Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Oct 4, 2025 Episode Discussion Thread - Page 16

Originally posted by: fantasyshowfan

And it is Geetu's responsibility to gauge how sober Armaan is? A lot of rapes happen when the culprit is out of his senses and drunk - would you blame them or the victim for not resisting enough?

Armaan said he would never love anyone other than Ruhi. Then he said his marriage with Abhira is a deal. He said she is a bad mother and from that he went on to say that she is the best mother.

Simple reason. People change, their opinions change. And that is the hope Geetu was holding on to. Her soft smile was the smile of love and not of having overpowered a defenceless man. If I compare Armaan's and Geetu's mistakes that day- I find Armaan irresponsible drinking much more at fault than Geetu misunderstanding his love. I am not saying Armaan sexually assaulted her as that was not his aim, but it wasn't hers either as clearly shown in the show.

But no we have to villainize her for thinking that her husband was initiating physical contact (which was happening) and go with the flow.

First, they bashed G2 nonstop saying she made him drink and raped him. When that didn’t happen, now the new excuse is that she’s God and should’ve known the ILU isn’t for her just so they can excuse Armaan drinking by himself and using her for his physical needs. Remember when they also blamed her for giving him pills to make him sleep so he misses the case? They bash her for things that didn’t happen and never happened. They conveniently bash her from future bts because they know once the episode airs, they won’t be able to bash her anymore, so why not bash her early? And once the episode airs and it’s their god’s fault, then they try bashing her by finding anything and blaming her for it so they can hide his kaands.

Now the next narrative is G2 will try killing Abhira and Miara which first hasn’t aired, and we don’t even know if that’s the truth or again lies like the previous ones. And even if it’s true, then why do they care? Since for them, cheating, EMA, and raping are all okay and fictional is fictional when they want to justify abhimoron. So why moral lessons only when they can conveniently use it to bash others. Third, Armaan himself is responsible for her mental state of mind. Any woman would lose her mind after being used so much and now even raped or at minimum used for sex while the culprit plays victim and blames you instead. It doesn’t justify if G2 will actually try to kill Abhira and Miara, but it explains her state of mind. Any woman would lose her mind, and all of it is Armaan’s fault

Originally posted by: fantasyshowfan

And it is Geetu's responsibility to gauge how sober Armaan is? A lot of rapes happen when the culprit is out of his senses and drunk - would you blame them or the victim for not resisting enough?

Armaan said he would never love anyone other than Ruhi. Then he said his marriage with Abhira is a deal. He said she is a bad mother and from that he went on to say that she is the best mother.

Simple reason. People change, their opinions change. And that is the hope Geetu was holding on to. Her soft smile was the smile of love and not of having overpowered a defenceless man. If I compare Armaan's and Geetu's mistakes that day- I find Armaan irresponsible drinking much more at fault than Geetu misunderstanding his love. I am not saying Armaan sexually assaulted her as that was not his aim, but it wasn't hers either as clearly shown in the show.

But no we have to villainize her for thinking that her husband was initiating physical contact (which was happening) and go with the flow.

Yes. It was Geetu s responsibility. Armaan did not force himself on her. She came on him. She took him to the bedroom. She initiated the kiss

Her husband initiated nothing. She did

People change over time. Not in a few hours. Dude literally refused kiss just few hours ago. Geetu thought he went from being uncomfortable by her touch to ilu in few hours as legit?

That BS

In those rape cases it's the drunk culprit who comes on the victim .

A lot of rape cases does happen even when woman is drunk

If I change the scenario. Imagine if the wife had made it very clear n number of times while sober that she is not comfortable with physical touch. Then one day she gets drunk and says ilu. Husband takes that invitation for sex. Wouldn't that be wrong?

When you take a drunk person s words over the one they said while being in their senses.

Originally posted by: The_Best

https://x.com/surabhhi7627311/status/1974439066793071057

Still on degrading Ruhi even after she left.... But ghatiyamaan is forever innocent

Originally posted by: Poojutty

Hii All im A gen 3 fan and i have graduated from law school first things 1st Armaan shd divorce Geetanjali if he wants an affair with Ab . I feel Ar n Geetu are both victims as He was intoxicated no full consent was given n Geetu well she thought he loves her and did the deed . It would be a crime if Armasan told G he loces Abheera but she still sleeps or drugs him

Thankyou for the insight... Even though I agree she is dumb & selfish to believe when he said liu... But she didn't do any assault like everyone framing

Originally posted by: sammmmmyyyyyy

Still on degrading Ruhi even after she left.... But ghatiyamaan is forever innocent

The same people who dragged Ru left, right, and center for imagining Ar during that dance scene while she was married to Ro which was also wrong are now quiet when Ar does the same thing being married to one woman but proposing to his ex. Isn’t that basically the same situation?

