Originally posted by: wildflower9
lol 😆
btw sadaf's mother stopped sadaf and bilal. she told sadaf to avoid bilal and she asked bilal to talk to sadaf on phone only. in a way they showed what sadaf and bilal are doing isn't right.
"My brother, stop with this 3-5 month waiting period (iddah) talk. In order to understand the Qur'an, you need to know the pre-Islamic and post-Islamic Arab history and culture... At least you need to know which historical events happened after the revelation of the verses. Every verse in the Qur'an came after a specific event that occurred during that time. The iddah period in today's Islamic societies differs from country to country; some have 2 months, some 3, 4, or even 5 months. There is no explicit verse in the Qur'an saying that you must wait for a certain number of days... There is only an order to wait. The following verse commands that a woman should not conceal her pregnancy from the man... From this, it can be understood that there is no harm in a woman remarrying after divorce. Allah says that waiting is better for the woman... What does this mean? If a woman doesn't wait and marries again, and then her pregnancy is revealed, the father of the child might not be clear. The religious interpretations used in today's Islamic world date back 1,000 years... these views need to be updated. In that era, there was neither birth control nor pregnancy tests... In many places in the Qur'an, horses and camels are mentioned for traveling... In this age, who travels by horse or camel? Allah speaks of using one's intellect in most of the verses... May Allah grant us wisdom. A note: Before Islam came to the Arabian Peninsula, women had multiple husbands, they used to exchange wives, and they buried newborn girls alive. Would you believe me if I told you that? Maybe you wouldn’t believe it, but research it, and you'll learn it's true. Do you know the reason why the Prophet frequently went to the Cave of Hira and didn’t return for days?"