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Posted: 4 months ago
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Abheera should first become a mature sensible human before becoming a mother. Just a few days back, she was happily doing jhado pocha and taking tuitions but the moment Dadisa pressed her weak nerve she wants to be a mother. She isn’t introspecting on coz it’s definitely not for a kid.

It’s for two things. One, she’s madly obsessed with Ruhi. Ever since Ruhi gave her pregnancy news, Abheera imagined herself in her place and two, she wants to show off especially to Dadisa ki dekho main bhi ma ban sakti hoon..

Even the last time these were the only reason she went ahead for a life threatening pregnancy. Coz the moment kid came into picture, she threw it on Poddar's head, made a joke of maternity leave and suddenly became the most career oriented woman. When the family disagreed, she didn’t think twice before taking a newborn to court..

One needs to be physically, mentally and financially prepared before bringing a kid into this world as it’s a life long investment and Abheera doesn’t have it in her to take up this responsibility. Going to temple and not eating junk doesn’t equate that one can be a good mother. Makers haven’t given a single scene to show her motherly instincts except they make her sing trauma inducing O Kanha jise sunke ache ache khamosh hojate hai toh bacha kya cheez hai..

If makers wanted they could’ve shown her bonding with homeless kids, adopting a baby.. woh khud ek anath ki beti hai.. At least they could’ve shown her visiting orphanages and spending time with kids. But there isn’t a single scene which tells Ab genuinely wants to be a mother. I hope at the end of this surrogacy track the baby goes on to live with Ruhi and Poddars and not with a careless woman like Ab who won’t think twice before risking it’s life..

(Ps. You guys can congratulate me for writing the entire para without calling Ab Gadheera, Kachri, clown or clownbheera.. It was a huge tasksmiley9)

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Posted: 4 months ago
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Abheera ke bare mein aisi baatein.....kya woh achchi insaan nahi hai....smiley37smiley375227-1258212.jpg

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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: ThukkadRajaShah

Abheera ke bare mein aisi baatein.....kya woh achchi insaan nahi hai....smiley37smiley375227-1258212.jpg

Doctor office mai kya bakwas kar rahi thi ki acchi insaan hu , logo ki respect karti hu blah blah blah smiley26 kya nonsense bolti hai yeh! Fertility issue ka inn sab se kya lena dena!

Log apne gynaec ke samne kitna maturely act karte hai , agar treatment is failed then sober way mai pucho na ki what is the next option for us! Ofcourse you can be sad, teary eyed lekin yeh no dialogue the yeh toh nautanki thi puri ki puri in front of Gynaec ! Very irritating lady smiley11

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Posted: 4 months ago
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I agree. Till Kaveri mocked her,raising the issue,she is ok being with Armaan,supporting him and Shivani. Suddenly she wanted baby even when Armaan is trying hard to settle with the change of his profession and environment. She didn’t think it necessary to have her own career to make things better for them. Abheera definitely irks me with her moods and swings.

In contrast Armaan is behaving level headed but this girl won’t let him be so.

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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: ThukkadRajaShah

Abheera ke bare mein aisi baatein.....kya woh achchi insaan nahi hai....smiley37smiley375227-1258212.jpg

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Abheera na achi hai na insaan.. She’s choti doomsday like her mother✌🏻

Posted: 4 months ago
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Op, preterm delivery ke 1 saal mai he she did ivf multiple times. Yehi dikhata hai ki how mature she and Armaan both are!

Baby ki chah rakhne mai and baby ke liye pagalpanti karne mai bahot fark hai. 1 saal mai multiple ivf itself is pagalpanti. IVF is invasive procedure and those hormones injections are no joke.

Secondly, agar abhira sure nahi hai toh kisi haal mai usko embryo transfer process nahi hone dena chahiye ruhi ke uterus mai. Jiske sath trust issues ho, bekar history ho khud ki usko kaun surrogate banata hai!

Armaan se zyada muje abhira yaha galat dikhti hai jo apne surrogacy ke liye bhi firm stand nahi le paa rahi hai! Kya waste lady hai jo apne husband ko firmly yeh tak nahi bol paa rahi hai ki since she has trust issues with the lady in question, that lady can’t be surrogate for her child. She a weak and waste lady!