Originally posted by: CanKeepCalm

I have noticed a lot of selective calling out lately. Everyone bashing G2 over the consent issue which is fair per law but no one seems to be calling out that chor for proposing to his exwife and even imagining her while still being married to another woman.

The same people who dragged Ru left, right, and center for imagining Ar during that dance scene while she was married to Ro which was also wrong are now quiet when Ar does the same thing being married to one woman but proposing to his ex. Isn’t that basically the same situation?

see martial **** is a sensitive issue and they made armaan drunk and they both did the deed.Its a situation as armaan was in a drunk state so it counts as martial ****

Now X jogans are out pouring with sympathy for armaan and even TRP watchers feel bad for armaan.

Writers really did this for armaan's ww thats why they didnt let geetu live.

Armaan is ww successfully and now the ball is in his court.

Ruhi is a woman and armaan is a man.Women like to bash women.

This shows the inherent patriachy among women too.Armaan is a man.

Honestly if Abhira and armaan hooked up the matter would be really different.Would it count as **** if abhira did it?

No.

Armaan and geetanjali are equally at fault.

Originally posted by: CanKeepCalm

I have noticed a lot of selective calling out lately. Everyone bashing G2 over the consent issue which is fair per law but no one seems to be calling out that chor for proposing to his exwife and even imagining her while still being married to another woman.

The same people who dragged Ru left, right, and center for imagining Ar during that dance scene while she was married to Ro which was also wrong are now quiet when Ar does the same thing being married to one woman but proposing to his ex. Isn’t that basically the same situation?

Yes..... But Ruhi is hated by most people because of her lineage.... Here the hyppocracy is totally real.... Her imagining ex is wrong & Armoron imagining ex is turulobe🙄🙄

Atleast Ruhi is better than this ghatiyamaan, whatever mistakes she done , she accepted & truly movedon unlike ghatiyamaan who cannot comeout of victim syndrome🤦

Exactly my point.... Nobody forced Armoron to drink & imagining his ex in that state, if it was Abheera in G2 place, so what it would be call love as then his drunk state isn't considered....

I agree with G2 taking advantage & selfish in believing his ilu... But she thought it was genuine.... How come it's solely one person's 🤷🤷 fault .... Isn't it his fault getting drink & imagining his ex while being with wife... Isn't that infedility as per law🧐

I can't understand this hate against single person whether Cameo or lead..... It's fault commited by people shouldn't be pointed out in forum irrespective of whoever it is

Originally posted by: sammmmmyyyyyy

Yes..... But Ruhi is hated by most people because of her lineage.... Here the hyppocracy is totally real.... Her imagining ex is wrong & Armoron imagining ex is turulobe🙄🙄

Exactly my point.... Nobody forced Armoron to drink & imagining his ex in that state, if it was Abheera in G2 place, so what it would be call love as then his drunk state isn't considered....

I agree with G2 taking advantage & selfish in believing his ilu... But she thought it was genuine.... How come it's solely one person's 🤷🤷 fault .... Isn't it his fault getting drink & imagining his ex while being with wife... Isn't that infedility as per law🧐

I can't understand this hate against single person whether Cameo or lead..... It's fault commited by people shouldn't be pointed out in forum irrespective of whoever it is

Abhira was drunk at christmas party and they slept together on same bed?Armaan changed abhira's clothes tho they didnt had any deed happening.

Wouldnt that count as outrage to her modesty?Considering abhira was seperating from armaan?

I remember this part faintly so apologies for any mistake

Ok let's stick to with your hypothetical situation. Two people married means sex is not only allowed and also expected. But the wife is simply not interested and says that clearly. But the marriage continues. So that would normally mean that the husband likes / loves the wife and is hoping that things would change between them. And wife is feeding that hope by choosing to stay in that marriage.

Now one day suddenly the girl hugs her husband and says I love you. Her husband is not a doctor or police and has no idea how drunk she is and no deep knowledge of alcohol levels and at what point the other person loses their impulse control.what would a normal person think? Haha let me take advantage of her as she means these words for her ex or would it be that finally she returns my feelings and there's hope for my marriage. All bottled feelings resurface.

He initates physical contact and wife does not show any resistance and they go with the flow. I won't call it rape. There is no malicious intent and the mistakes are on both side but bigger mistake is of the wife that she gets to a state where she doesn't know what she is doing.

Originally posted by: A_Star39

I also remember that when they where in resort a similar situation had happened?

Abhira was drunk at christmas party and they slept together on same bed?Armaan changed abhira's clothes tho they didnt had any deed happening.

Wouldnt that count as outrage to her modesty?Considering abhira was seperating from armaan?

I remember this part faintly so apologies for any mistake