Originally posted by: nightingale1234
Tho khud kyun nahi seekhta? I mean making gol gol rotis n square parathas isn't a rocket science. Shuru shuru mein theek nahi banegi, with practice n time banjayega. Every individual regardless of their gender should know how to cook. One shouldn't depend on other person to cook or do their basic chores.
I neither agree with the pseudo feminists who "act " like they dunno how to cook n will only marry those gentlemen who will "cook" for them nor those male chauvinists probably still living in 1960s who thinks " ye sabh mardonka kaam nahi hei, aurat ko karna padega".
Ye sabhko seekhna chahiye.
Cooking kya har woh kaam log seekh jaate hai if they work on it & practice it! But why does it have to be gol gol & square is what I don't understand! Yahan koi cooking competition thodi hai!
In fact, Desi families ka sach yeh hai ki koi feedback sirf tab dete hai jab kisi cheez mein koi kami ho! Chaahe decorate karke rakho ya din-raat ek karke koi complicated dish banaao feedback hoga:
"namak kam/zyaada hai" ,
"garam nahin hai" (ladies run between kitchen & dining table not even able to take a deep breath, all the efforts to serve garmagaram khaana) ,
"khaane ke saath paani nahin laaya" (alag beizzati despite making tasty food, if forgot to bring water from kitchen to table) ,
"itne saal ho gaye, aaj tak theek se kuch banaana nahin seekha" (when It's just a bad dish after years of making tasty food) & the list may go on! 🥲
It's like one category is meant to provide selfless service + insulted for apparently not doing anything whole day while other one gets paid for whatever they do + respect for being the earning one!
IMO, a people inside a house need to share responsibility, including the children!
Zaroori nahin hai har woman multitasking, all-rounder ho jo ek saath sab kuch karein, jaise ki cooking, searching for key of husband's car & children's socks, ironing the uniform, making daughter's hair, packing lunchbox etc. altogether!
Some husbands can chop vegetables faster & nicer than wives, some fathers make better hairstyle for their children, children might find lost keys faster than adults & individuals can fill their lunchbox as per how much they need to eat!
Already i am not liking him in QEZ or oper sy interview Dekh liya
but this is not just a him problem... It's general desi/misogynist mindset. 
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
Arjun
Cricket
1.1k