🌸🌸𝓙𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓪𝓴 Written Update And Episode Discussion thread 64🌸🌸 - Page 67

Originally posted by: vira76

I agree with you... all three are dumbheads. Extremes in one quality. in J mahanata rules, Ani care rules, Arshi tolerance, and blind love rules...or ruled past tense

In terms of ani and Arshi's relationship situation, I was talking about how both did not have enough faith in each other or did not love each other enough whatever you want to call it... Jhanak is not responsible for their relationship situation.

The whole situation in general yes all three are to be blamed. Khud ki, doosaro ki , sab ki life jhand karake rakhi hai! you are right Arshi will always stay evil in my dictionary as well because, at the end of the day, the decision you make makes or breaks who you are. But what wanted to imply was she is not the sole person responsible or the sole person with gray colors... and because other two are also responsible, i do not want to deny her feeling hurt. Evil does not mean she does not have feelings... but yes she is a vamp and i do not like her as human being ... oh but i am gonna like her as a vamp because now she is making decision on her own, not under the influence of her mother or ani... so now she is what she is and we will get to see that character growth.

Lets hope runak also grows up! I always though arshi will be the last person to wake up but here she is the first one to wake up! lol 😂

Like you I want to see her the total vamp than being the victim because clearly she isn’t one.

Originally posted by: vira76

The first paragraph, sure all of that is something we know of and that is why we oppose her but that is not something Anirudh knows. She never showed it in front of Anirudh...Anirudh never had enough reasons to break up with her. He always said, break up with me Arshi if you want... not the other way around.

You can question her love all you want but then again, we need to question Anirudh's love as well for Jhanak as well as for Arshi, as he is questioning that himself yesterday. 😂

We don't know anything about their past relationship. All we know is that they were in love, and happy with each other. I do not want to say, that she never loved Anirudh, she cared for him, she was heartbroken when he was in the hospital, and she blindly trusted his words, and she imagined a life with him... yes her love might not have been as pure in our dictionary, came with conditions applied and it changed and degraded gradually because her insecurities got better of her since well anirudh hid the fact from her that he was married to someone lol. A normal person will break up at that point but she chose to continue because of her mother and somewhat because of her own darker side as well. Her reactions yesterday were justified but her decisions are not, and that is what makes her a bad person.

If her love changed, Anirudh's as well... Her love turned into hatred and Anirudh's love turned into just a responsibility, a bond that is simply there for namesake. Neither of them knows what love means then... If Arshi was marrying Anirudh out of revenge, Anirudh is also marrying Arshi just because he is pressured, he does not truly love her. If I put myself in Arshi's shoes, I would have reacted the same way as well, I understand his good intentions but how dare he marry me when he has someone else in his heart?

From Anirudh's POV, he is trying to do the right thing, this 29-year-old BokoBose has the emotional intelligence of a 9-year-old kid. But his trying to do the right thing from his POV, trying to keep everyone happy, the logical-minded dude... but that does not mean he is doing the right thing to arshi.

I feel for him, I do but what arshi said yesterday is something he needed to hear. If he was emotionally abused by his parents, well then arshi has the most despicable mother of all! Both are emotionally cheating on each other and grew up in a toxic family environment... Both are to be blamed for their relationship. and I don't want to deny arshi the right to be hurt because she is an evil person at heart.

Vira…Bold… absolutely

Just because the writers haven’t focused on their relationship doesn’t mean they couldn’t have meant something to each other. Like I mentioned in another post, her lack of ethics in how she handled the relationship with jhanak is definitely an important thing but her questions for Ani have a place of their own. The moral argument triumphs at this moment. A catalyst will demand a high price of the hero and this situation tells us why…

Arshi's involvement I don't think so...

bold: haha! I will always be puzzled about that part! this sudden realization of how Ani is cheating on her when she was ready to marry him

See I agree her love is not true, far from ideal. She is an evil person at heart. She had chances to break up and do something different but she did not. I agree with you all you said. Her love is far from ideal. She doubted Ani and was insecure about him since day one and she let that get the better of her. What I don't want to claim is that she never ever cared for Ani or loved him in her own way even a little bit... because she did. Not as much as her own ego because her love really changed with just seeing Ani talking to Jhanak... lol but that is her.. that is who she is...

I love it that now she is showing her true colors, because now now we can actually bash her. Because now she is finally free from her mom's influence and Ani's influence. She is doing things on her own accord. Now she is much more real to me, I was like why is this woman who is so successful acting like this like she has no self-respect? Yesterday she showed some self-respect... I was able to relate to her. What they did as a sudden change should have happened gradually ... But I am hoping this will give a push to Ani to now to look at himself in the mirror as well...

To me its not going to be whats right and wrong... i just like to see things from different perspectives and characters perspectives and understand it..

Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae

Wasnt it shown something Anirudh knows about Arshi involvement.... I dont remember now. Ok may be he doesnt know.

