Originally posted by: Drna7
In show's reality makers have always shown Ruhi as an immature impulsive brat who first impulsively considers one man as her soulmate then impulsively agrees to marry someone else and always blames others for every mistakes but no one should point hers.
Yes Ab can forgive Ar easily because he was genuinely apologising and proved his love. And why would she forgive Ru when she is still eyeing Ar and trying to touch him. Who will like to forgive such person?
Ab don't want Ro-Ru to be together now but which sane person will? Ru is still hung up on her ex and sees chances of them being together. She still wants Ar while standing next to Ro, so any person who wants Ro's happiness and cares for his feelings will not be ok with them being together.
bold - ruhi had dismissed her feelings as infatuation but it was Armaan who “convinced” her about their deep feelings at mandir… love at first sight or getting instantly attracted to someone isn’t impulsiveness, thousands do so... impulsiveness is without knowing the whole truth considering someone guilty and breaking their items like Ab did during Saraswati Pooja..
Ruhi is dumb and delusional, no one’s denying it, but you need to understand a major chunk of the mess created is due to Armaan.. you don’t gift wrap your love and give it to your brother while promising to love her all your life and never give her place to anyone.. that’s horrible.. Armaan’s hollow promises created this… he promised Ruhi that she will always be his first priority.. he told Rohit, toote dil ke sath koi khush nahi reh sakta which made him sacrifice his love and waste an year..
Armaan is a fickle minded weak man who never realised the gravity his words carried or seriousness of the situation but does that make Ruhi wrong in trusting him? Maybe or maybe not? If blindly trusting others is a crime then even Ab is guilty of it.. she was trusting Ar but the moment Manisha fed her ears her insecurities kicked in… Armaan never revealed what all he said to Ruhi or Rohit but she has a basic idea… so if after all this nonsense, Ab can forgive Ar and accept him as her love then I am sorry she doesn’t have any right to question Ruhi..
Bold 2 - I don’t remember a scene in recent episodes where she wanted to touch him.. so no comments.. it’s not Illegal to not move on in life.. many take years.. even Ab didn’t move on, any sane person doesn’t become a wedding planner of their ex… and despite being the wedding planner she crossed her boundaries and confessed her feelings to the groom… is it morally and ethically a right thing to do?
Despite all the shortcomings you stated, if Ruhi accepts the relationship, dadisa and Vidya will give her queen treatment.. Rohit will eventually accept her as he madly loves her.. toh jab miya biwi raazi why is Ab being a kaazi? And tell me what exactly is she going to achieve by poking her nose? Dadisa already hates her.. any mature sensible person would try to mend the gap and make the family accept her but Ab not being one will do the exact opposite and create problems for herself and her love and then play the victim card ki haaye mein toh bhala karne gayi thi mere sath bura hogaya.. toh behen kisne kaha tha dusro ke phate mein taang adao? Degree mili hai cases lo, romance karo lekin shakhi jagga jasoos bana hai toh kya bole?
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