Anupamaa 30th Jul 2024 Written Update and Daily Discussions Thread - Page 3

Titu has no 1 else to blame but only himself. Titu and Toshu are both the same but with a difference. It was known from the begining that Anupama is Toshu's biological mother but we came to know that Sushmita is Titu's mother only during his wedding with Dimpy. Really, Dimpy has began to show her true colors after she married Titu. Shah family has a long list of AnupaMaid's (Anupama, Anuj, Kinjal, Dimpy, Titu). Dimpy, before marrying Titu was Anupama 2.0 who was treated just like a door mat by Vanraj. She had even rebelled against Vanraj turning Ansh to a spoilt brat. But now she is not even bothered about Ansh even though he has failed in some of the subjects in his school. I am afraid that Titu and Dimpy's wedding is slowly turning out to be like Anupama's 2nd wedding with Anuj.

Titu getting married to Dimpy with the below conditions is making a joke of a sacred bond like wedding.

01. Titu agreeing to stay with Dimpy in the Shah house instead of taking her and Ansh away and going with his mother who had sacrificed her life for him.

02. Titu not having any child other than Ansh.

Anupama had trained Titu well to serve the Shah family as their unpaid maid. Money is such a thing which will make any 1 change their colors after getting married. There is no difference between Dimpy after she had got married to Samar for 2nd time and after she had got married to Titu for the 3rd time.

If we see Vanraj command the obedience didn’t come from money he have now.

Just before first leap when he insulted Anupama on Pari’s birthday n threw her out no one from the family stand against him. That time kinjal was uk return n Vanraj had nothing like now but they all respected him unconditionally.

We have never seen Pakhi n Toshu disrespecting him for anything like they disrespect Anupama. Having money or not had nothing to do with that.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

If we see Vanraj command the obedience didn’t come from money he have now.

Just before first leap when he insulted Anupama on Pari’s birthday n threw her out no one from the family stand against him. That time kinjal was uk return n Vanraj had nothing like now but they all respected him unconditionally.

We have never seen Pakhi n Toshu disrespecting him for anything like they disrespect Anupama. Having money or not had nothing to do with that.

Exactly my point.

It is because he recognises and respects what he has. Whether it is power or money. He uses them wisely.

He knows his children are awwal darje ke nikamme and he will have control only till the time he is able to provide for them. In ALL this, the kids needn't suffer. So, he secures his earnings and keeps it from his family while reminding them that they are free to live their life the way they want but away from the luxury at their own way but if they stay under his roof, they stay according to him.

Anuj on the other hand, became a mere Provider, nothing more. His wife never took a stand for him, ever, neither did she respect him. So, the money and power were totally wasted because he himself never recognised nor respected it.

There was a scene way back when a pregnant Kinjal accidentally fell at Kapadia's and Vanraj created a huge ruckus where Barkha is seen telling that "Vanraj may be the trouble maker, others may be very good, but none dares to or can counter him, stop him, including you, Anupama and that is the problem that you cannot recognise the problem".