Originally posted by: Rohit_Nagar
Dance Academy was set up by Prem too not only Parag , Prem also planned for it. It was just that Parag handles everything and takes all decisions in the house that is why it was not possible set Dance Academy without him but that doesn't mean that it was totally Parag's work , Prem was equally involved in gifting that Academy to Rahi as surprise.
The idea of setting up a Dance Academy that too in her Father's name was Parag's idea when he, her father-in-law thought of her plight in Kothari Mansion. Prem, on the other hand, who was witness to this and closest to Raahi, did not even defend Raahi infront of Maahi (when she would keep taunting her), let alone others.
Secondly Rahi's attitude is totally wrong look at her words , she say ki vo Anupama ke saye se bahar nikalkar best dancer banna chahti hai , Bhai jis maa ne usko sikhaya uske saye se bhala vo bahar kaise nikal sakti hai , she said to Anupama Mummy aap jinda hai mari nahi and numerous other insulting things , earlier she was pressurised but according to a normal competition contestant, now she is pressurised as if she is going to fight a war and that also against her own mother .
Maana, Raahi's words towards Onupama are extreme and wrong.
Ek baat batao, jab Prem bol raha tha ki use Kotharis ke saaye tak se door rehna hn, apni pehchaan banani hn, woh sahi tha? Yahi baat usne Onupama tak se kahi thi. Tab toh yeh nahin kaha gaya ki bhai, jis mata-pita ne tumhe bada kiya, jis pariwaar me tum Bade hue, jinka credit card abhi tak tum bedhadang use Kar rahe ho, unke saye se bhala kaise nikal sakte ho? It was said to be a good trait.
She has enough and more reasons to detest Onupama. Be that as it may, if you remember, Raghav had attacked her, mistaking her to be his ex-wife, Raahi was almost killed. Raahi keeps her distance with Raghav and wants him punished. Is This justified or not?
What do both Onupama and her husband, Mr.Prem do? They not only forgive him but are willing to build cordial relations with him. Why? Onupama's justification was that Raghav was wronged, himself, in the past. Really? What were they trying to show through this "unconditional support" of Raghav? He was wronged in the past, so, his act of attacking and almost killing Raahi was justified? Not just that, so much so that the attack was forgotten and culprit given a clean-chit by Prem because of Raghav-Onupama's friendship .
One main thing is that Anupama was not responsible for Aryan's death, it was Khyati's fault that she left her son and never ever looked for him because of which Aryan fell in bad company .
So Prem does not want his mother and wife to blame Anupama for the things which she never did , Khyati says , she is hatyaran , she killed her son and never misses any chance to insult or curse Anupama and Rahi
Agree, Onupama is not responsible, she and Maahi just should not have hid from the Kotharis, the fact that he consumed drugs or had fallen unconscious after consuming drugs on the evening of the wedding.
It is just convenient to blame Khyati for abandoning a child but it is blasphemy to blame Onupama for abandoning a 7 year old adopted child š¤.
May be because, unlike Aryan who grew up with his Mama and still got into bad company, Raahi was left on streets and grew up in orphanages, learning to earn a living, ALL on her own.
Khyati feels (and any mother would feel) that, had Onupama informed them (Kotharis) about his dizzy spell, they could have taken timely medical help and perhaps could have saved him. They did not even know of it nor got a chance to save him. What's wrong in her understanding or her belief here?.
Isn't this more logical and than Onupama cutting off ties with Anuj who had no direct or indirect link to Samar getting shot?
, she was against Rahi's dream or wish to work because of a regressive mindset that was imposed on her years back . And saying that Prem remains mostly quiet when Khyati or Mahi taunt Rahi , then bhai Prem never remains quiet , he always says something like when Rahi was planning to work Prem took stand for her , when Khyati was insulting Rahi's dance academy plans he took stand for her , when Moti Baa was insulting Rahi for opening dance academy he took stand for her,
ALL this AFTER Parag encouraged Raahi to start something on her own and allocated a piece of land for the Academy which was opposed by Vasundhara and Co. Everything is just lipservice. So, we are trying to say, that the man who rebelled to get his way, who continues to rebel for "Mummy's" sake, had no resources, nothing at his disposal to encourage his strong, talented wife or offer her options?
when Khyati wanted Mahi to be closer to Prem he clearly took stand for her,
Isnt that the bare minimum expected of a man fir his wife?
when Khyati was forcing a competition like a war on Rahi he was taking stand for Rahi before she intervined ,
He did not utter a word when ridiculous challenges were given/accepted. After everything was done and dusted with, he started his high pitched drama of pressurising Raahi? What happened to him at the temple to stop this in the first place?
Worst case scenario, is he ok with Raahi getting humiliated in front of the opponents? Would he be able to stay quiet if Onupama's team were humiliated?
but ya I agree that he cannot say that much because of 2 reasons , first Rahi herself will stop him ,
He wants Raahi to feel like what he does. He doesnt understand Raahi or her distress. He just can scream at Kotharis because, being their own, they will listen to him and let him be. With anyone else, he doesn't seem to find his voice
second Mahi and Khyati are using trauma as a shield to ill treat and play blame game with Rahi.
Cannot say about Maahi but If Khyati is using her grief as a shield, then Prem is holding his blinded loyalty towards Onupama to force his will on others.
Khyati raised him, he supposedly believes her to be his mother, isnt it? So his mother is in grief. How is he helping Khyati deal with her grief? By doing nothing but insult her, shout on her?
His condition is similar to Parag , like Parag asked Khyati to get out when Aryan's truth was revealed,
They are Nothing like each other. In that, Parag is sane and reasonable. He will do something about the situation rather than meaningless lipservice.
can't he do it again with Khyati or Mahi , if not putting out of house then can't he just shut them up when they insult Rahi or when Khyati wanted Rahi to go through the same situation which she faced years ago or when Khyati was saying ki Prathna ki toh pehle Jamai ji ke samne himmat nahi hoti thi aur ab dekho despite knowing that Prathna was ill treated by him .
@bold: ??? Samjha nahin.
Did Kotharis know she was illtreated by Gautham?? Isnt it only Prem-Rahi who knew about it? Again did NOTHING about it.
The makers are now trying to show that what happens when an arrogant person changes . Like earlier Prem never listened to anyone in family, and never gave any shit to Khyati, he beat Gautam in front of everyone when he came to know that Prathna ran to shah house but when he changed, everyone especially Khyati started emotionally torturing him .
Yeh kab hua? Ginti ke ek baar usne kaha ki tum mujhe Maa manne ka sirf dikhava karte ho that too when aprem was hellbwnt on getting his way. Isse kayi kayi zyada toh Prem ne poore Kothari khandaan ko guilt trip, emotional blackmail karta aaya hn.
Parag was the man of the family no body had courage to raise voice against him (except Prem because of his misunderstanding and Vasundhara because she is his mother) but when he changed he could not even say that much.
Jis baarey me use bolna tha woh toh kiya nahin aur Kya kehna tha usko? Kiss baarey me? What locus standi did he have anyway, to say anything else other than the condition of his sister and wife?
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