Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai - 19 Jun 2025 EDT - Page 12

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Dont understand the criticism for Abhira. She loved selflessly. She waited for 7 years. She is seeing the signature of Armaan on divorce papers which makes everything super final. So she breaks down. Anger at herself for trusting him, waiting for him, loving him.

The only bit that's absolutely not ok is that her breakdown is in public not at home. She should have done tod phod at home. She cannot break other people's things in her own grief/anger and then give money to compensate. But her visceral reaction is to be expected

Problem is she doesn't look angry ..she's more disappointed that arman replaced her & pookie. She was waiting for him to come bk after his anger cooled down ..everything is wrong to begin with ...

If she's angry for the reasons you mentioned , ill support her ..

Yes very much possible. Reunion ko bohot time hai waise. Uske pehle kaands are going to happen. Although at this point, I don’t think Abhira will “love” Anshuman.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Dont understand the criticism for Abhira. She loved selflessly. She waited for 7 years. She is seeing the signature of Armaan on divorce papers which makes everything super final. So she breaks down. Anger at herself for trusting him, waiting for him, loving him.

The only bit that's absolutely not ok is that her breakdown is in public not at home. She should have done tod phod at home. She cannot break other people's things in her own grief/anger and then give money to compensate. But her visceral reaction is to be expected

She can cry for her failed relationship all her heart wants.

But what's this breaking of others property. Did she not expect him to sign the divorce papers? It's not like him signing divorce papers is shocking to her. She should have anticipated it when he proposed to another woman.

She had 7 years to cry over her failed relationship. Armaan broke up with her 7 years back by throwing a letter on her. Not recently. It's her foolishness to expect him to come back to her when he explicitly told her many times he doesn't see her as pookie's mother.

She was waiting for him to come back. All these years, she was not even angry. Woh aajata toh she would have accepted him.

Aur woh karegi accept. The day she moves on with Anshuman, Armaan ka automatic whitewash hoga.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Publicly tod fod karna should not be the reaction (otherwise also tod fod) .period.

There r several other ways to take out the frustration such as this

and ..this .

but she won't do any . Best way is to move on , she will be skeptical doing that also ..

Tod fod only shows how hung up she is on arman & this is all fake natak , genuine hi nai lag raha ke she's angry..

There are phases.
Disappointment -> cope -> seethe -> anger -> acceptance -> indifference.
She is still in the 1st phase. Only DKP knows if she would go through all these phases or some of the phases, and then finally undergo the union phase

Main reason abhira getting criticised is for her extreme doormat behaviour.

First of all her waiting for armaan after whatever he did was foolish.

It's worse that she is not only waiting for him but also completely forget how he humiliated her as a mother.

In every track she acts like world is ending and it's the first time armaan wronged her whenever she is "angry at him".

Drinking mirchi juice

Cutting her hair

Slapping herself when armaan sent divorce papers

Now breaking others property as if armaan signing divorce papers is a shocking thing.

She is crying over that dead relationship for 7 years still crying. Will keep crying.

Taking stand for herself, calling out her husband for all humiliation he did. Nothing.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

She was waiting for him to come back. All these years, she was not even angry. Woh aajata toh she would have accepted him.

Aur woh karegi accept. The day she moves on with Anshuman, Armaan ka automatic whitewash hoga.

She is getting criticised because she was waiting for him foolishly.

Like why would a man who humiliated you as a mother of his child , who clearly said he is cutting all relationship with you through a letter will come back to you?

It's not unconditional love. It's pure dumbness and desperation.

Originally posted by: sammmmmyyyyyy

She was sherni just like Naira, but I saw it as legachee phaake sherni in Gen4 initial episodes according to the phaans

She wasn't sherni she was just immature Brattish type girl she was never sherni😂

Originally posted by: Krinya

Problem is she doesn't look angry ..she's more disappointed that arman replaced her & pookie. She was waiting for him to come bk after his anger cooled down ..everything is wrong to begin with ...

If she's angry for the reasons you mentioned , ill support her ..

She is angry at him for all the wrong reasons.

She should have angry at him for humiliating her as a mother just because she didn't give birth.

She should have angry at him for keeping her own kid away from her by citing silly reasons like fever etc.

She should have angry at him for blaming her for pookie's missing when the baby got kidnapped because of the caretaker which he himself appointed.

She should have angry at him for asking his family to throw her out of the house while she was bleeding.

But madam is angry ONLY when he is moving on with another girl.

Unconditional love, selfless love my foot.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Dont understand the criticism for Abhira. She loved selflessly. She waited for 7 years. She is seeing the signature of Armaan on divorce papers which makes everything super final. So she breaks down. Anger at herself for trusting him, waiting for him, loving him.

The only bit that's absolutely not ok is that her breakdown is in public not at home. She should have done tod phod at home. She cannot break other people's things in her own grief/anger and then give money to compensate. But her visceral reaction is to be expected