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Posted: 12 months ago

Originally posted by: samarp2

First he tells her to be happy with Aditya smiley37smiley37smiley37smiley37 then he tells her why she couldnโ€™t see him smiley37smiley37smiley37smiley37โ€ฆ now Ani is burning with jealousy smiley37smiley37

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yehe to problem ha main the dikha kyun nahi . Real problem to yeh ha k main ignore kyun ho raha hoon. smiley37

Jealousy at its peaksmiley36

Edited by Pearl_219 - 12 months ago
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Posted: 12 months ago

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

I belive and I have always said that.....

The most tragic flaw of him is he hasn't faced most of his own truths since a very long time...so what he does in his defense mechanism is to manufacture a truth that he believes is comfortable for him....so this leaving Jhanak behind and moving on with Arshi is part of that manufactured truth...as the real truth that he hasn't moved on from her even after her rejecting him in a way is too much for him

He ran away from his feelings for Jhanak for such a long time....and that kind of landed him in this trouble

Now even when he has accepted Arshi as his wife socially... emotionally he is not being able to move on...

Yes he has tried his best....but this encounter with Jhanak made him realise that he hasn't move on at all..

And the only acceptable truth for him is to accept that Jhanak doesn't love him...she has moved on....

You explained your POV well Asmitha, this is likely true

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Posted: 12 months ago

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

I believe that there is a difference between " knowing" and "understanding".....when we are overwhelmed with emotions we say/do a lot of things maybe to calm ourselves..but then when things are applied back to us...we are at the receiving end..we realise the gravity of what our actions made the other person feel....

Even Jhanak had run to hug AK in ad shoot giving dagger side look to Aniruddh...does she realise why she did that!

I believe it for both the leads.....

During his marriage PDA he did this to force a confession out of Jhanak...It was a twisted and wrong move.. I won't defend him there at all...but the fact is it backfired..and things went terribly wrong...

May be I am just sharing my thoughts Regarding Arshi.....

Honestly I don't get all these accusations that Arshi is throwing and still staying with him only reason is to guilt trip him....the story is messy but this presumption that Anirudh ne kisi ko BAANDH ke rakha hai apne saath to use Arshi as a back up when things go wrong with Jhanak.... is one I frankly don't get one bit.

Everyone is suffocating right now, no doubt, including Aniruddh himself the most..but Ani is hardly the one who's deliberately deciding the course of anyone's life, is he?

He is not even being able to decide his own life....

Arshi ke case mein toh we can all see that she is the one clinging to a dead relationship when she understands every single thing only to not lose to a "random" ladki... he isn't asking her to cling to the technicality of marriage....that is her choice.....He had said this again and again before marriage previously that he is giving Arshi the choice to decide what she wants to do , to break the relationship and he will accept her choice...

yes he made mistakes that caused pain to both of them and he deserves to feel the Karma for that and he is going through that phase but he himself is in so much pain as well but I don't agree with the accusations that Anirudh is responsible for the current static state in both women.....they are both choosing the current static state for their own reasons....

In an otherwise regressive writing one good thing I found that they showed these two woman handling their dynamic with Aniruddh as per their choice...let's not as usual take away all agency from these women like they are just mannequins standing there waiting for Anirudh to decide their fate.....bcz that's not fair...not on these two woman but on Ani as well....

Now coming back ; What Ani needs to do is decide for himself and come clean ,just be honest to himself and make it clear to Arshi that he loves Jhanak and ask her forgiveness for the complications/confusions and leave this relationship....it should happen irrespective of Jhanak....bcz he needs to be imandaar to himself...He has said bigger lies to himself.... I agree.... with you..


