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SoniRita

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Posted: 11 months ago

#561

Originally posted by: CID-fan-394

I work in healthcare setup....so working days are unpredictable

Oh okay that explains it.

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ChampionChampion

@SherDilNetaji

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Posted: 11 months ago

#562

Originally posted by: Palak2812

I hate when women say I am not a feminist, especially when they have become a big thing and get to give interviews.
They can say I am not pseudo feminist but I am not a feminist is a shitty statement to make.
Feminism ka matlab he hota hain equality, when feminism came it was about giving equality and not just to women it also talked about giving equality to the LGBTQ community in their later phases of movements.

You can't blame them only, the negativity around feminism is too much, girls who says they are feminist are too much too handle especially when they don't understand the meaning of feminism, My cousin who is a CA as well have always claimed she is a feminist but you know what's her approach?? She doesn't cook for her brother and father but will cook for herself and her mother and sisters cause she thinks if she will cook for her brother and father it will be against her feminist principles according to her brother and father should cook but her sister and mother are allowed to not cook, where do you see the equality?? She crys equality but for her it means girls should work outside and when they do it they should not do house work but boys should do both outside and house work, I mean feminism was against the idea, that only women should not do it So how come it became okay if boys are doing both and if women do the same it's atrocity against them??

I am very well okay if they say they aren't feminist cause that means they aren't hypocrites either, if it was about gender equality then why did it became against boys?? Aren't they also the entitled to some sort of gender equality??

Becoming a housewife is so degrading especially in eyes of a woman, the society now describes a working women as strong and feminist but aren't those housewives who have made the lives of those so called working man and woman are stronger than them (I am not talking about the glorification of the abuse they go through but the fact that more than men it is these so called independent women and feminists who have made fun of those women who choose different things than they do, whose priority is different than theirs the fight is no longer against men and for women rights, the dynamics have changed so does the aspects of these fights so it's better to not be a feminist than being a hypocrite).

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DhoniAddict

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Posted: 11 months ago

#563

Originally posted by: Moonks
You can't blame them only, the negativity around feminism is too much, girls who says they are feminist are too much too handle especially when they don't understand the meaning of feminism, My cousin who is a CA as well have always claimed she is a feminist but you know what's her approach?? She doesn't cook for her brother and father but will cook for herself and her mother and sisters cause thinks if she will cook for her brother and father it will be against her feminist principles according to her brother and father should cook but her sister and mother are allowed to not cook, where do you see the equality?? She crys equality but for her it means girls should work outside and when they do it they should not do house work but boys should do both outside and house work, I mean feminism was against the idea, that only women should not do it So how come it became okay if boys are doing both and if women do the same it's atrocity against them??
I am very well okay if they say they aren't feminist cause that means they aren't hypocrites either, if it was about gender equality then why did it became against boys?? Aren't they also the entitled to some sort of gender equality??
Becoming a housewife is so degrading especially in eyes of a woman, the society now describes a working women as strong and feminist but aren't those housewives who have made the lives of those so called working man and woman are stronger than them (I am not talking about the glorification of the abuse they go through but the fact that more than men it is these so called independent women and feminists who have made fun of those women who choose different things than they do, whose priority is different than theirs the fight is no longer against men and for women rights, the dynamics have changed so does the aspects of these fights so it's better to not be a feminist than being a hypocrite).

What an Answer. smiley10

I saw a clip while searching for the Reem thing. https://x.com/reem_altheferi/status/1285346949374377985?t=bYDq1oGHcUslen_GNLaEjw&s=19

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ChampionChampion

@SherDilNetaji

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Posted: 11 months ago

#564

Originally posted by: BeingBlunt
What an Answer.
I saw a clip while searching for the Reem thing. https://x.com/reem_altheferi/status/1285346949374377985?t=bYDq1oGHcUslen_GNLaEjw&s=19

I believe more than gender equality what we as a society needs the equal acceptance of our thought processes like what do you think who is a successful person?? One who earns or the one who doesn't earns but make sures that those who do earn lives comfortably?? (Once again I am not glorifying anything here but my point is why do we have to choose and tag them?? Like if you are going to treat the person who decides to make a career with respect and something great then why can't we accept the person who decides to take different path??)

People do think about all this but we need the normalization part here as well, I don't know if I am able to make my point or not, but I guess you all will get what I am trying to say