YRKKH BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread #93 - Page 13

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

I get it, it's only a specific type of opinion that is respected and endorsed here. I am sorry, I shouldn't have brought up that scene, because apparently its too "childish" for everyone s taste here

i will respectfully bow out, because now I do feel I am being attacked and no tv show is worth that much.

I think since the only other person you interacted with here today was me.. I'd just like to tell you that according to me the whole point of a forum is to find some like minded opinions and trying to appreciate slightly different ones. I don't know how one can show endorsement for opinions that don't match theirs but having no endorsements surely can't be taken as an attack if that's what made you feel that way! And you're certainly right that no show is worth having such strong emotions about - both good and not so good! Take care!!

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

using a third angle to create a parallel at this stage is definitely distasteful …let them get divorced and move on with whoever …why at this stage …when both have already acknowledged their feelings for each other …I mean I think most people who find this track distasteful do so only because of this reason ..Akshara moved on and married a second time ..perfectly fine ..at least she had left behind the life she had lived…this overlap is what is the problem ..when a third angle is brought in randomly one fine day when both the leads are estranged but not divorced and not out of love . …the difference from the previous IPL time is simply that Armaan and Abhira got married of their own will and confessed their feelings to each other this time ,.they were not forced into the marriage nor were they in it for a stipulated time and for a stipulated reason …I think that makes a world of a difference …!

And personally, I detest how RK’s presence is destroying the track that I was looking forward most to ,,the Shivani track …fine you want to have a third angle between the leads …but did there need to be one between the mother and son …again it is a matter of preferences ..I don’t like it ..maybe there are others who do !

I don't want any third angle between the leads mate. I just wanted a simple parallel. A scene that didn't even have to necessarily about third angle. But more about pent up emotions - anger,hurt, guilt, denial etc

I never saw that Abhira outburst about Ruhi more so do with her own fears, her own inability to move on the hurt she felt .I just wanted a similar scene for Armaan

But I guess after a point in their marriage husband and wife are not allowed to have such deep emotional conversation with eachother. It's apparently "preposterous". Maybe. What do I know .I am not married .

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

I think since the only other person you interacted with here today was me.. I'd just like to tell you that according to me the whole point of a forum is to find some like minded opinions and trying to appreciate slightly different ones. I don't know how one can show endorsement for opinions that don't match theirs but having no endorsements surely can't be taken as an attack if that's what made you feel that way! And you're certainly right that no show is worth having such strong emotions about - both good and not so good! Take care!!

It's more to do with the ganging up I felt just for pointing out a scene I like to recreate. This is not even the first day or the first post. I have been noticing these indirect comments since quite few days now

I appreciate different opinions. I draw the line on ganging up.

I have endorsed and not endorsed many opinions in this very forum. But Today I just thought it went beyond realms of "difference of opinions"

If I maybe Frank with you, I do feel sometimes people do go overboard with members in name of "joking" and "opinions". While a healthy fun is more than welcome. I would appreciate If we all can draw line when it goes beyond it.

That's all .

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

I don't want any third angle between the leads mate. I just wanted a simple parallel. A scene that didn't even have to necessarily about third angle. But more about pent up emotions - anger,hurt, guilt, denial etc

I never saw that Abhira outburst about Ruhi more so do with her own fears, her own inability to move on the hurt she felt .I just wanted a similar scene for Armaan

But I guess after a point in their marriage husband and wife are not allowed to have such deep emotional conversation with eachother. It's apparently "preposterous". Maybe. What do I know .I am not married .

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

It's more to do with the ganging up I felt just for pointing out a scene I like to recreate. This is not even the first day or the first post

I appreciate different opinions. I draw the line on ganging up.

I have endorsed and not endorsed many opinions in this very forum. But Today I just thought it went beyond just difference of opinion

I would think ganging up is a planned, intentional activity. But if liking posts that align with our views is what creates trouble, maybe we should get rid of that option altogether! But anyway! I think I'm going to leave now cos I'd like to believe we are all better than wanting to spend time in a virtual world trying to gather people to gang up for some really unexciting likes that don't make our real lives better in any way! Goodnight!

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

I would think ganging up is a planned, intentional activity. But if liking posts that align with our views is what creates trouble, maybe we should get rid of that option altogether! But anyway! I think I'm going to leave now cos I'd like to believe we are all better than wanting to spend time in a virtual world trying to gather people to gang up for some really unexciting likes that don't make our real lives better in any way! Goodnight!

But I never said anything about liking posts mate. That's something you said. I was not talking about liking posts. That's a right that everyone is free to use

I was talking about Indirect taunts that I felt directed towards me and my theories.

Yeah. I would like to believe that too. Fictional should not be so important for anybody.

If literature in any of its form cannot depicts it's character at the most raw and vulnerable self. Then I am sorry such a piece of fiction is not worth atleast to me.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

But I never said anything about liking posts mate. That's something you said. I was not talking about liking posts. That's a right that everyone is free to use

I was talking about Indirect taunts that I felt directed towards me and my theories.

Yeah. I would like to believe that too. Fictional should not be so important for anybody.

Now you've confused me.. what's endorsement here then? you spoke about endorsements which I thought meant likes... Cos what else can it even mean

Abhira has clearly and categorically rejected RKs proposal. She's been honest too , explaining that even if she's on the verge of divorce she has strong feelings for Armaan. She probably feels bad to break the heart of someone who has been kind to her. Helped her at her lowest with her career specifically. Moreover what she knows of him- hes a good guy who cares for even a mentally ill stranger as his own mom all these years.

The stuff that she's gonna lead him on after rejecting proposal is pure speculation.

She won't be able to ban RK from her life because of Shivanis health stuff and also Shivani 's ultimate link being with Armaan. RK is by default gonna be around when they find gunda and also other key information about this shivani kaand. I don't think Abhira has been shown inviting RK to help her in any of the BTS. He happens to be around.

There's absolutely no comparison between Ruhi and RK.

One person lived under same roof as wife of brother but kept propositioning a married man who tood her he's in deal shaadi. He didn't draw boundaries and rather called her bff , did questionable things because of his internal confusion. I dont think any of this is happening in RK Abhira equation. She is clear that she does not feel for RK and told him that. i don't think she's blurring boundaries as yet.

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

Now you've confused me.. what's endorsement here then? you spoke about endorsements which I thought meant likes... Cos what else can it even mean

It's not about likes. It about posts . Post done not only today but over a period of few days. I clearly mentioned that I have been noticing it for quite few days. Today I guess I just reached my tipping point. With other posts just adding to it.

I understand difference of opinions. But when you keep making same posts/taunts over and over in span of few days. Then it does feel like you are purposely doing it. That's not cool . Atleast today I really felt it went beyond the normally acceptable realms

Baaki you can like any posts. I don't even go to check likes to have any problem with them