Originally posted by: Goddy2010
So writing in the forum after a long time. Finally a beautiful love story has turned in to a hate story. No hopes left for the fandom. It is good we actually got some sort of closure. Every time my heart will go for Ani and I will defend him to the moon. But this time am personally feel like defeated and disappointed with Ani. Though I understand he is been made a scapegoat, but whatever the character of Ani shown as per the story, he has dig his own grave. When Janak presumed to be dead, he had all the possibility of choosing to stay single and liberate himself.But as per the story shown, he didn’t do it for whatsoever reasons. So he gave an opportunity for the violation made to him. Not that am justifying what happened to him, it is really sad he can’t prove his violation. Interesting part here is when Janak announced intimacy and pregnancy not only he denied it but he also told, there is no chance for that. but when it comes to Arshi though he denies it, he is not ruling out its possibility. This itself is a big blow to Janak and fandom. How much ever he is giving big talks about his love for Janak , whether he likes it not, some how he is giving a lot of support to Arshi than Janak. Even when Arshi left the house in the middle of the night, he was able to drop her with lot of respect but in Janak’s case he can’t move an inch. So in all nutshell, he has to accept that he can’t do any good to Janak and he is giving her more insults and problems. It is high time Ani accepts this and come out of his savior mode and away from Janak given whatever could be the circumstances she might be in. Coming to Janak, she was always ready to leave Ani so there is nothing for her to feel sorry about Anishi marriage. She was never ready and never will be ready for this relationship. But where I was able to feel her, how much ever she denied, she was at least happy in her heart that Anishi didn’t have any kind of relationship and Ani was still hers. But unfortunately the bubble got bursted in a very brutal way and with a evidence in the form of baby in Arshi. All her anger she is poring for Ani’s fake illness is all stemming from that. For the first time my heart goes out for her. Glad Ani Janak marriage did not happen, otherwise she would’ve become collateral damage for the mess created by Ani. She better stick to her words of not coming to Bose house. For Ani he still has his family, a wife whether he loves her or not and also going to get a baby whether he doesn’t know how it happened. But Janak has become alone all over again. Good things come to her but they are short lived. At this point, the story should show some good things happening to Janak and she is able to relish it. This was never meant to be a love story and it has been revealed very clearly now.
Goddy 100% - I see it the same way. Both have done wrong, but Ani made his flip flopping bed and will lie in it, while J is paying for prioritizing her unwavering core set of principles over her love.
In my mind its Ani prioritizing zimmedari and J prioritizing her principles is what is coming out & bth getting what they believe in is justice. While I hate Leena's toxic writing, separating Runak now is much better than having J be more servantile and taking care of Ani's baccha. I cannot believe so many viewers want that J should have stayed in BH with Ani, just because he says he loves her, even while his actions have prioritized Arshi every single time. The fact that he agreed to get married to Arshi and not just support the child, makes him a man incapable of making his own choices, based on his conviction. Its not about his love, but abt his ability to take a stand and stick to it. Even if he married J, he will be touting zimmedari to Arshi wrt bacchaa, suffocating and making J's life miserable. I'm glad J said she does not want to change bachha's diapers. I'm glad the viewers who want her to stay and support Ani in his zimmedhaari and Arshi during her pregnancy as Ani's wife are disappointed. That would have been torture for me. Now Ani made a choice to marry Arshi, again in an instant wo thinking things thro. Ani also kept telling J - marry Adi - when you stay with hi. longer things will get better, J did not immediately react and say - I'm going to marry Adi bcos she was upset with Ani.
This storyline is ok for me to continue watching than J managing Ani Arshi baby period. This is not abt Ani's love or lack thereof or J and her principles over love. Its always been Ani's inability to stand for what he wants and believes in, whereas J has. Tossed by emotions and the wind - going the way the wind blows is Ani - Leena made that clear in the episodes dialog's where he goes to J's room and also when he takes her to the dr for a shot. He asks himself will he indeed get married to Arshi - like its events happening to him that he has no control as opposed to him directing his life. Even marrying J to protect her is Adi's suggestion not his. Is J God for him to do everything she says? Where is his own brain and sense of self protection? A amn of 27 cannot leave his house and be independent?
...it all went out the window in a split second...
Ufff Yeh Love Hai Mushkil
Bigg Boss 19
Bade Achche Lagte Hain Naya Season
1.4k