🌸🌸𝓙𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓪𝓴 Written Update And Episode Discussion thread 79🌸🌸 - Page 133

Originally posted by: xnbstar

Jhanak can never think of harming Anirudh.

Already she said about her forgiveness.

Neither Anirudh nor Jhanak can ever truly hate each other.

That's the beauty of RuNak! 💖

Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae

He didnt go to Kashmir to clear his MU about Rahul. It just happened in the process. He went there to save Jhanak from Tejas .

I dont get you...I am not asking about future of the story...

I was just confused about your post on u said he doesnt deserve to wear the ring and next line you said he needs to go to mumbai.. Wanted to know about the contradiction...

I think you wanted to say about future story and your thoughts which may be was mixed and I couldn't get it

One thing i cleared i don't want these type toxic love story.in my point of view this is not true love story. This time I am seeing that both are attached not love.

Such heart touching reads Maya and Asmi ♥️❤️

Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae

The tears --of love, pain, hatred, betrayal .

My heart still pains after watching this beautiful episode.

From Jethu to Jhanak who showered their pure love with tears...

The most touching scene was Appu and Anirudh . When her own brother stayed away from her vidaai... Her constant support stood by her with all the tears.. The song highlighted the scene to more emotional one.

Jhanak's undying love for her Appu di, the bond that she developed with her in their first meet. Her pampering on Appu head was so motherly love. How a simple touch can be assuring ...

I so loved the scene between Anirudh and Jhanak. These two beautiful hearted human being are so stuck in their situations.. In all his anger lies the love for her. The thought of she should be proved wrong of my thinking. The feeling of betrayal from Jhanak. The pain of she is not the one whom I knew. The hurt expressed as how I stood for you and a final I hate you... with tears falling down.The comparison between Arshi and then the monologue. Anirudh , how will he handle himself when he gets to know the truth of the baby.

I loved Jhanak for her calm and controlled expression of pain.. The tears which failed to fall down with the words of Anirudh, her disbelief on how can he still not trust her .. And the most beautiful words reflecting her enduring love for him.. " Main maaf karungi aap ko" ... She can be no one other than Jhanak to have such a beautiful heart . And I hope all the words that came from her pain doesnt become a curse for him and she realises he was genuine with his memory. (The man was so perplexed as why she is saying all this. )

Its was beautiful conversation . With lot of pain and complain.

Couldn't resist tears falling down when they spoke 🥺🥺

Can never unlove these two souls 😍😘.

The start if the episode was good with the message of how can a daughter pay off the debts... A much required message when still people consider girls has a burden. The fear of breaking the social norm well expressed through Bodomaa as " Will it be inauspicious" ... The mind that wants to break many regressive thoughts gets tangled with this auspicious and inauspicious struggle.

Fabolous performance by Ankita,Krushal, Hiba who gave life to the writer's thoughts. A beautiful episode in terms of writing, performance and direction ..

Originally posted by: Varsha188

One thing i cleared i don't want these type toxic love story.in my point of view this is not true love story. This time I am seeing that both are attached not love.

Too much toxicity even break strong relationships. Real life mein log depression mein chale jaen. Serial ko entertainment tak he rehne dain. Lekin leena madam likes toxicity

Aur aik in madam ka yeh ha k toxicity bhi show kar rahen ha lekin leads ne ghoom phir kar saath he Rehna ha

Is pyaar ko kea he Naam dain. 

That's why we people get frustrated 😔

Normal bunda yeh torture bear nahi ker sukta.

Originally posted by: shanakanj

This is not love , its obsession and torture on audience

Ye Leenaji sirf kuch paiso k lye kar rahi hai 🤬

uff, kya episode tha aaj ka...specially that last bit of RuNak convo....

Ani blasted on jhanak, sari badhaas nikal diya. kya kuch ni bola. i hate u, go to hell, bahot buri insaan ho tum, mujhe bali ka bakra bna rhi tum...but jhanak ne bhi ache replies diye...her last words were fire...i might forgive u but god will not forgive u easily...i guess it hinted ani will remember about that night of srinagar, but by that time, jhanak will face MC and she will lost their baby...she will hate him so much....Ani will repent badly...will be on guilt mode... Agar ani ka redemption dikhana hai toh ani ko utna niche bhi toh girana hoga na, girayenge nhi toh uthayenge kaise but yeah krushal will ace such scenes too..it will be interesting to watch...

Krushal and hiba nailed it...did an amazing job today...

