YRKKH: BTS, SM Updates & Spoilers thread # 27 - Page 97

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

If I may intrude, I think even if it may not be a solution to their troubles, atleast an intent to leave on order to give Rohit some space after explicitly saying he's leaving because of this, is surely entirely different from what Rohit did.. As an addition, and more so primarily, Armaan needs to leave to protect his own self-respect atleast a tiny bit! He needs to tell KP and Rohit that he's always done everything only in the intention of prioritising the family's welfare and while he admits not all of his decisions have been right, he's not able to live with all the blame and abuse being hurled his way wrt his birth and blood. And given the present circumstances he feels it's everyone's and particularly in Rohit's best interest to leave for a while to let things cool down. This doesn't mean he's breaking any ties.. or cutting any chords but he's just taking a time-out like Rohit would!!

Surely this cannot be hard! But the problem is in the name of trying to make up for his mistakes and some unfounded notion of family and love, he's willingly putting up with abuse and shame by these people.. what I don't get is how in god's name can so much vitriol just be forgotten of and whenever things get better

Ar taking a stand for himself and his self respect is something that I am also waiting for. Because that is where his maximum growth would be, not when he just learn to take a stand for the ones he love. But I would like that point to be purely for himself and not for anyone else, even Rohit.

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

I don't necessarily agree that time and distance are always the biggest healers. Sometimes it just causes the distance to widen to a point of no come back especially if there are external factors trying actively to contribute to the same. Rohit had both distance and time with him, did it do him any good? Nope, instead it made him more bitter than when he left.

https://youtu.be/GKoxAdFh2RU?si=sIz0LNUvCEKa9xyz

I don't want to write 4 or 20 words 🤬

Armaan cannot, must not and will not make it about self-respect when it comes to Rohit ..because he is fully aware that he is responsible for Rohit’s state, no matter if it was intentional or otherwise …Rohit has no business calling him names like paraya but his pain and hurt are justified ..however Armaan taking Kaveri’s insults lying down, be it ganda khoon or paraya, and still running around trying to placate her and seek her approval is pathetic to say the least !

Just an opinion

Leaving home is not a solution, the problem remains same. If you want to solve the problem u need to face the problem. Even if Armaan gets married Ruhis hope will not diminish until she moves on,,, or gives another chance to another relationship. with Rohit he is right, but instead of running he could have highlighted the same in front of everyone a year ago.

everyone blaming Armaan what abt Ruhi it was Ruhis fault too.. she wanted Armaan to take the stand. She herself could have told abt her and Armaan affair.. nhi isse tho achi bana rhena hai na.

Armaan changing his core character traits would be 1 of the main plot of rishta. Something drastic will happen that will trigger him.

He is like this since starting, family k aage kuch nahi dikhta, self respect bhi nahi. Kitni baar Kaveri ne use sunaya h but then also he comes back after few minutes and behave normal. Charu and Rohit too did.

Once Abhira told him family ka gulaam and it is almost true......

Abhira who always pointed out how family behave with Armaan and differentiate between him and others especially Rohit. She was the one who made Vidya realised her mistakes. Now when she fell in love with him she is only seeing his wish of living with family but forgot what happened previously. Roz ke taane sunayi nahi de rahe........

She should explain Armaan to leave his family but no vo bhi iske saath shaamil ho gayi.

Till now Ar has no realisation so if Ab will tell anything against his family he'll not like it and would be mad at her.

On one hand Ar was saying to get married without Dadi's permission but on other he wants to live with Dadi and wants to be in her good books.

Originally posted by: maahi11

Just an opinion

Leaving home is not a solution, the problem remains same. If you want to solve the problem u need to face the problem. Even if Armaan gets married Ruhis hope will not diminish until she moves on,,, or gives another chance to another relationship. with Rohit he is right, but instead of running he could have highlighted the same in front of everyone a year ago.

everyone blaming Armaan what abt Ruhi it was Ruhis fault too.. she wanted Armaan to take the stand. She herself could have told abt her and Armaan affair.. nhi isse tho achi bana rhena hai na.

Holding Armaan responsible doesn’t mean letting Ruhi off the hook ..I have already made a post this morning wondering if and how Ruhi can be redeemed after all that she has done and is doing …!

In this generation buddha manish goenka is pro in slapping his jamai.Earlier,he used to slap ar,now it’s time for rohit.Pata nahi dayan ruhi birla bhabhji ki karan aur kitna mar khayega bechare poddar brothers.

Originally posted by: maahi11

Just an opinion

Leaving home is not a solution, the problem remains same. If you want to solve the problem u need to face the problem. Even if Armaan gets married Ruhis hope will not diminish until she moves on,,, or gives another chance to another relationship. with Rohit he is right, but instead of running he could have highlighted the same in front of everyone a year ago.

everyone blaming Armaan what abt Ruhi it was Ruhis fault too.. she wanted Armaan to take the stand. She herself could have told abt her and Armaan affair.. nhi isse tho achi bana rhena hai na.

It's only Rohit and daadi who are blaming Roohi-Armaan otherwise all the family members have accepted them as it is.😃😃

Ruhi had been a kid who got everything, yes her childhood was not as simple as others but if we see Goenka’s and Armaan kiska tha..

Everyone got a traumatic childhood. But the mistake they made was not reprimanding Ruhi at correct time. And for me, if Goenka’s were at fault so was Akshara

I have read post here where everyone blame Goenka’s for Askshara’s condition, for me it was Akshara’s decision, she could have told Goenka’s the truth if not Ruhi.

edited for mentioning Gen 3 storylines