Originally posted by: awida
Ep 44 .
I loved Nani and Sitara's phone call. 
Also Sitara and Salar's meeting made my day. He understands her very well. He knows what she does when she is angry , and when she is helpless.. for this he comes to her aid. Now we know why he was alarmed when Sitara blocked him.
And Salar names his father Dectator.
And blocked him. 
Well done Salar 
I wonder why his rich parents want to get him married only to a girl of their choice. They don't need more money, and their company is doing well. Also Mirza insulted them in public, and supported those who accused Salar of killing animals. So how they are ok with Sahiba as a better wife for their own son?
From what I understand, it is kind of implied that the Sikandars are an upstart nouveau riche family. It is just that they have landed up wealthier than other moneyed families. While Saba and Salar have clearly grown up in wealth, his father is implied to be not. That is why Tahir is so measured about his interactions with everyone. He uses all his personal connections to advance his own status and wealth. It is implied in early episodes that Tahir who was a rising businessman married Saba's mom (who came from wealth). They had Saba and unfortunately, Saba's mom passed away. Saba's maternal family is still in contact with her and Saba even brought up her own maternal uncle's daughter who was brought up in USA as a potential bride for Salar and was showing him her pictures. It is also implied that Tahir was left a young grieving widower father with a barely toddler daughter. Not sure exactly how Salar's mom came into the picture but she expressed regret that despite entering the corporate world, she chose to let go of her career the moment she met Tahir through it and focused on establishing herself in the rich wives club once she had Salar. So it was kind of implied that they met through corporate world, probably a grieving Tahir needed company and a mother for his daughter (Saba and Salar's mom get along quite well, you would actually hardly believe that they are not bio mom and child) and Salar's mom who is clearly from an established upper middle class background and wanted to climb up the social ladder further married him in a hurry and had Salar. One of the reasons why she and Tahir are so involved in charity and socials is because they are nouveau riche. They want the acceptance and foothold in the upper class social circles. By contrast, Saba and Salar have grown up with the same privilege as other old money, so this does not really matter to them that much. The Mirzas are old money. You can even see that in Sahiba's mom who is clearly from a very established background and from Sahiba herself, who is her father's only child and heir (implying that they are secure in their status even though their only child is a girl). Why Sikandars want to marry off Salar to Sahiba is because not only that would give their lineage the permanent foothold in old moneyed class of Karachi but also the entire Mirza fortune through Sahiba would come to the next generation of Sikandars. Tahir is implied to be quite wealthier than both Mirza and Sufiyan, that is somewhat of a sore point for the latter as they don't really like to rub shoulders with upstarts. That is why the moment they found a weakness in Salar - the supposed animal killing and deportation - they came after him. After all, Salar is Tahir's heir and they know by insulting Salar, they are showing that Tahir will never be equal to them even if Salar has been raised in wealth. However, Salar is still the heir to Tahir's fortune so he is still a very eligible and coveted bachelor in their circles.
Originally posted by: awida
Looking down at ppl from middle class isn't understandable specially when it comes from Salar's mom. Unless she thinks that Sitara is a girl like her who got married to a rich man for money. But why blaming others for doing the things you did ?
And Salman is now supporting Sitara and Salar's marriage? Good. 
Oh it is definitely projection. Salar's mom was a gold digger, Salar himself has clearly stated so. But also Salar's mom is from a very established upper middle class, possibly wealth adjacent background. Salar's nani wears silk sarees with parsi ghara or lace borders (quite expensive sarees) with pearls, her house is spacious and has a lot of books and old colonial style furniture, while Sitara is really middle middle class. That is why Salar told his nani that he hopes that she won't judge Sitara from where she lived. Salar's mom is not blaming others. She is projecting. She knows that she married Tahir only for his money, was interested only in kitty parties, neglected her son, was ultimately incompatible with her husband and mostly tolerates his presence albeit with rare moments of affection, now acknowledges that her family life is poor and broken to the point her son refuses to spend any "family time" with them and she now regrets not focusing on her career and relying on Tahir's money which allows him to misbehave with her. Sitara (via whatever Salar's mom knows of Salman) is even a poorer choice than herself. Given that Salman is a gold digger or greedy, she automatically assumes that Sitara is also one herself.
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