunately what Cultural aspects (scriptures) emphasizes that after marriage, beti's closer family will be her sasural - husband, in-laws, etc. So, from that view, either there should be two puja at Bansal and Poddars or both should have gotten their rights but if it's something by Poddars only then Abhira is the one..

I have no opinion on fairness of these cultural aspects , just stating what's true about this from cultural point of view.

Now, Tanya isn't wrong to feel that way and of course loser leads were absolutely wrong and trashy to use and throw Anshuman like that... And her being angry for that is quite justified.. That's different issue altogether.. Infact, I will support Tanya even if she kill leads! These two deserve to die for ruining so many lives, including each others!

But I don't like Kiara's involvement being sidelined in the whole issue and Tanya being so friendly with her.. It's annoying to say the least..

We do not have such a rule for deepawali..that only bahu should do Lakshmi pooja.

Mangala Gowri yes it is bahu and beti who can do ..but if bahu has done it's her haq for main pooja aarti. Else son will do if his wife has not dolue to period or pregnancy . But the beti is honoured My bro always gifts me saree / clothes sweets and Savory and wishes I as happy as Parvathi ma with my Mahadev roopi husband.

So yes it's cultural difference maybe