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Posted: 22 hours ago
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I was reading comments on who is Geetanjali to call Maira her daughter, how can she comment on where she should be but didnt Armaan make her the "mother" like Abhira made Abhinav the "father"? How was he hailed for calling Abhir his son and loving him like that, fighting the custody battle like that, telling off Abhimanyu as that, but Geetanjali is a witch for doing the same?? Isn't this just genders reversed situation? Or am I missing something?


IF people had been saying she can't be mean to Abhira since here she wasn't the "toxic" one, I would still understand, but her claiming Maira as her own isnt something I see wrong in, the same way I never found Abhinav wrong in claiming that, I found other things wrong.

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Posted: 21 hours ago
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Abhira is my favourite that’s why Geetanjali is an evil witch. Abheemanyu was the worst that’s why Abhinav was the best despite him doing the exact same thing as Geetanjali. PS: not my logic.

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Posted: 21 hours ago
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Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Abhira is my favourite that’s why Geetanjali is an evil witch. Abheemanyu was the worst that’s why Abhinav was the best despite him doing the exact same thing as Geetanjali. PS: not my logic.

Lol! Thats exactly what it sounds like and why I find it so confusing.. they are exactly same

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Posted: 21 hours ago
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For them geetu didn't rise pookie from day1 . It's only after 3 yrs. But right time is that only. Below 3 kids have no memory of childhood incidents.

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Posted: 17 hours ago
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People feel G2 is not officially her mom so she can’t. Abhinav was Abhira’s father and like that G2 is her mom. Not officially but she looked after for years. How do people expect her to get detached just like that? Just because she didn’t get that title yet? Even, I liked Navir’s bond but if G2 claiming Maira is wrong, so is Nav’s claim of Abhir being his son.

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Posted: 17 hours ago
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Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Abhira is my favourite that’s why Geetanjali is an evil witch. Abheemanyu was the worst that’s why Abhinav was the best despite him doing the exact same thing as Geetanjali. PS: not my logic.

In fact, he just wanted to be part of his son’s life as his father. Yes, he was wrong to throw her out and dismiss her call months later without listening to her properly. Didn’t Akshu also do the same ? Didn’t listen to him and went out to save those girls. I don’t blame her for Neil’s death. That was an unfortunate tragedy and she could not ignore the kids as well. But Abhi did forgive her and his sister for hitting and running his mom. She had every rights to move on but she shouldn’t have denied Abhimanyu his rights as a father. Abhir should have decided what he wanted.

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Posted: 16 hours ago
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Originally posted by: Mehersudha

For them geetu didn't rise pookie from day1 . It's only after 3 yrs. But right time is that only. Below 3 kids have no memory of childhood incidents.

Exactly.. and it doesn't matter if she brought up Maira from day 1 or day 1000, Maira considers her her mother, same way Abhir considered Abhinav his father. What i dont understand is that how is Abhinav the father and people used to get angry if anyone said he wasn't, but Geetanjali isnt a mother? If the theory is that she didnt give birth, then neither did Abhira.

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Posted: 16 hours ago
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Originally posted by: dattebayo

People feel G2 is not officially her mom so she can’t. Abhinav was Abhira’s father and like that G2 is her mom. Not officially but she looked after for years. How do people expect her to get detached just like that? Just because she didn’t get that title yet? Even, I liked Navir’s bond but if G2 claiming Maira is wrong, so is Nav’s claim of Abhir being his son.

Exactly! Abhinav was Abhir's father, and Akshara also hadn't officially married Abhinav so there also it was muh bola rishta, so how is that muh bola rishta sacred and this wrong?

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Posted: 16 hours ago
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Originally posted by: dattebayo

In fact, he just wanted to be part of his son’s life as his father. Yes, he was wrong to throw her out and dismiss her call months later without listening to her properly. Didn’t Akshu also do the same ? Didn’t listen to him and went out to save those girls. I don’t blame her for Neil’s death. That was an unfortunate tragedy and she could not ignore the kids as well. But Abhi did forgive her and his sister for hitting and running his mom. She had every rights to move on but she shouldn’t have denied Abhimanyu his rights as a father. Abhir should have decided what he wanted.

And he did, yes, it was emotional manipulation of the child, but he did choose Abhinav and Abhimanyu did decide to step away so he doesn't get hurt. But would the same treatment be given here? No, here also Armaan hasn't moved on, Abhira also wanted to move on only because she thought Armaan had, but here, they'll show Maira being her dad's copy and throwing away Geetanjali and asking Abhira to live with Armaan and Abhira, with her zero self respect, would agree, take fake sympathy from everyone about being bechari in her daughter's love and then do gulu gulu with Armaan under a blanket.. it wont matter that Geetanjali is the only one who knows how to handle the narcissist like Armaan and Anshuman is the only one who actually cares about Abhira and isnt selfish, now suddenly the toxic couple would be best couple while Abhira's own mother would be called the victim of toxic ex husband who didn't even kidnap the child.

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Posted: 16 hours ago
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The situations and backgrounds between Abhir-Abhinav and Maira-Geetanjali are completely different. Abhir only knew Abhinav as his dad and Akshara and Abhinav were legally married since his birth. They presented a normal family in front of him even to the extent of sleeping in the same bed and celebrating their wedding anniversary so he always thought he had a normal family. Plus the writers really highlighted Abhir-Abhinav bond and showed that Abhir was much closer to him than Akshara in the beginning. Abhir was given an idyllic childhood even if it was false, even if his parents were struggling. So of course, he always wanted his parents to be together and he wanted to be with them. Akshara never wanted to go back to Abhimanyu even when she had not moved on, she only agreed for Abhir, after Abhinav's death. There was lot of animosity and hatred from her side towards him. She only softened up after he gave up Abhir's custody to the Sharmas. Here Maira knows G2 is NOT her mom and she is closer to her dad than G2. She wants G2 to be her mom, but Armaan was still a single father and he DID NOT coparent with G2. She was at most an unofficial nanny. So Maira was raised in a single parent home. Here Abhira has much more scope to win Maira than Abhimanyu did. Maira already likes Abhira a lot. She is of course sad to leave her dad and G2 and dadu and city and she is going to act out. That's normal. That's why they will show Armaan to be the bridge between the mom and daughter. In previous season, they couldn't show that. Maira will also learn how much her dad hurt her mom and what really happened. She will still love G2 but Abhira is her mom. She will definitely accept it. For Abhir, Abhinav and Abimanyu were both his fathers as one raised him and became his legal stepfather while one is related to him by blood. Abhir accepted them both. But because Abhinav was married to his mom and he had spent all his life with him, he was of course more attached to Abhinav than Abhimanyu. But after Abhinav's death, he wanted his bio parents to be together so they can be a family. Maira is gearing towards that too. If they really wanted an actual conflict, they could've retained Ruhi and have her raise Maira with Armaan or have Armaan already married to G2. That would've really divided up the viewers. But my making Armaan the sole criminal of this leap and making Abhira completely blameless, they are not creating any more love triangles and squares.

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