HAPPY HOLI 14.3 - Page 8

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

exactly this is the reason i have problem with rishta what they are teaching to young girls.

Anju : same it irks me when peep justify toxic behaviour..it was ok if peep ver watching for fun or troll like me

Pathi ne chod diya toh sab kuch uss taraf karke accha aadmi doondho. But in real life no accha aadmi will come. i know many strong women who resumed their career started working and earning so that their child can have good future. Even if they are marrying again they will ensure that the second guy is right for them so that they don't loose their confidence again on love. But here fl is shown as useless. She leaves career and gives her child's responsibility to first man she met on bus. The best example i can give is daljeet and shaleen. Daljeet and shaleen had a divorce as apprently shaleen was abusive. But post that she took time and married 2nd man. Recently she disclosed her 2nd husband had an affair with one more girl. She did all checks before marrying but even after that if this is the case what exactly dkp wanted to show that a woman should blindly marry a man by just knowing him for 3 months ?

Anju comments: been der myself, I took nearly 3 years to even think of dating. All thru the turmoil, i kept my personal and professional life seperate..even got a promotion.. except my immediate boss and unit head no one was aware of my personal issues

Similary in gen 4 , a girl was career oriented but her way of pursuing her career is wrong. I neither support ghum nor rishta. Why should a man marry a woman to give her safety? Why can't he protect her as brother. What kind of nonsense is this. What if that guy is already married or have a kid or have a gf. Why he should sacrifice his desires to protect one unknown girl 🙄 why the girl has no self respect to say i need not marry he can protect me as my brother. 😶‍🌫️ or why she openly questions the family of man who is doing courtesy on her by keeping her in his home for one year.

Anju comments; same y can't he support ab by being her gaurdian and then let her decide later ..plus she was already adult..why not settle in a distant city for edu in high security hostel.

Anju comments:My dadu told me as a young teen it's imp to have your own aspirations apart from being a mother sis wife and my older bro always encouraged and facilated it ..even know he is the one who stand by me emo

Then comes showing a woman leaving career just because she is in lub. Now when i look back i prefer arohi over akshara and abhira. Arohi never left her career even after she got married to neil or when she lost him. She stood firm that she wants to become a doctor. Unlike akshara and abhira who are here to brainwash young generation that woman can not have career post marriage where as akshara had a career when she was with birla's. Post marriage it's all about fixing/creating issues in family and then giving birth to babies. A family should have 1 boy child and 1 girl child. Boy child so that he can continue the vansh. Girl child so that we can send her off. 🤮

Anju comments: so true my bro always told me never forget yourself putta .. always rem your dreams are imp.. don't intrude on other peep personal space or allow them to intrude in yours ..I am.one of those ...if I attend a function I need couple of days of alone time to recoup the energies emo..I am mostly ambivert but have emo boundary

Akshara bashing family like birla's is again worst thing i can ever see. Every girl dreams to get a family who treats you as their daughter. Who asks you to work if you want to. Who wants a husband who can never feel jealous of your success and supports you even after his career is destoryed.

A husband who treats your family as his.

But akshara wanted husband like armaan may be 😄 she did not liked his family was loving her. She wanted drama so galti se mistake bolke she starts risking her life and others life. 🤭

Anju comments: I also dislike mahaan peep who interfere try to prove and argue as if only they are right and don't understand other if they have a diff pov

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Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

In our marriage kid obsessed society with 150cr population and counting, these serials are so irresponsible promoting there is nothing more important in women's life than bacha and pati

I was seeing somewhere the highest women workforce in India is tamilnadu with 40/60% it seems. And overall India it's 20% iirc. Atlst other rishta fls were homely like that they wanted a family for them, not that ambitious in career side. For social media bonus points they got bageera who's supposedly modern girl wanting a career and beat her down to reduce to this. A girl fighting for her study saw her husband's tears and was ready to die for a kid. And like Krinya said they make a joke about of complicated fertility issues and then these women goes on to have 2-3 kids, this is #2 kid for bageera and another might come if they follow other gen stories. Like why man? Why these women feels a kid is somehow above their own health and well being?

Not to say these serials only teach regressive people that women issues are nothing and of course bacha ahi jayega just keep trying.

Putting kid above your health is not practical also ..who will bring it up if u are not around..what if u can't afford post care ..u need atleast a year to recover from complicated pregnancy..

Did ab not say her being lawyer is her mom dream now she is doing gyanan guri and tutions and now wants to risk a pregnancy when they are not financially secure nor have support from fam

I had hyper nemis thats excessive vomiting..I was on almost bed rest ..I had saved up to take a 3 year child care break . I was nearly at hometown for a 9 months, in went in 4 th month. Post birth i had no complications due to healthy diet yoga and rest

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

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Originally posted by: Mehersudha

https://youtu.be/h1pHUMIinlQ?si=PGv9h10XwZR72x4e

Gabbar ka spoilers

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

maybe it’s just me but Gadheera’s hairstyle and look reminded me of Malvika sitlani, the youtuber/influencer..

Look change karne se baaki sab toh nahi badalne waala na

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

In our marriage kid obsessed society with 150cr population and counting, these serials are so irresponsible promoting there is nothing more important in women's life than bacha and pati

I was seeing somewhere the highest women workforce in India is tamilnadu with 40/60% it seems. And overall India it's 20% iirc. Atlst other rishta fls were homely like that they wanted a family for them, not that ambitious in career side. For social media bonus points they got bageera who's supposedly modern girl wanting a career and beat her down to reduce to this. A girl fighting for her study saw her husband's tears and was ready to die for a kid. And like Krinya said they make a joke about of complicated fertility issues and then these women goes on to have 2-3 kids, this is #2 kid for bageera and another might come if they follow other gen stories. Like why man? Why these women feels a kid is somehow above their own health and well being?

Not to say these serials only teach regressive people that women issues are nothing and of course bacha ahi jayega just keep trying.

Word to your post, Diya

IMO, Marriage should important only for companionship, support. Also, there are many couples in this world, who are child-free.. they earn more, enjoy more..

ITV shows the rosy picture of marriage.. rich family, husband and children.. but real life involves lot of effort, do cooking, running behind your own young children, do household chores, etc