One of the most lilting melodies of the yore…sung soulfully by Kishoreda written by Anand Bakshi

ज़िंदगी के सफ़र में गुज़र जाते हैं जो मक़ाम

वो फिर नहीं आते, वो फिर नहीं आते

आँख धोखा है, क्या भरोसा है

आँख धोखा है, क्या भरोसा है, सुनो

दोस्तों, शक़ दोस्ती का दुश्मन है

अपने दिल में इसे घर बनाने ना दो

कल तड़पना पड़े याद में जिनकी

रोक लो, रूठ कर उनको जाने ना दो

बाद में प्यार के चाहे भेजो हज़ारों सलाम

वो फिर नहीं आते, वो फिर नहीं आते

In a story of love, this is the saddest/stupidest reason for separation. It marks sometimes the point of no return in a story. I still hope for Jhanak to be able to rise above her grief and find it in her heart to able to heal herself and the man she fell in love with.

I just wish the makers had made this MU more convincing somehow…like Jhanak said a few days ago… that you forget is acceptable but not that you are convinced that you couldn’t have crossed a line…For a viewer like me, I saw a changed Ani who brought back a changed Jhanak from Kashmir . I wasn’t even aware of the intimacy beyond the hug. But the writers are asking me to forget all of that or I am not clear what part should I forget to understand Ani’s dilemma

OR

I wish the makers had given us a stronger backstory ( not a just a semblance of an existence in a selfish household) for us to connect Ani’s wild fertile imagination borne out from some trauma… I know some of you allude to a loveless childhood etc but I just wish the writers had given a more clear glimpse of that coz yesterday that dialogue of “ Just when I begin to believe in you, you end up….” Have there been more instances of this kind? Since I am now watching some of older episodes again… I looked at one episode which I may not have seen seriously.. when Ani has that dream about his confrontation with Jhanak after Shristi’s lie about Rahul; if one notices, he is jolted out of his dream when Jhanak speaks of leaving….even when his relationship with her wasn’t defined, he was very anxious about her leaving which sort of formed a pattern. I know many of you have alluded to Jhanak being the one he felt most real with etc but through the narrative, while this is a romantic allusion and an acceptable one too, while I saw Ani as a most cultured person in his nuclear family unit, I never saw him too troubled.. Yesterday was the first time I saw him ashamed of his father…has it happened before? 🤔

It’s one thing to assume that a person loses his marbles due to x reasons but quite another to think that a perfectly functioning individual can’t process basic information 😂😂😂😂

sorry I wrote this on a day that is rather mixed one for me episode wise.
The episode highlights have been covered in a lovely manner already by Maya & Asmi ❤️

As a South Indian, I actually never connected to the vidaai rasam in a sorrowful way beyond the fact that some things do change irrevocably. In that the loss of your childhood home but even as a young person I never connected it to a loss but just that I had now two homes to be a part of.
I saw the purport of the vidaai for many others to mean a loss of something very personal and emotional and while I respect the emotion I never connected to it to feel the same. Over years I understood it to also to value the privilege but in all times I would hope women don’t treat marriage as a loss of the maternal home in any way.

Originally posted by: sanfan

One of the most lilting melodies of the yore…sung soulfully by Kishoreda written by Anand Bakshi

ज़िंदगी के सफ़र में गुज़र जाते हैं जो मक़ाम

वो फिर नहीं आते, वो फिर नहीं आते

आँख धोखा है, क्या भरोसा है

आँख धोखा है, क्या भरोसा है, सुनो

दोस्तों, शक़ दोस्ती का दुश्मन है

अपने दिल में इसे घर बनाने ना दो

कल तड़पना पड़े याद में जिनकी

रोक लो, रूठ कर उनको जाने ना दो

बाद में प्यार के चाहे भेजो हज़ारों सलाम

वो फिर नहीं आते, वो फिर नहीं आते

In a story of love, this is the saddest/stupidest reason for separation. It marks sometimes the point of no return in a story. I still hope for Jhanak to be able to rise above her grief and find it in her heart to able to heal herself and the man she fell in love with.

