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I also want to know what exactly bilal is thinking about sadaf now

1) whether he is thinking sadaf is on revenge date with him?

2) whether he is thinking she genuinely got feelings for him ( based on airport meet and phone calls ) and want to move away to save her marriage?

3) whether he is testing her( I doubt ) after knowing she is regretting for her mistake of marrying ammar and see how much she will hold on to him and not to go back to ammar?

True he needs to know everything im frustrated bilsad doesn’t have enough scenes even now when there is so much to talk. Bilal doesn’t know about drinking, hitting her, harassing her. If he knows he would file police complaint . Most importantly he needs to know sadaf was attracted to him ,,, only married ammar after continuous Humsha manipulations about bilal buying her.., Bilal needs to know all the above I don’t think he will ever know.

Originally posted by: NutellaWaffle

I also want to know what exactly bilal is thinking about sadaf now

1) whether he is thinking sadaf is on revenge date with him?

2) whether he is thinking she genuinely got feelings for him ( based on airport meet and phone calls ) and want to move away to save her marriage?

3) whether he is testing her( I doubt ) after knowing she is regretting for her mistake of marrying ammar and see how much she will hold on to him and not to go back to ammar?

He asks her during phone conversation when he’s in the car, in love, if one person cheats, should the other? It sounds like he’s saying that may be her reason. She ends up saying that no one would cheat if they’re in love which I kind of agree with.

I also think he isn’t sure if she’ll change her mind and want to make it work with Ammar tomorrow, in which case he doesn’t want her to do anything she regrets. His misogynistic remarks about forgiving a man and how in his own experience he knows that a man won’t forgive a woman for the same makes it feel like he thinks she may want to go back at some point. Technically why should she go back to a man after what he did to her if he isn’t willing to forgive her for the same? But I felt his comment about this was to not close that option for her because with all her back and forth and impulsive behaviour, he isn’t sure if this is what she wants. Obviously another reason is that own issues with his mom would make him hesitant to become the other man.

A problem I have is that it isn’t like Ammar cheated and then profusely apologized like everyone else is making it seem. He has been gaslighting Sadaf, been emotionally and physically abusive and never took any accountability. Are all the other characters aware of this?

No one knows ammar slapped sadaf

No one knows again he raised hand in last episode

No one knows he harasses her like how he shouted at her while she was sleep

Except Humsha no one knows he drinks and comes home

No one knows how emotionally he was invested in dania ( they are thinking just meeting her)

And mainly no one knows how is a biggest loser with tons of insecurity , cunning( recommendation letter, accepting house cars) doubtful mind , emotionally and physically abusive and even called her do takke ki aurat.

I highly doubt whether all these wil be told by sadaf to everyone or just kept hidden.

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

I’m curious too. I think he’s seen her go back and forth quite a bit. It might be why they showed her accepting and rejecting the Lahore project so much. He is uncertain of her actual feelings. Are they true? Is she just vulnerable? Is she in revenge mode? As she is being flirtatious with him on the phone, he right away tells her he knows what happened and can understand her state of mind suggesting that maybe she’s just vulnerable,

He asks her during phone conversation when he’s in the car, in love, if one person cheats, should the other? It sounds like he’s saying that may be her reason. She ends up saying that no one would cheat if they’re in love which I kind of agree with.

I also think he isn’t sure if she’ll change her mind and want to make it work with Ammar tomorrow, in which case he doesn’t want her to do anything she regrets. His misogynistic remarks about forgiving a man and how in his own experience he knows that a man won’t forgive a woman for the same makes it feel like he thinks she may want to go back at some point. Technically why should she go back to a man after what he did to her if he isn’t willing to forgive her for the same? But I felt his comment about this was to not close that option for her because with all her back and forth and impulsive behaviour, he isn’t sure if this is what she wants. Obviously another reason is that own issues with his mom would make him hesitant to become the other man.

A problem I have is that it isn’t like Ammar cheated and then profusely apologized like everyone else is making it seem. He has been gaslighting Sadaf, been emotionally and physically abusive and never took any accountability. Are all the other characters aware of this?

@bold I have seen epi 32 once again..and its very clear that she is done with ammar the day she left dania's place..the divorce proceedings is just a formality now but in her mind she already gave him divorce mentally the day she left Dania's house..people around her(including Bilal himself ) might think that she wants to date BA as a response to ammar's infidelity..but Sadaf's conversation with humsha and her mom in that epi clearly signifies that she has understood BA's love...and regrets that she chose ammar over BA..so definitely from her side she has mentally divorced ammar the tine she threw the ring.

