if a mother is alive that kid gets unconditional love. If mother delivered kid for wishes or desires of hubby or family and dies kid will get only conditional love and bhoj on them for dragging life. Seen many people around me who lost parents in different ages. If a man is not there woman has to rise kid with double strength. If a woman died the kid gets secondary life. Fertility is major issue in life but not larger than life to risk own life or others life. I always say I went till death bed came back when my son is 3,4 yr old. That day I don't know what happened till I opened my eyes back. Till I opened my eyes my hubby my parents siblings were praying for me. Fighting against kismat is foolish thing if kismat supports everything goes clean orelse no. As we can't sit rewrite the fate on our own it's all destinedOriginally posted by: AnjuRish
The first rant of mandir jati hoon and all is ott and too much
When I was advised that the only way to reduce risk was to remove uterus ( my hemoglobin was constantly dropping due to painful heay periods and growth) my bp fell and i did collapse..but I did not cry until u saw my older bro at home .
My husband took my daughter away and went out so that I can cry ..my husband was like your life is imp. I did agree to doctor then and there but I was slightly uncomfortable. But my bro made me realise I was being selfish and I made up my mind and went for 3 sessions with a therapist so that I don't break down
Meher was of great help coz she kinda knew even though she was not aware of level of complications
The reason I am explaining my personal story is don't neglect and risk getting pregnant and out all peep who love u in depression and stress . What if something really happens
Fertility issues are a big deal. I was lucky that I got great support from husband fam friends
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