I just wish the makers had made this MU more convincing somehow…like Jhanak said a few days ago… that you forget is acceptable but not that you are convinced that you couldn’t have crossed a line…For a viewer like me, I saw a changed Ani who brought back a changed Jhanak from Kashmir . I wasn’t even aware of the intimacy beyond the hug. But the writers are asking me to forget all of that or I am not clear what part should I forget to understand Ani’s dilemma

OR

I wish the makers had given us a stronger backstory ( not a just a semblance of an existence in a selfish household) for us to connect Ani’s wild fertile imagination borne out from some trauma… I know some of you allude to a loveless childhood etc but I just wish the writers had given a more clear glimpse of that coz yesterday that dialogue of “ Just when I begin to believe in you, you end up….” Have there been more instances of this kind? Since I am now watching some of older episodes again… I looked at one episode which I may not have seen seriously.. when Ani has that dream about his confrontation with Jhanak after Shristi’s lie about Rahul; if one notices, he is jolted out of his dream when Jhanak speaks of leaving….even when his relationship with her wasn’t defined, he was very anxious about her leaving which sort of formed a pattern. I know many of you have alluded to Jhanak being the one he felt most real with etc but through the narrative, while this is a romantic allusion and an acceptable one too, while I saw Ani as a most cultured person in his nuclear family unit, I never saw him too troubled.. Yesterday was the first time I saw him ashamed of his father…has it happened before? 🤔

It’s one thing to assume that a person loses his marbles due to x reasons but quite another to think that a perfectly functioning individual can’t process basic information 😂😂😂😂

sorry I wrote this on a day that is rather mixed one for me episode wise.
The episode highlights have been covered in a lovely manner already by Maya & Asmi ❤️

As a South Indian, I actually never connected to the vidaai rasam in a sorrowful way beyond the fact that some things do change irrevocably. In that the loss of your childhood home but even as a young person I never connected it to a loss but just that I had now two homes to be a part of.
I saw the purport of the vidaai for many others to mean a loss of something very personal and emotional and while I respect the emotion I never connected to it to feel the same. Over years I understood it to also to value the privilege but in all times I would hope women don’t treat marriage as a loss of the maternal home in any way.

I can defend Anirudh on one ground...he has been with only one girl for the longest time...so his expectations and idea about a girl is heavily influenced by his views about Arshi...from the very beginning Arshi was all about Ani Ani Ani...both were there for each other, with each other...no opposite gender person ever crossed their path or came in between them...so, this kind of restricted communication with the opposite gender on a personal level hinders one's judgement...the same problem is happening with Ani..even at the beginning when Srishti told Ani that Rahul is her bf, he couldn't digest it...In the SR dream he himself accepted that after sindur rituals he developed a feeling of haq on J...so he could never accept the fact that J can be with other men ..he finds it offensive...and he just forgets to look at it from the other side that he himself is repeatedly doing this mistake by being with other women while he should be with his love..

Currently, Ani is not in sane mental state..he came behind J to hear her convo with AK...his first comment was yeha pyar kar rahi hai ye aur mujhe phasana chahti hai...just imagine how sick his thoughts have turned into! I think lesser exposure with girls in general, the oddness of Runak relationship, the aag incident and J leaving him, all these have completely jeopardized his logical thinking abilities...he needs a serious jolt now to grow as a human being who otherwise is perfect, but when it comes to his haq, loses control over all the goodness..the unfortunate part is J will bear the maximum brunt of this behaviour of him💔

Originally posted by: sanfan

One of the most lilting melodies of the yore…sung soulfully by Kishoreda written by Anand Bakshi

ज़िंदगी के सफ़र में गुज़र जाते हैं जो मक़ाम

वो फिर नहीं आते, वो फिर नहीं आते

आँख धोखा है, क्या भरोसा है

आँख धोखा है, क्या भरोसा है, सुनो

दोस्तों, शक़ दोस्ती का दुश्मन है

अपने दिल में इसे घर बनाने ना दो

कल तड़पना पड़े याद में जिनकी

रोक लो, रूठ कर उनको जाने ना दो

बाद में प्यार के चाहे भेजो हज़ारों सलाम

वो फिर नहीं आते, वो फिर नहीं आते

In a story of love, this is the saddest/stupidest reason for separation. It marks sometimes the point of no return in a story. I still hope for Jhanak to be able to rise above her grief and find it in her heart to able to heal herself and the man she fell in love with.

I just wish the makers had made this MU more convincing somehow…like Jhanak said a few days ago… that you forget is acceptable but not that you are convinced that you couldn’t have crossed a line…For a viewer like me, I saw a changed Ani who brought back a changed Jhanak from Kashmir . I wasn’t even aware of the intimacy beyond the hug. But the writers are asking me to forget all of that or I am not clear what part should I forget to understand Ani’s dilemma