Its much before Anirudh Arshi had doubts his relation with Jhanak. If she really cared for him , she could have helped him instead of saying to him on face ' I wont accept defeat from a random ,girl like Jhanak ' . At that time I dont think Anirudh had love for Jhanak , but ofcourse he had deep like for her . Had she helped him there , she could have atleast not lost Anirudh. But she chose to be selfish.

Yes , both have made mistakes in their life . But this new found self respect of Arshi could have jumped out few days before and broke off from Anirudh which would have made her more appealing.

All of a sudden she realising everything wrong and Anirudh cheating her when he is caring her and making efforts to make their relation work is too over done . Specially before this she was happily getting married to him , so both wanted to get married to show Jhanak, now she is gone , both are least bothered about them .

She is also brought up by Shristi in a bad way ., but she has a Vinayak who is showing her right oath...but she choosing it or not is entirely different thing ...but poor Anirudh didnt have both parents back then and now also. His life is his sole decision. So whatever happens , he takes up the responsibilty as he knows it is his decision. Whereas Arshi always finds someone to justify her part and blames the opposite person.Arshi is being pampered from both sides even now.

Lets see her sudden realisation helps Jhanak and Anirudh to get close..otherwise this too will be like the Shadi's of the show , no result .Just uplift the female characters .

Originally posted by: Manoshono

@bold: you know I started to have this faith about Arshi being the first to wake up ever since in the past when she told Ani danke ki chot pe on his face that she feels he likes Jhanak. 😂

Like you I want to see her the total vamp than being the victim because clearly she isn’t one.

The way she had questioned Jhanak after birthday night and her I wont lose to a random girl ....was almost a hint of her questioning Anirudh.

With Anirudh telling her clearly , How can you remove Jhanak from my conscience....she should have questioned him long before...

They just dragged it for trp.....and may be a better reunion for Anirudh and Jhanak than this circumstantial marriage .

Originally posted by: Manoshono

I am anti-Arshi like you Maya 🤗

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Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae

The way she had questioned Jhanak after birthday night and her I wont lose to a random girl ....was almost a hint of her questioning Anirudh.

With Anirudh telling her clearly , How can tou remove Jhanak from my conscience....she should have questioned him long before...

They just dragged it for trp.....and may be a better reunion for Anirudh and Jhanak than this circumstantial marriage .

A dragging has certainly occurred 😂😂 one would have to be blind not to see the tension between the leads 😀😀 it’s just that in that fire some grey cells got activated

Originally posted by: vira76

Arshi's involvement I don't think so...

bold: haha! I will always be puzzled about that part! this sudden realization of how Ani is cheating on her when she was ready to marry him

See I agree her love is not true, far from ideal. She is an evil person at heart. She had chances to break up and do something different but she did not. I agree with you all you said. Her love is far from ideal. She doubted Ani and was insecure about him since day one and she let that get the better of her. What I don't want to claim is that she never ever cared for Ani or loved him in her own way even a little bit... because she did. Not as much as her own ego because her love really changed with just seeing Ani talking to Jhanak... lol but that is her.. that is who she is...

I love it that now she is showing her true colors, because now now we can actually bash her. Because now she is finally free from her mom's influence and Ani's influence. She is doing things on her own accord. Now she is much more real to me, I was like why is this woman who is so successful acting like this like she has no self-respect? Yesterday she showed some self-respect... I was able to relate to her. What they did as a sudden change should have happened gradually ... But I am hoping this will give a push to Ani to now to look at himself in the mirror as well...

To me its not going to be whats right and wrong... i just like to see things from different perspectives and characters perspectives and understand it..

For me too different perspective ....and character perspective...and for me this is my understanding ...

They could have shown her to question him when he said even if I remove the ring.....instead they made her just walk out crying...and next day she was all ok....

This Anirudh has suddenly standing too guilt ridden , accepting all her claims...

Both of them had role reversal all of a sudden ....unbelievable .

lol yes I slowly and steadily started to believe after her return from hospital that she gonna wake up first ... we never gave her any credit as she always came back to BH every single day like she had no self-respect but behen ne kal zande gadh diye 😂

Originally posted by: Manoshono

@bold: you know I started to have this faith about Arshi being the first to wake up ever since in the past when she told Ani danke ki chot pe on his face that she feels he likes Jhanak. 😂

Like you I want to see her the total vamp than being the victim because clearly she isn’t one.

yes, and that is maker's black magic as always ... instead of gradual changes where we can predict where the story is heading, they like to drag it till the end so it creates suspense and an impact... so people keep watching 15 trash episodes to find out what happens in the final one.. like they did yesterday

Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae

For me too different perspective ....and character perspective...and for me this is my understanding ...

Theu could have shown her to question him when he said even if I remove the ring.....instead they made her just walk our crying...and next day she was all ok....

This Anirudh has suddenly standing too guilt ridden , accepting all her claims...

Both of them had role reversal all of a sudden ....unbelievable .

Originally posted by: MMR2810

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Of course Mayuri

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