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Initially when they were fighting with their inner turmoil was how to escape their troubling marriage without being caught. At that point it was easier for them to grasp on the fact that their connection was temporary. They never wanted to feel the forbidden love which everyone was against it as well. The deliberate attempts to drive each other away, dismissing their feelings, intentionally ignoring the attraction were all adding doubts, mistrust and lots of confusion regards to their growing feelings. Where they stand right now is only the effects of what was ignored before whether intentionally or unintentionally. They chose their path despite of being told how they were always fated. They never really analyzed the divine intervention that kept bringing them together. Being unsure about their feelings and adamantly pushing each other away with maximum monologues caused a great amount of stress in their relationship. The lack of communication and confrontation are addition to the already toxic situation they bear in. Now the only way they cope is by defending each other in the most ridiculous ways. Instead of clarifying, they choose to put each other down just like before. So what has really changed? I hope Leena give them some valuable lesson so they drive each other crazy in love not fall out of love.
Edited by Manoshono - 12 months ago
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Posted: 12 months ago

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

I believe that there is a difference between " knowing" and "understanding".....when we are overwhelmed with emotions we say/do a lot of things maybe to calm ourselves..but then when things are applied back to us...we are at the receiving end..we realise the gravity of what our actions made the other person feel....

Even Jhanak had run to hug AK in ad shoot giving dagger side look to Aniruddh...does she realise why she did that!

I believe it for both the leads.....

During his marriage PDA he did this to force a confession out of Jhanak...It was a twisted and wrong move.. I won't defend him there at all...but the fact is it backfired..and things went terribly wrong...

May be I am just sharing my thoughts Regarding Arshi.....

Honestly I don't get all these accusations that Arshi is throwing and still staying with him only reason is to guilt trip him....the story is messy but this presumption that Anirudh ne kisi ko BAANDH ke rakha hai apne saath to use Arshi as a back up when things go wrong with Jhanak.... is one I frankly don't get one bit.

Everyone is suffocating right now, no doubt, including Aniruddh himself the most..but Ani is hardly the one who's deliberately deciding the course of anyone's life, is he?

He is not even being able to decide his own life....

Arshi ke case mein toh we can all see that she is the one clinging to a dead relationship when she understands every single thing only to not lose to a "random" ladki... he isn't asking her to cling to the technicality of marriage....that is her choice.....He had said this again and again before marriage previously that he is giving Arshi the choice to decide what she wants to do , to break the relationship and he will accept her choice...

yes he made mistakes that caused pain to both of them and he deserves to feel the Karma for that and he is going through that phase but he himself is in so much pain as well but I don't agree with the accusations that Anirudh is responsible for the current static state in both women.....they are both choosing the current static state for their own reasons....

In an otherwise regressive writing one good thing I found that they showed these two woman handling their dynamic with Aniruddh as per their choice...let's not as usual take away all agency from these women like they are just mannequins standing there waiting for Anirudh to decide their fate.....bcz that's not fair...not on these two woman but on Ani as well....

Now coming back ; What Ani needs to do is decide for himself and come clean ,just be honest to himself and make it clear to Arshi that he loves Jhanak and ask her forgiveness for the complications/confusions and leave this relationship....it should happen irrespective of Jhanak....bcz he needs to be imandaar to himself...He has said bigger lies to himself.... I agree.... with you..


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bold - love this observation...Asmitha

underline - very well articulated smiley27

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Posted: 12 months ago

Originally posted by: samarp2

First he tells her to be happy with Aditya smiley37smiley37smiley37smiley37 then he tells her why she couldnโ€™t see him smiley37smiley37smiley37smiley37โ€ฆ now Ani is burning with jealousy smiley37smiley37

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That โ€œkhush rehna tumโ€ is fasad ki jarh in for his feelings.

Bro you donโ€™t want her to be happy with anyone but you! So speak the damn feelings already smiley7๐Ÿ™„

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Posted: 12 months ago

Rudra is being the best human. I like him. He is neutral, I liked Meenu as well - because they bring sensibility into the show. Where Adi is brought in to jalao-fy Ani there Rudra is a calm voice. Ani and Jhanak are on a strange path now.


Arshi also has become smart/chunt now on how to handle Ani. Shristi is still a Sheep (Mein mein mein). The one that I despise however is Brij Bhushan and Bipasha. Jeez I hate them ...everytime they are onscreen I have a visceral reaction.

Edited by bob-bob - 12 months ago
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Posted: 12 months ago

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

I believe that there is a difference between " knowing" and "understanding".....when we are overwhelmed with emotions we say/do a lot of things maybe to calm ourselves..but then when things are applied back to us...we are at the receiving end..we realise the gravity of what our actions made the other person feel....

