Originally posted by: shalu1786
Arohi's tears never let Ak have a peaceful life. As Manjari said in last episodes, the ones fell instantly was Ak and manyu, but when the proposal came and gonekas and Birlas mistaken abhimanyu's opinion, ak choose to remain quiet, it was the first mistake, abhimanyu telling about the mistake of bride in Tilak is not wrong, but dragging his marriage with arohi till the mandap is wrong..
We have to understand the chosen bahu of Birlas was always arohi. Harsh, anand and unintentionally even Manjari choose her for abhimanyu. Mahima's support to Ak is only because she does not want a career of her own.
After arohi's death Manish only cut ties with Ak, never asked her take abhir with her, never cut ties with manyu, Ak taking abhir was the turningpoint, she never thought she need to discuss with manyu who is the father of abhir and father figure to ruhi. She only thought about her and left with abhir. If akshara really wanted to earn forgiveness from ruhi and gvs she would have left alone, stayed somewhere nearby and try to earn their forgiveness. Manyu would have handled both kids by then and ruhi and gvs might have forgiven her. But Ak doesn't want any forgiveness nor want to earn it, she just wants gvs to forget everything and accept her.
If i look back gen 3 is perfect example of how parents can ruin their child's life because of their dumb selfish decisions.
1. Akshara choosing to deliver her baby in such conditions. Akshara knew hers is complicated pregnancy. We also know care provided by government hospitals in india. Akshara choosing that for her baby even after she had all the privilege to give birth in a environment where he will get utmost care is also a plain stupidity. That just says she did take a risk on abhir and was not serious about him. She had accepted that he might die too as who would risk their child even after having so much for their child. Even a middle class mother willl do everything to save their child but akshara the heiress of wealthy family was stuck with her ego and did risked her and her babies life.
2. Akshara married abhinav and kept abhir away from bio father. Akshara found the besht pathiji but a child lost his real father. Who could have helped him to fulfill his dream of becoming a doctor. Parents struggle to give everything to their child. But abhir only got bread butter and jam and torn shoes. Yes middle class families have such life and even i had such life but we also know how people sacrifice their dreams when they see parents struggling for money. Abhir was very much aware about financial issues of parents due to which he never used to share his pain and health issues with them. I never saw the seriousness in ak and nav regarding future of their kids. Abhir deserves to have the luxury life which his parents earned for him and akshara keeping him away made him more suffer.
2. Akshara took abhir with her and also took abhimanyu who could have been healers for ruhi. Instead of that when abhimanyu said he will accompany her she could have decided to stay in udaipur so that abhir and abhimanyu can meet ruhi and heal her. Abhimanyu is also wrong for going with her but he also was torn between abhir and a pregnant lady whom he left 6 years back and ruhi. In the end he chose ak with hope of returning back to ruhi but destiny had another plan.
3. Ak hiding all truths from abhira also made her life hell 🤷♀️
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