I Need Advice. Desperate.

well, here is the situation. Me and my 2 friends were sitting in the computer lab doing some research at lunch and then this guy comes in and talkes to us. We didnt know him but he likes anime like we do so he amused us. I know it seems like he's a stalker but thats not where im getting at. Anyways, after that he keeps coming everyday whenever we are in there. We have a hunch that he likes one of my friends cuz he is alwayz talking to her and not me and my other friend. And so she doesnt like him like that and now he is just getting annyoing. I find myself losing my paitence with him more and more eveyday. He doesnt leave us alone. Like today our school had a fun fair and went into the dunk tank and got wet. He kept trying to get my friend (the one he likes) to get into and she said no to him over and over again. He then said if ur not gonna get wet from the tank im gonna get u wet and so i tried to convice him to leave her alone and she didnt want to do it then she didnt want to. I want him to get lost and leave us alone but im just not a mean person and i dont yell at people like that. But i just want him to leave our lives. How di u tell him to get lost but so i wont hurt his feelings. Im desperate! PLZ! plz help me!

jus go for it gurl tell him 2 bk off and if he does nt den confide in an adult tht u trust and if tht still does nt help i suggest u talk to the poilce. if u decide to talk to him talk politley . dont b rude as this can make him even more annoying.

I honestly think u should let ur friend do that. See the thing is that he is after ur friend not u.

If ur friend doesn't like it then let her do it, as long as he is not bothering u then u shouldn't bother with him.

thanx but latelt he has been irritating both of us and we are sick of it! r u sure i should ask her to do it?

I think you or your friend..whoever can do it..say it first polietly that you don't like his company and even if he doesn't listen..ask any elder member you can trust to ask him to lay off..

I understand that you do not want to be mean, but either you or your friend needs to be strong. There is a difference between being strong and mean. Tell that he is a nice person, but he is coming off too strong. Let him know calmly that he needs to give you all space. If he is truly not wanting to cause any harm to you or your friends, then he will understand and respect you alls wishes.

Originally posted by: yuvi_ashi

thanx but latelt he has been irritating both of us and we are sick of it! r u sure i should ask her to do it?

I think u should let ur friend handle it. Don't tell her anything. Remember its ur friend he likes not u so I think it would be better to keep out of that decision.

thanx all of u guys :D yall have cleared it up for me. Im gonna ask her to say it. Thanx again :D

Originally posted by: Angeleyes 2

I honestly think u should let ur friend do that. See the thing is that he is after ur friend not u.

If ur friend doesn't like it then let her do it, as long as he is not bothering u then u shouldn't bother with him.

yepp i agree wid yuu..
i think that yu should let yur frend handle itt. try not to get into it...
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