Even Jhanak had run to hug AK in ad shoot giving dagger side look to Aniruddh...does she realise why she did that!

I believe it for both the leads.....

During his marriage PDA he did this to force a confession out of Jhanak...It was a twisted and wrong move.. I won't defend him there at all...but the fact is it backfired..and things went terribly wrong...

May be I am just sharing my thoughts Regarding Arshi.....

Honestly I don't get all these accusations that Arshi is throwing and still staying with him only reason is to guilt trip him....the story is messy but this presumption that Anirudh ne kisi ko BAANDH ke rakha hai apne saath to use Arshi as a back up when things go wrong with Jhanak.... is one I frankly don't get one bit.

Everyone is suffocating right now, no doubt, including Aniruddh himself the most..but Ani is hardly the one who's deliberately deciding the course of anyone's life, is he?

He is not even being able to decide his own life....

Arshi ke case mein toh we can all see that she is the one clinging to a dead relationship when she understands every single thing only to not lose to a "random" ladki... he isn't asking her to cling to the technicality of marriage....that is her choice.....He had said this again and again before marriage previously that he is giving Arshi the choice to decide what she wants to do , to break the relationship and he will accept her choice...

yes he made mistakes that caused pain to both of them and he deserves to feel the Karma for that and he is going through that phase but he himself is in so much pain as well but I don't agree with the accusations that Anirudh is responsible for the current static state in both women.....they are both choosing the current static state for their own reasons....

In an otherwise regressive writing one good thing I found that they showed these two woman handling their dynamic with Aniruddh as per their choice...let's not as usual take away all agency from these women like they are just mannequins standing there waiting for Anirudh to decide their fate.....bcz that's not fair...not on these two woman but on Ani as well....

Now coming back ; What Ani needs to do is decide for himself and come clean ,just be honest to himself and make it clear to Arshi that he loves Jhanak and ask her forgiveness for the complications/confusions and leave this relationship....it should happen irrespective of Jhanak....bcz he needs to be imandaar to himself...He has said bigger lies to himself.... I agree.... with you..


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Ho Gaya.....ho Gaya.... finally

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Posted: 12 months ago

Uff Asmi and Anum, every bit the truth, as it should be told ....hugs smiley27smiley31

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Initially when they were fighting with their inner turmoil was how to escape their troubling marriage without being caught. At that point it was easier for them to grasp on the fact that their connection was temporary. They never wanted to feel the forbidden love which everyone was against it as well. The deliberate attempts to drive each other away, dismissing their feelings, intentionally ignoring the attraction were all adding doubts, mistrust and lots of confusion regards to their growing feelings. Where they stand right now is only the effects of what was ignored before whether intentionally or unintentionally. They chose their path despite of being told how they were always fated. They never really analyzed the divine intervention that kept bringing them together. Being unsure about their feelings and adamantly pushing each other away with maximum monologues caused a great amount of stress in their relationship. The lack of communication and confrontation are addition to the already toxic situation they bear in. Now the only way they cope is by defending each other in the most ridiculous ways. Instead of clarifying, they choose to put each other down just like before. So what has really changed? I hope Leena give them some valuable lesson so they drive each other crazy in love not fall out of love.

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Posted: 12 months ago

What he means is, mere siwa kisi aur ke sath, khush rehne ka, jurrat bhi na karna smiley37 These two need to learn to read between the lines smiley36smiley44

Originally posted by: Manoshono

That โ€œkhush rehna tumโ€ is fasad ki jarh in for his feelings.

Bro you donโ€™t want her to be happy with anyone but you! So speak the damn feelings already smiley7๐Ÿ™„

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Posted: 12 months ago

Originally posted by: rysohini

What he means is, mere siwa kisi aur ke sath, khush rehne ka, jurrat bhi na karna smiley37 These two need to learn to read between the lines smiley36smiley44

Haath dhoke kyun peechay pade ho babu ke?? Bechara sadme se guzar raha hai .

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