Jhanak Written Update And Episode Discussion thread No 95. - Page 149

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL why is the onus only on the men? They aren't physically forcing themselves on her, are they?

She claims to be a married woman but still is cool going and staying in the house of any man she meets....is cool taking so much help from these men that she knows are romantically interested in her....so why will their hopes not go up that they can eventually change her mind to move on from her "meaningless" previous marriage?

Simply making a statement calling herself married is not enough when her actions don't match with it. If she wants to live her whole life in some kind of a one sided married woman situation, her actions should also match that rather than so casually entertaining so many men in her life even after knowing of their romantic inclinations towards her....simply giving stern bhaashans doesn't cut it. She led AK on first before friend-zoning him and now she's doing the same with Vihaan....so coolly agreed to share a room with him, is cosplaying his wife all day but giving him stern judgemental looks for developing feelings for her....waah bhai....lol

Ani's case is different...he backs off because Jhanak always praises the new partners in her life - previously it was AK and now it is Vihaan.....meanwhile with other men, Jhanak badmouths the man she claims is her husband and still expects those men to not get their hopes up of having a chance with her

As I said...I will not consider these men as good men coz they know that the women is not ready to come out of the marriage..why to pursue a married woman in the first place! Jhanak did wrong and still doing wrong...that's why we all are trolling her...that doesn't mean that the man in consideration is a decent one! He has dialogues with his friend that this girl is really into some trouble and that's why not opening her mouth and tolerating all the nonsense of his mother! Despite knowing he is requesting her to role play (again...I am not putting J on any higher pedestal)..Men, in general should come out of saviour complex! In fact, Ani aaj jis condition me hai woh bhi to some extent due to his saviour complex...first for Jhanak...and then for Arshi...if he could detach himself from it, he would have led a good life, either with Arshi or with J...

Hi, can you make the next EDT thread please? Thanks.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Pata nahin if it will be something massive or given Leena's current thakele writing levels, just a random flip but yeah they will bring back that Ani at some point to roast Didi simply cuz KALESH toh inevitably hona hi hota hai....that is the only constant

...most importantly...didi ko sunana hai...main tumhare sath rishta banane ka soch bhi nahi sakta...main Jhanak ke alawa kisiko bhi uss najar se nahi dekh sakta Arshi!!! 🤪🤪🤪

It's coming....how soon that will depend on Leena's whims! 😂😂

Originally posted by: Dibya_C

..I would still put the onus on the man here...point is, the woman is not ready to come out of the marriage even if she feels betrayed by her husband and conveys the feeling of betrayal...she clearly states she is married and will not think about anyone in place of her husband...a good man will never show his romantic advances (even if he falls for her) towards such woman (e.g., Ani have seen that J is married now and he is not romantically pursuing her, although his love is intact!)

The point is she is painting her marriage as a painful experience for her. Saying she has no interest in going to her husband...scratch that she never told chomu that she only loves her husband . So obviously any man will think ki OKAYYYY she's not happy with her marriage or husband , let me change her mind and keep pursuing her. she may have told him she is married but she also in her own coded language told him she's not happy with that man.....now that is an open invitation.

Originally posted by: Dibya_C

As I said...I will not consider these men as good men coz they know that the women is not ready to come out of the marriage..why to pursue a married woman in the first place! Jhanak did wrong and still doing wrong...that's why we all are trolling her...that doesn't mean that the man in consideration is a decent one! He has dialogues with his friend that this girl is really interested some trouble and that's why not opening her mouth and tolerating all the nonsense of his mother! Despite knowing he is requesting her to role play (again...I am not putting J on any higher pedestal)..Men, in general should come out of saviour complex! In fact, Ani aaj jis condition me hai woh bhi to some extent due to his saviour complex...first for Jhanak...and then for Arshi...if he could detach himself from it, he would have led a good life, either with Arshi or with J...

LOL ofcourse I'm not giving a free pass to the men either.....they all immediately get despo over Jhanak and start imagining their whole life with her

But my point is regarding a woman managing her own dignity first before she goes around lecturing to others. If Jhanak wants to portray herself as morally righteous, she needs to check her own actions first, then she would be in a better position to lecture to these men for pursuing her despite her not being interested blah blah. But she never does that....so she becomes a joke in my eyes first before I can even get to the lame men despo over her....lol

Vihaan obviously has changed his tune per his convenience after making tall claims about only loving his late wife blah blah.....but Jhanak has definitely invited this situation by cosplaying his wife to this extent....he literally calls her by his wife's name all day, lives in the same room with her....at that point, no one will be surprised to see him developing feelings. For Jhanak to act like this is a sudden shock is laughable....you can't go around sharing intimate spaces with someone and expect they won't have feelings for you.

