Originally posted by: asmitamohanty
I believe that there is a difference between " knowing" and "understanding".....when we are overwhelmed with emotions we say/do a lot of things maybe to calm ourselves..but then when things are applied back to us...we are at the receiving end..we realise the gravity of what our actions made the other person feel....
Even Jhanak had run to hug AK in ad shoot giving dagger side look to Aniruddh...does she realise why she did that!
I believe it for both the leads.....
During his marriage PDA he did this to force a confession out of Jhanak...It was a twisted and wrong move.. I won't defend him there at all...but the fact is it backfired..and things went terribly wrong...
May be I am just sharing my thoughts Regarding Arshi.....
Honestly I don't get all these accusations that Arshi is throwing and still staying with him only reason is to guilt trip him....the story is messy but this presumption that Anirudh ne kisi ko BAANDH ke rakha hai apne saath to use Arshi as a back up when things go wrong with Jhanak.... is one I frankly don't get one bit.
Everyone is suffocating right now, no doubt, including Aniruddh himself the most..but Ani is hardly the one who's deliberately deciding the course of anyone's life, is he?
He is not even being able to decide his own life....
Arshi ke case mein toh we can all see that she is the one clinging to a dead relationship when she understands every single thing only to not lose to a "random" ladki... he isn't asking her to cling to the technicality of marriage....that is her choice.....He had said this again and again before marriage previously that he is giving Arshi the choice to decide what she wants to do , to break the relationship and he will accept her choice...
yes he made mistakes that caused pain to both of them and he deserves to feel the Karma for that and he is going through that phase but he himself is in so much pain as well but I don't agree with the accusations that Anirudh is responsible for the current static state in both women.....they are both choosing the current static state for their own reasons....
In an otherwise regressive writing one good thing I found that they showed these two woman handling their dynamic with Aniruddh as per their choice...let's not as usual take away all agency from these women like they are just mannequins standing there waiting for Anirudh to decide their fate.....bcz that's not fair...not on these two woman but on Ani as well....
Now coming back ; What Ani needs to do is decide for himself and come clean ,just be honest to himself and make it clear to Arshi that he loves Jhanak and ask her forgiveness for the complications/confusions and leave this relationship....it should happen irrespective of Jhanak....bcz he needs to be imandaar to himself...He has said bigger lies to himself.... I agree.... with you..
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