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

@bold I have seen epi 32 once again..and its very clear that she is done with ammar the day she left dania's place..the divorce proceedings is just a formality now but in her mind she already gave him divorce mentally the day she left Dania's house..people around her(including Bilal himself ) might think that she wants to date BA as a response to ammar's infidelity..but Sadaf's conversation with humsha and her mom in that epi clearly signifies that she has understood BA's love...and regrets that she chose ammar over BA..so definitely from her side she has mentally divorced ammar the tine she threw the ring.

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

I agree she is done with Ammar. She gave him one last chance and was willing to compromise on anything but he once again disrespected and went to Dania. Now she is done. Her feelings for Bilal didn’t come out of nowhere. They were emerging but she fought them once Humsha got into her head. She completely ignored those feelings and put her everything into her marriage. Now that she is done with Ammar, all those feelings and deep regret is coming back. Sadaf should have waited to try and “date” Bilal Abdullah in my opinion. I can understand why he may be uncertain about her feelings.

That time she couldn’t date him because she was already a known womanizer..any kind of relationship between Sadaf and Bilal before marriage ,would be weird for the family as well as Sadaf herself.. they would think whether he actually likes her or he is just trying to use her. Even Bilal wanted to respectfully ask her hand for the marriage..and not date her.

When Sadaf's wedding started crumbling,that time Bilal Sadaf started working together and that time only Sadaf actually came to know how much Bilal truly loved her(epi 28 :Bilal's dialogues about love and marriage)...that time Sadaf started realizing how much wrong she was about Bilal as well as Ammar..so her feelings for Bilal are not sudden and not a revenge at least from her side.

i want to tell you that there is no concept of dating in pakistan. it is looked down upon and it is considered a taboo/sin.

no one openly says here that i want to date that person. affairs happen but they are kept secret from society. what sadaf is doing is not considered respectful here at all that too during iddah period. marriage proposal is the only respectable way, that too after divorce is finalised.

KRQ is not showing sadaf's behaviour in positive way. she is being shown in a bad light.

Originally posted by: NutellaWaffle

that’s truth not our assumption Sadaf had attraction to bilal she was blushing while asking about him to zaviyar in USA. She kind of felt bad when her mom said bilal didn’t even ask about her. Then again we saw her after knowing he donated bone marrow and she came running to open the door happy thinking it’s bilal. But in these two instances Humsha succeeded in manipulating her the next minute . Even her father in dream scene with bilal asking whether her decision is right or not because she was not happy

Bilal is the only guy she actually got attracted to. Ammar even with his suicide attempts couldn’t make her fall for her.

@Bold - Exactly. Even after the suicide attempt, Sadaf did not say yes to Ammar’s proposal. She may have had empathy for him, but she did not have any sort of romantic feelings for him, for her to agree to marry him. She never had feelings for him.

Sadaf had started to trust Bilal - she was almost starry eyed when she said ‘Main uski neeyat par imaan le aayi hoon’. In that episode (e10 or 11) where she talked with Farzaana, she said how much she has started trusting him and she continuously kept averting her eyes, not meeting her mother’s eyes and later Farzaana said that ‘now she has started to feel scared about Sadaf’ - Because Farzaana had realized, Sadaf unknowingly, has started developing feelings for Bilal. At that point, Farzaana’s image of Bilal was based on Mirza sahab’s narration - So, she was worried about her. (Both Maya and Saba Hameed (especially her), did really well during this conversation!)

If everything went without Humshaa’s manipulation, Sadaf’s trust on Bilal would have organically developed into love. The reason for Sadaf to break down after Humshaa’s word was exactly that - the idea of all that Bilal did was just to ‘buy’ her, made her angry and she felt betrayed. As she told Ammar in the last week episode, she wanted love and respect, so in her haste and foolishness, decided that she would not get that from Bilal. To convince her as well as everyone, she decided she could ‘work’ on falling in love with Ammar. She did not pick Ammar for Ammar, if Bilal was not in the picture, she would not have said yes to Ammar.

So, without Humsha’s interference, Sadaf would have fallen for Bilal and it’d have happened organically. Whereas with Ammar, she forced herself to love him, and it’d, maybe, have worked, but the Ammar she thought she knew and trusted was not the real one - so, all her attempts went down the drain!

Ammar ka case close. Ab ya to Sadaf akeli rahegi ya phir Bilal ke saath happy ending

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