OR

I wish the makers had given us a stronger backstory ( not a just a semblance of an existence in a selfish household) for us to connect Ani’s wild fertile imagination borne out from some trauma… I know some of you allude to a loveless childhood etc but I just wish the writers had given a more clear glimpse of that coz yesterday that dialogue of “ Just when I begin to believe in you, you end up….” Have there been more instances of this kind? Since I am now watching some of older episodes again… I looked at one episode which I may not have seen seriously.. when Ani has that dream about his confrontation with Jhanak after Shristi’s lie about Rahul; if one notices, he is jolted out of his dream when Jhanak speaks of leaving….even when his relationship with her wasn’t defined, he was very anxious about her leaving which sort of formed a pattern. I know many of you have alluded to Jhanak being the one he felt most real with etc but through the narrative, while this is a romantic allusion and an acceptable one too, while I saw Ani as a most cultured person in his nuclear family unit, I never saw him too troubled.. Yesterday was the first time I saw him ashamed of his father…has it happened before? 🤔

It’s one thing to assume that a person loses his marbles due to x reasons but quite another to think that a perfectly functioning individual can’t process basic information 😂😂😂😂

sorry I wrote this on a day that is rather mixed one for me episode wise.
The episode highlights have been covered in a lovely manner already by Maya & Asmi ❤️

As a South Indian, I actually never connected to the vidaai rasam in a sorrowful way beyond the fact that some things do change irrevocably. In that the loss of your childhood home but even as a young person I never connected it to a loss but just that I had now two homes to be a part of.
I saw the purport of the vidaai for many others to mean a loss of something very personal and emotional and while I respect the emotion I never connected to it to feel the same. Over years I understood it to also to value the privilege but in all times I would hope women don’t treat marriage as a loss of the maternal home in any way.

Rekha ,

It is beautiful written with lot of questions...

But first as a typical keralite ,🤪, my mind struck at your words as " as a South Indian " .And so may I know which part of South you are from.

Regarding the few questions if you watch the show from start..thete are many instances which show how he was never loved by Tanuja and there is only a formal connect between Anirudh and his parents. The one incident that flashed my mind is how Tanuja bright flowers when he was in hospital like a relative who came to see him.There is nothing wrong in bringing flowers , but her ways were very formal. The same when he became drama queen about corporate job and said he was feeling tired ..All she offered was go to a spa and you will better. Unlike a mom who would be tensed about her son. There was never a warmth from her side .

And also many times he has said about how Jethu and Bodomaa raised him while Shubho and Tanuja was busy.But Rumi and Mimi was raised by the parents . Hence the theory of abandonment popped up.

If its about he being troubled, may be not a situation like this where his dignity was questioned ...but he felt the pain whenever Choton ,Jethu were humilitated and always took a firm stand for them going against his parents. He has always stood with right and never bothered who was at the other end. And mostly he was emotional too when Choton was insulted on the basis of his poverty . I still remember how he said I consider Choton as my Bagwan ( Arey these two are same man...Jhanak and Anirudh ).He has fallen in many difficult situations at his home for helping Jhanak like he says.

He facing Tejas and saving Jhanak going to his home and insecure places ,where he could have lost his life are all troubles which he has come across which may have given him mental tension and pressure in a way if not similar to what he faces due to allegations from Jhanak now .And yes , the thought of Jhanak leaving is always shown as his pain as she is the one with whom he was happy and became himself back in Kashmir initial days to till date .

I am able to recollect to this extent at the moment . So it was shown even if it was not in detail as backstory.

Originally posted by: Dibya_C

I can defend Anirudh on one ground...he has been with only one girl for the longest time...so his expectations and idea about a girl is heavily influenced by his views about Arshi...from the very beginning Arshi was all about Ani Ani Ani...both were there for each other, with each other...no opposite gender person ever crossed their path or came in between them...so, this kind of restricted communication with the opposite gender on a personal level hinders one's judgement...the same problem is happening with Ani..even at the beginning when Srishti told Ani that Rahul is her bf, he couldn't digest it...In the SR dream he himself accepted that after sindur rituals he developed a feeling of haq on J...so he could never accept the fact that J can be with other men ..he finds it offensive...and he just forgets to look at it from the other side that he himself is repeatedly doing this mistake by being with other women while he should be with his love..

Currently, Ani is not in sane mental state..he came behind J to hear her convo with AK...his first comment was yeha pyar kar rahi hai ye aur mujhe phasana chahti hai...just imagine how sick his thoughts have turned into! I think lesser exposure with girls in general, the oddness of Runak relationship, the aag incident and J leaving him, all these have completely jeopardized his logical thinking abilities...he needs a serious jolt now to grow as a human being who otherwise is perfect, but when it comes to his haq, loses control over all the goodness..the unfortunate part is J will bear the maximum brunt of this behaviour of him💔