Ani was also wrong to start sharing a room with Arshi without shaadi but atleast in that case, he wasn't under some delusion that Arshi doesn't have feelings for him - they knew each other from a long time before so what Ani was doing was MANAGING things by sharing a room but not moving on to a physical relationship....yahaan Jhanak is acting shocked like a man staying in the same room with her developing feelings for her is some out of the blue thing that could never happen....lol that too a man who is more or less a stranger to her...she really thought him sharing an intimate living space with her won't get his hopes up? No woman is that dumb, please

Ani jis condition mein hai is cuz he is an EMPATH....he cares about the feelings of others even when they treat him like garbage....so yeah he has tried to care for people like Arshi who have just treated him like a dog always...and even a Jhanak who is always insulting his feelings and bashing him....lol.....meanwhile Jhanak has no such empathy problems...she can cut any thread and run away at a moment's glance....no real obligation to care for people beyond whoever is in front of her in the moment....lol

Originally posted by: ninaMAXWELL08

The point is she is painting her marriage as a painful experience for her. Saying she has no interest in going to her husband...scratch that she never told chomu that she only loves her husband . So obviously any man will think ki OKAYYYY she's not happy with her marriage or husband , let me change her mind and keep pursuing her. she may have told him she is married but she also in her own coded language told him she's not happy with that man.....now that is an open invitation.

@bold: EXACTLY....she is portraying it as if she is in a bad marriage toh obviously any person will think there is an opening for them to pursue her and make her move from a bad marriage na?

And this is just phase 1 where she MENTIONS her marriage....lol phase 2 mein she will start her speeches about how she only loves her pati and cannot love anyone else....AK ko bhi yehi sab bolti thi in Mumbai track and aage se silent rehti thi when AK used to bash her pati as cheater/dhokebaaz who has moved on to some other woman so why does Jhanak still love him, he doesn't deserve Jhanak ka mahaan pyar blah blah....yeh Vihaan bhi yehi sab bolega in coming days

Krush is back on insta..

Originally posted by: ninaMAXWELL08

The point is she is painting her marriage as a painful experience for her. Saying she has no interest in going to her husband...scratch that she never told chomu that she only loves her husband . So obviously any man will think ki OKAYYYY she's not happy with her marriage or husband , let me change her mind and keep pursuing her. she may have told him she is married but she also in her own coded language told him she's not happy with that man.....now that is an open invitation.

No, Nina...not 'any' man will pursue such woman! Atleast if I were in this man's shoes, I would have not! Kisne usko messiah banaya ke ek shadishuda aurat ko wo 'painful' marriage se azaad kare! Isse yehi sabit hota hai ki woh ek ch hai!

Originally posted by: MMR2810

Krush is back on insta..

Bff ke saath screen share karni hai..reels dalne hai...KrusHi fans ko khush karna hai! 😍😍

Originally posted by: Dibya_C

As I said...I will not consider these men as good men coz they know that the women is not ready to come out of the marriage..why to pursue a married woman in the first place! Jhanak did wrong and still doing wrong...that's why we all are trolling her...that doesn't mean that the man in consideration is a decent one! He has dialogues with his friend that this girl is really into some trouble and that's why not opening her mouth and tolerating all the nonsense of his mother! Despite knowing he is requesting her to role play (again...I am not putting J on any higher pedestal)..Men, in general should come out of saviour complex! In fact, Ani aaj jis condition me hai woh bhi to some extent due to his saviour complex...first for Jhanak...and then for Arshi...if he could detach himself from it, he would have led a good life, either with Arshi or with J...

I agree dibya...if Ani would nt have savior complex he would have a lead happy life..

How vihan is Acha aadmi, he is a selfish person...he went against his family to marry his love. Had cut ties with family for more than 2 years. There is no single scene of him feeling guilty for deceiving his whole family. His mother arranged marriage for his school going niece...it is legally punishable offence...still he is happily dancing busy in inviting his friends to marriage.

So he is also like Arshi, self-centered guy.