Originally posted by: Autumn09
See, while I too believe in that old fashioned cliche: We live once in life, love once in life and marry once in life and am not a fan of zaraa si baat par divorce de do ya alag ho jaao. But Anupamaa in the show had all reasons to divorce Vanraj as Vanraj cheated on her and took advantage of her trust.
Though, I feel there's no issue of people finding love at a particular age, I was hoping Anupamaa to at least make a mark as a successful businesswoman first and then marrying some equivalent to her. Anuj ke saath shaadi karke fir vahi middle class girl and ultra rich millionaire boy wala power gap ho gaya. Ki ek sapnon ka Rajkumar safed ghode par baithkar aayega aur mujhe le jaayega types which felt like antithesis to the theme of show Anupamaa.
Also, Anuj and Anupamaa ka romance was too cringe. Like I've seen great portrayals of love story between middle aged couple, but Anuj and Anupamaa ka har kucch kaafi childish lagtaa tha. Actually the way a teenage couple expresses love is very different to a couple I'm their twenties which is different to their couple in their 30s. Also, unka apni marriage ko time diye bina bacchi adopt karna bhi was too rushed. Like Anupamaa already had handfuls of difficult kids and a traumatizing marriage, then why she wanted to again inundate herself into responsibilities for the adopted kid?
I didn't defend Vanraj but falling in love with four partners and at that age look weird to me....I don't watch it anyways....And Anuj Anu aunty's equation was shown as hormonal ig instead of mature love, so you can understand why a GenZ felt awk.....
She was meant to be gharelu as it gains trp toh modern mindset is not for tv....achcha ok she had adopted that's fine waise it rushed or what was situation can be disappointing for her fans...
I only watched ghum and I was emotionally connected toh there was a part where they shown FL- Sai flirting of next level in workplace even locked cabin and got over colleague, which felt really cringe.....and actually the way it moved forward there came a situation where her daughter was sitting together and they were discussing about her HM- my mind went like
bas karo yaar and she even addressed it to biological father-Virat
.....
Generally such stuffs impact kids a lot sometimes if seperation is dirty toh trauma as well...so ye multiple love affairs main support nhi karta along with other ethical reasons, I don't like this dating system as well I feel like pyaar bhi ek limited amount mein hota hai and you need to give it to right person at right time.... otherwise going through heartbreaks or breakups sucks you up from inside....and then when you marry uske impact padte hain....plus if you are allowed to leave and had been part of culture where it's very liberal so even giving so less in relationship PPl seperate....
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