KMTMG Discussions Thread #9 - Page 84

Originally posted by: Adiandsid

I agree, esp with the first two paragraps, but like what you mentioned in the second paragraph, its Ammu who has to let go... not Virat.

Disagreement with the third paragraph is its not Virat's job to do it - goes with the eg you gave in the 2nd para too. Even if he realises he has messed up her life. He can stay aloof, not have these chem scenes. Let her remove and wear the earing / pendant if she wants. Dont intervene. It is Ammu who has to let go... not Virat. If he regrets marrying her... he has to live with it, until she chooses to let go off him.

Doing it any way otherwise, is (i dont get the word... lets say, in the least, I will show him the finger). He is not being mahaan. The "marriage" continues only because of Ammu and ends when she wants it to end... He has lost control over it. If her presence makes him feel lowly and not good enough... bingo... he has to bear it. Same way, if her presence and things happening to her, makes him feel guilty. bear it. protect her. That's the redemption for his 'wonderful' act of marrying her.

So... I'll still disagree with the framing he is to 'let her go'... but that's fine too. [no issues in agreeing to disagree.]

PS: [I havent considered his 'needy' part well enough... but on the face of it, right now I'd say it shouldnt matter what he 'feels'... what he has done is bad enough to say 'If you are feeling needy... deal with it... no one cares.']

Got it! Yes, Ammu is the one to move out usse pehle ke uske "dil toota ve" moment ajaye!

The "let go" was un dinon ke baat te. But dono yahan pyaar mein dooba hai so Ammu need a reality slap to forget V and move on with her life

Originally posted by: sugz

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Summary. I agree Amu can also let virat go but its difficult in terms of her personality. Its not bacause shes a victim. Going forward I will be careful with words as a middle ground in not exactly disagreeing but just have different views which is ok. Middle ground is changing words from let her go to V A let eo go

Personality on one side, but here (current situation) their love is also on the way. Subconsciously, she is herself and at the same time, she can't leave her "love" and his family.

Originally posted by: nilmi

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I feel his history with X makes him unworthy to ever be Amu’s husband.

Hmm. It's because of the women around him. Otherwise, he is not that bad and something Ammu acknowledges even her Aai.

Ammu makes him reconsider everything he knew till now. That's why he can't follow from its start when she stands for herself against him.

She is not Pri who will do tantrums and blackmail him. She is who she is. The guy is learning, slowly through her kindness. However, as we all complained, the story doesn't help these two grow in a good way. It's all messy.

But yes, V will never be the "perfect guy" for Ammu, and can't be. NEVER!

Hmm if his ex will ve a positive character then why would he leave her and fell for amu???

If mukta make her positive character then it would be ammu only right in place of ex

Originally posted by: Ishaan2

Hmm if his ex will ve a positive character then why would he leave her and fell for amu???

If mukta make her positive character then it would be ammu only right in place of ex

CORRECT............ And if Virat and Amruta had past with each other at least in fb we could able to see their naughty naughty romance....dekha ghum phir ke baat separation, redemption, reality slap, misunderstanding and romance yeh sab mai hi aa jata haiMD you are too much

Originally posted by: sugz

I must be fair @Riggy to explain to you full cause & result of X post. Cause of the X bickering. 1 user wanted TRP to decrease upset & got much abuse for it. Another user came to back TRP argument up. This user 2 said creators are not listening. user 2 very ideologically said fans must make TRP fall for few weeks till creators listen... in attempt to rescue show

Result - The response by blindly loyal fans to above suggestion from user 2 was the jobs story. blind faith actors & producers listen to viewers. It appears user 2 backed their argument up in post early today. They asked if TRP idea dont work. Suggest way to make creators listen to protect everone jobs... what is creators responsibility

Why am i triggered if not my post? Im shocked at narrow minded replies from real people. Why can they complain when they want but silence others? Can they prove Producers & actors listen to comments- NO! - the product speaks for itself.

Like you rightly said " The product speaks for itself". If the creators were worried about the quality of their "product", they would have considered the feedback received from all channels and tried to incorporate it. But no, all we see is the same old pattern, repeated consistently. All they care about is the cashflow and they want to mint as much as possible till the craze/hype of the lead pair persists.

Regarding the virtue signaling group, talking about jobs and stuff, they are found everywhere in every field. I feel they are hypocrites and just to be ignored. I will take them seriously only if they can prove that they have never ever provided a negative feedback for a service received.

Originally posted by: Pyaarasam

Hmm. It's because of the women around him. Otherwise, he is not that bad and something Ammu acknowledges even her Aai.

Ammu makes him reconsider everything he knew till now. That's why he can't follow from its start when she stands for herself against him.

She is not Pri who will do tantrums and blackmail him. She is who she is. The guy is learning, slowly through her kindness. However, as we all complained, the story doesn't help these two grow in a good way. It's all messy.

But yes, V will never be the "perfect guy" for Ammu, and can't be. NEVER!

He is going through a churn right now. Have to wait and see which version of Virat comes out of this.

Originally posted by: flutterby

So who was Disha ? This character's replacement?

Disha was totally a new character played by Ruchi savam @afrina was asking abt Kajol Srivastavawho who was suppose to place new bulbul in show.So why the character never happened or came? From my pov first they wanted replacement when mrunal was serving her notice period but in end they must have decided to show her in a way that baad mein they will decide whether to bring bulbul back or not since in mogambo track story was more focused on abhi,pragya and tanu,aliya and nikhil.When disha was introduced OG purab bhi change hogaya tha.

These are the same writers & dont see why they have earned our right of patience to see where its going... maybe that's the problem with show. We wait to see where its going - complain at end - hope next plot is better. Why do we repeat this cycle? ... i wont be taken for fool by these creators. As pirates say... " no quarter" to the writers.( means no mercy & kill everyone on board)

Based on what we've seen on the shares track. There are already 2 aspects that are underwhelming. 1) they gave much important to Babita self image. It doesn't seem like she taking a beating to her self image. Why doesn't she go to Kavita house or ask brother to come up with plan to stay? not stay at Jahans. 2) based on what we saw yesterday & today. All character are still being ruined for babita. They seem to be treating babita with soft gloves in terms of why she gave ransom? ... why she gave shares... how did she give shares BTW used money in bank to release from mortgage.

Pls consider my points above for this & coming episodes

Originally posted by: Riggy

That's a very defeatist attitude!

If we do not provide feedback, positive or negative, then scope of improvement becomes nil. Be it any field, arts/ science, feedback is what helps in improving us.

If we applaud everything that is served to us, then people will become complacent with mediocrity and that would be the point when deterioration begins!

I 100% agree with you.