Abheera should first become a mature sensible human before becoming a mother. Just a few days back, she was happily doing jhado pocha and taking tuitions but the moment Dadisa pressed her weak nerve she wants to be a mother. She isn’t introspecting on coz it’s definitely not for a kid.
It’s for two things. One, she’s madly obsessed with Ruhi. Ever since Ruhi gave her pregnancy news, Abheera imagined herself in her place and two, she wants to show off especially to Dadisa ki dekho main bhi ma ban sakti hoon..
Even the last time these were the only reason she went ahead for a life threatening pregnancy. Coz the moment kid came into picture, she threw it on Poddar's head, made a joke of maternity leave and suddenly became the most career oriented woman. When the family disagreed, she didn’t think twice before taking a newborn to court..
One needs to be physically, mentally and financially prepared before bringing a kid into this world as it’s a life long investment and Abheera doesn’t have it in her to take up this responsibility. Going to temple and not eating junk doesn’t equate that one can be a good mother. Makers haven’t given a single scene to show her motherly instincts except they make her sing trauma inducing O Kanha jise sunke ache ache khamosh hojate hai toh bacha kya cheez hai..
If makers wanted they could’ve shown her bonding with homeless kids, adopting a baby.. woh khud ek anath ki beti hai.. At least they could’ve shown her visiting orphanages and spending time with kids. But there isn’t a single scene which tells Ab genuinely wants to be a mother. I hope at the end of this surrogacy track the baby goes on to live with Ruhi and Poddars and not with a careless woman like Ab who won’t think twice before risking it’s life..
(Ps. You guys can congratulate me for writing the entire para without calling Ab Gadheera, Kachri, clown or clownbheera.. It was a huge task)
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