Well, I want to say yes, and no.
Bella did somethings to make her feel guilty. Like in the third one, asking Jake. She did that to herself. And she did flirt with him in the first book. But then again, humans...Gah 😆 😳
Now Jacob, he liked her and he made it plainly obvious that he did. Yeah, he pushed, but he knew that Bella loved him. He just wanted to know if there was a way she would choose him. Some people would do that, while some, like Edward, would walk away, just to make the one they love happy. They both are a bit different, and htey love her in different ways. 😳
There are times when I re-read the books, that I get mad at Bella, and then there are times, Im mad at Jake...Hehe im never mad at Edward...I wonder why.. 😳 😆