Jhanak Written Update And Episode Discussion thread No 91. - Page 69

Originally posted by: swahili07

Bold: Exactly! People think ki pehli nazar me ml fl ke beech gehra pyaar ho jaata hai. His love for Jhanak during that aag track was still pretty raw. At that stage he would have definitely preferred Arshi(with whom he was in a 7 year relationship) over someone whom he had met not that long ago. Agar aag track me Jhanak ke piche bhaagta toh audience hi kehti " Chhi! Yeh kaisa spineless character hai jo apni beemar girlfriend ke bajaay apne new lover pe dhyan de Raha hai".

No one expected him to run after J and leave Arshi behind. After the cheap way he did performance with her and nearly married her when he was clearly in love with J, it is credible to him to stay and ensure Arshi was back to good health.

But that does not mean he needed to distrust J and ask the police to severely punish her, nor completely give up on the girl he claimed to love and confessed and brought to BH saying he will never leave her alone. Neither does it validate him asking J to give up her competetion for Arshi a woman who had everything. He was asking J to help him assuage his guilt and the result of his actions by justifying that J would anyway have the talent to come up.

100 times better for him to have accepted he loved J and wanted to be with her and clearly told Arshi to go back to her home. Thats what a true man would do even when he is mentally pressured from all sides.

Here we are saying Ani is justified because he caved into mental pressure from all sides. If he did so did J. She was CA from all sides including Ani while she thought she became pregant the night he begged her for physical release. She is a bigger victim than him in this sense.

Yes Ani feels zimmedhari and guilt for Arshi, inspite for feeling suffocation with Arshi he still wants to nibhofy his zimmedhari. he feels love haq restlessness and attraction for J and yet will let her go when he feels pressure from all sides.

Forgive me but I like a man who does the right thing even when under pressure. And if its a matter of giving in to people like evil Basus after knowing lal they are capable off, just snide one liners thrown does not cut it. Be a man, own your feelings and have the gumption to stick it out. Just because the love leaves and justifiably so, does not mean you need to marry the other to prove your zimmedhari and sacrificial nature to. Staying single is not a crime.

If J has married Adi, it would have been criticized as she moved on. If Ani marries Arshi its pressure on a poor man. J already asked him why he was marrying Arshi if he did not love her. Ani marrying Arshi because J told him to is the lamest excuse and women should run from such a man.

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Few months ago in one episode the dadi of Anirudh said her husband and she built the house it is all their savings now I just read an article stating that Anirudh father has cheated Lalon father and took their house and money.🤷‍♀️ 🙄🙄

The grandparents laid the foundation of the house and built the central portion of it but I believe it was mentioned in some epi that Shubho expanded the house through his money.....that is the money he probably stole from Lallon's father that is being referenced in the current track.

Basically the point they are making is that whatever Shubho built of the house or his contributions to the family's wealth are done via stolen fraud money.

Originally posted by: PPak

Technical question - If a man can perform i.e is in his senses and there was no lie told or physical force applied, but a lot of verbal manipulation done, is it considered rape? If it is rape then I will refer to it as such. i am not certain where the line is drawn legally.

I 100% agree Arshi violated Ani because she knew he loved J yet she chipkofyed to him, but are we saying we give clean chit to Ani and it is rape - when Ani went through with it with while Arshi was making it clear she was Arshi? Arshi did not tell him she was J. She said he could reach J through her. While she was clearly persuading Ani to have sex she was not lying.

Anything without conscious consent is rape... whatever may be Arshi's side, makers showed us Ani's side clearly so that no confusion remains regarding Ani's side of the story...Ani was not 'feeling J in Arshi'...he SAW J only and he confessed his love for J only and he GAVE INTO J's physical love only! Uske khayalon me dur dur tak Arshi nahi thi!

I guess by now we should agree that Anirudh has never been a person driven by physicality! The way Runak developed, it's a testament to that only! Physical attraction came much after their emotional bonding getting strengthened...he first felt strong physical attraction towards her during his birthday date night...usse pehle to usne kitni baar J ko godi me uthaya tha, he never had any physical attraction towards her then...

...aur Arshi k liye to kabhi bhi koi attraction dikhi hi nahi! Now also he is duty driven...koi pyar vyar nahi hai usse Arshi k liye...he is trying to hold on to the fatherhood as a way of survival...ab ye bhi kitna strong emotion hai woh aage pata chalega...I believe he is using bachha and bachhe ki maa ki zimmedari to escape the pain and emptyness that J left in his life! Basically, this is just a repeat of post aag track...but with much severe repercussions..

As per new BTS, looks like Jhanak will escape from the kidnapped house soon .....not sure if she will run off to a new city after this or try to return to Mumbai again

Originally posted by: PPak

I forgot to add, of course I wanted him to take responsibility for the child. But could have well taken the responsibility of child without marrying Arshi. He did not need to marry her. No one put a un to his head to do so.

Are you saying he was forced to marry Arshi and no way out? How so?