I agree with the part where you said about motherly instinct! The thing is abhira jo nahi hai ussi ke piche bhagti rehti hai and jab woh mil jata hai tab usko value nahi karti hai. During the last pregnancy woh bsp bsp karti bhag rahi thi and jaise he baccha hath mai aya toh newborn ko court, masala factory kaha kaha fasati rehti thi just to fulfill social duties as a lawyer jaise ki uske allawa koi aisi lawyer nahi hogi jo mother ho and uss Jyoti whatever ka case handle kar sake. Baccha hath mai aate he career ke piche bhagna chalu like she literally made a joke of maternity leave.

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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

Abheera should first become a mature sensible human before becoming a mother. Just a few days back, she was happily doing jhado pocha and taking tuitions but the moment Dadisa pressed her weak nerve she wants to be a mother. She isn’t introspecting on coz it’s definitely not for a kid.

It’s for two things. One, she’s madly obsessed with Ruhi. Ever since Ruhi gave her pregnancy news, Abheera imagined herself in her place and two, she wants to show off especially to Dadisa ki dekho main bhi ma ban sakti hoon..

Even the last time these were the only reason she went ahead for a life threatening pregnancy. Coz the moment kid came into picture, she threw it on Poddar's head, made a joke of maternity leave and suddenly became the most career oriented woman. When the family disagreed, she didn’t think twice before taking a newborn to court..

One needs to be physically, mentally and financially prepared before bringing a kid into this world as it’s a life long investment and Abheera doesn’t have it in her to take up this responsibility. Going to temple and not eating junk doesn’t equate that one can be a good mother. Makers haven’t given a single scene to show her motherly instincts except they make her sing trauma inducing O Kanha jise sunke ache ache khamosh hojate hai toh bacha kya cheez hai..

If makers wanted they could’ve shown her bonding with homeless kids, adopting a baby.. woh khud ek anath ki beti hai.. At least they could’ve shown her visiting orphanages and spending time with kids. But there isn’t a single scene which tells Ab genuinely wants to be a mother. I hope at the end of this surrogacy track the baby goes on to live with Ruhi and Poddars and not with a careless woman like Ab who won’t think twice before risking it’s life..

(Ps. You guys can congratulate me for writing the entire para without calling Ab Gadheera, Kachri, clown or clownbheera.. It was a huge tasksmiley9)

tum jo bhi kaho she is carry forwarding legacy of her family.

Family ke hothe hue bhi empty photo frame lekar fill karna. Now her photo frame empty as bsp is not here. 🥲

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Posted: 4 months ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I agree. Till Kaveri mocked her,raising the issue,she is ok being with Armaan,supporting him and Shivani. Suddenly she wanted baby even when Armaan is trying hard to settle with the change of his profession and environment. She didn’t think it necessary to have her own career to make things better for them. Abheera definitely irks me with her moods and swings.

In contrast Armaan is behaving level headed but this girl won’t let him be so.

True Armaan is coming across sane in this matter. They could’ve simply taken a leap where both are focusing on their careers and managing life.. Abheera gave a long speech at gynac’s place but she left an important point. Peace. One needs to be stress free for such procedures to succeed.. If she wasn’t so desperate maybe ivf’s wouldn’t have failed.
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Posted: 4 months ago
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Kitna bhi jelly ho ya scratches lagavo, koi farq nahi hi. Sab ka apna bhaagya hi bas aur parents, forefathers ki karma affects too as blessings. Becoming a mother is not defined with goodness or good intentions or charity work.Those who cheat, bribe, kill, do all illegal activities don't they have kids.This line won't suit at all.Anything is related to past karma and a pay back that way. Any blood relation or friendship is all links only met in this janm. Medically abheera is not in a position to carry a child in her tummy as it won't click. Last time she got pregnant and baby died in tummy. There are many women who face issues and get successful one day with patience. For this they need to go for slow steady process. But abheera is in haste to get kid of her own to show dadi she can have kid. For that they are using ruhi rohit help. This is big joke. They could not have used ruhi who just became a mother recently and still healing back.. If anything goes wrong ruhi will be blamed badly for their bad kismat.

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