Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat
because she knows what she lacks in
I also come from same background of nuclear family and not able to vibe with extended families. I was also born into similar financial background. In many ways i see similarity with bageera, i just hope i don't get this type of asshole husband and in laws, and if I get i never fall on their feet begging for love and money
She bend over backwards for familly members, and yet at many times does as she please because her mother had given her the leeway. She goes back to same house and same people cause she wants that luxury, financial security and fake concern of thes extended relatives, she knows these people won't help but she wants that, yet can't establish they relationship because she never learnt. Similarly abhir also behaves like that, he is badtameez and behaves rudely, but he wants these people in his happiness, and wants them to please him. That's the reason he went to Japan leaving india, his other sister. He could have settled in Delhi or something in same country. But he chose japan because he also wants that extended family attention and maybe finally he's grown up in some ways where he reciprocate love care of his family, like the way he behaved nicely with maira.
Same way Ruhi established relationships with these people cause she's learnt how to live in a extended family and handle people. She was Vidya and kaveris first choice and I still feel she Vidya had mother daughter bond, they used Vidya as a flipper for dramas sake but old epis I used to get that vibe. To think these people used to come to ruhi for advice and bageera jumped the gun at every situation, it just shows who's actually veteran in handling relationship whose not. Just look at the way Rohit forgave ruhi. I will say it's a similar mistake Arman did with maira but he forgave her. Abhira can't
I mean even after living together for years Vidya flipped and kaveri still won't call her name so what kinda relationship is this. Hence the reason bageera doing competition bs to win maira, buying her car, but also doing her own drama that she makes faces at geetu, won't listen to Arman, didn't even ask about mairas illness or medicine etc.
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