Yes..he was forced...by his family ..by Arshi's family...by Arshi...even by J...if you rewatch the episode you can see Ani was ok to take care of Arshi's zarooratein and marry J...it was J and his family who mocked him and somehow made him say yes under pressure...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

As per new BTS, looks like Jhanak will escape from the kidnapped house soon .....not sure if she will run off to a new city after this or try to return to Mumbai again

Bhoot I ki tarah kyu mandra rahi hai jungle me!! 😁😁😁

Originally posted by: AreYaar

As per new BTS, looks like Jhanak will escape from the kidnapped house soon .....not sure if she will run off to a new city after this or try to return to Mumbai again

No jungle scenes or romance when Ani rescued Janak multiple times. But now when she is escaping alone, we get jungle scenes ☺️. Sach mein true blue unlucky fandom.

Originally posted by: Dibya_C

Bhoot I ki tarah kyu mandra rahi hai jungle me!! 😁😁😁

The pictures and Dibya's comment had me laughing so hard until I had tears in my eyes. Thank you all for bringing some much-needed light-hearted entertainment amidst the horrors unleashed by Leena.

Originally posted by: Dibya_C

Yes..he was forced...by his family ..by Arshi's family...by Arshi...even by J...if you rewatch the episode you can see Ani was ok to take care of Arshi's zarooratein and marry J...it was J and his family who mocked him and somehow made him say yes under pressure...

First time pressure yes Dibya. You think you can handle it. Second time family pressure? - then he knew what he was allowing yourself in for and he made the choice. What happened to the cannot live without J and will die bit? Child has given him the hope to live. So be true to Arshi and fully be hers, why marry her and love J in his heart. He weighed everything and took this path as punishment, family pressure whatever.

My whole point is both wont work. Pick one and stay with it. One in real life and one in heart - recipe for disaster for both. If he could not get J of his mind and heart he should not have married Arshi no matter how much pressure. J did not marry Adi - no matter the CA. Why is Ani the ML giving in so easily to pressure that he will marry Arshi on the same mandap?

And thats my point - Ani gives in under pressure when zimmedhari is under question, for Arshi.

With J's pregnancy did he ever accept the pressure she put on him to accept their child, not marriage. She left Calcutta alone without Ani accepting it. Here Arshi says its his child and he trusts her with no question and even accepts his mistake when he does not remember anything. He did not remember at J's time too. She did tell him he was sick and taking drugs. He could easily feel he would have done it while he was drunk, but cannot think he may have done it when he was sick? He trusts Arshi even tho he knows how bad she is and distrusts J. So don't tell me J telling Ani made him do it. He knows well when to listen to her and when not to. During J's pregnancy he humiliated her to the worst degree and sent her back. Where did he listen to her or Bodoma or Jethu or Choton or Appu di then when they put pressure in him to accept their child?

Ani trusts Arshi more than he does J, did you not see when Adi came he said how much better than J Arshi is?

Originally posted by: PPak

I partially agree with what you have said. If Ani had just once or twice asked Arshi to stay with him, it is one thing.

From day one of the show, Ani has stopped no begged Arshi to not leave him and be with him. I should go back and count the number of times he has begged her to not leave him. On a guess maybe 12- 15 times. Each time Arshi stayed behind. I get that Arshi did commit a crime with violating Ani against his will. 100% agree. But there are also concepts like mental harrasment and aggrravation where a person can be led to commit a crime. Now it can be argued Arshi was lying when she threatened to leave so many times. But looking at what the story is telling us Ani begs her time and again to not leave him. That combined with Bipasha Shristi and Tanuja's goading Arshi could believe Ani is being brainwashed by J and she needs to stay to save him. Given J is dead, she stupidly believes that once Ani sleeps with her he will forget J. If you remember Ani he does tell Arshi don't leave, I need you to stay and a person can love again and we can have a kushaal life.

Whether you like it or now, Ani has been instrumental in creating the whole mess and sustaining it for so long. If you think Arshi is black and Ani and J are mere victims, or Arshi is black J is stupid and Ani is victim - you are not seeing the story fairly from all sides.

Arshi clearly has a problem, she is stupid, mean spirited, vengeful, easily manipulated - but her problem has been aided fanned and encouraged by both Ani and J in different times and both together at times as well. When a child does something wrong parents set boundaries for them to correct them. Here Ani and J have both let Arshi push her boundaries until now she is out of control. When children misbehave we blame parents dont we, as not setting the right boundaries and indulging. Same logic here, Ani knows Arshi is capable of joining with her mother to harm J. When you encourage and embrace people who play unfair, foul play, you should not complain too much when you get it in return.

Similar logic is applied to J when she went with the lawyer and goons. You be stupid, you get repaid with dhoka. She did not use her brain and got kidnapped.

There are consequences for actions - stupid ones. You have a good heart and good intent and are sacrificial you don't get success. You get the tag of a nice person from the one person you are being nice to. Ani now has tag of 'fell in line' from BH and Arshi for his zimmedahri and correctly got dumped by his love whom he gave up on in favor of his pregnant with his baby now wife.

See both sides equally - there is no black and white in this story. All are grey with varying shades. No one has a close to perfect card. So why is everyone excusing one person.

I usually pick up on Ani's faults more because the forum focusses on J's and Arshi's more.

Well said Priya. It is all 3 of them stupid actions at various times has created this mess.